Chapter 9 Marriage and Relationship Education Flashcards
“Marriage is the first bond of society” was said by who?
Marcus Tullius CICERO
Recent scholarly summaries have detailed the various ____ , _____ , ______ , and _____ benefits of happy marriage to the couple themselves, to the children raised within these unions, and to the broader society
social
physical
sexual
economic
general US population still have between what percent of ending marriage?
40 - 50%
what is the answer to increase the chance of happy and stable unions?
Marriage and relationship education (MRE) which is a subspecialty of FLE
Marriage and Relationship Education is what?
any preventative effort to help couples gain knowledge, attitudes, and skills necessary to establish and maintain a healthy couple relationship
marriage educators work preventatively - they work “____”
upstream
to help couples anticipate and avoid serious disruption through the learning and practice of marital virtues, science supported principles, and skills
earliest forms of MRE can be traced back to what year?
1930’s
in the 1930’s MRE started as a premarital education program established where?
merrill-palmer institute
early premarital counseling was established where?
Philadelphia marriage council which included a strong educational emphasis
____ played a key role in premarital educational efforts through premarital counseling
churches
Berger and Hannah provide what?
preventative approaches in couples therapy
cognitive behavioral perspective
found in 8 of 13 approaches
assumes that couples can be taught, in an educational setting, ways of thinking (attitudes and expectations) and behaving (communication and conflict management) that enhance their chances for successful marriage
3 emphasis of marital process research
marital disruption and understanding the processes that lead to MARITAL BREAKDOWN
- focuses on communication process, how conflict is managed and addresses problems
INTERPERSONAL characteristics of spouses and positive interpersonal processes for establishing and maintaining a strong, healthy marriage
- marital virtues or spousal strengths such as positivity, friendship, and generosity, fondness, admiration, affection and respect, humility, compassion, positivity
attention to elements some scholars call “TRANSFORMATIVE processes in marriage” which include forgiveness, commitment, sacrifice, and sanctification
Sound marital house theory
has deep marital friendship as foundation
includes:
friendship elements
- love maps
- fondness and admiration
- positivity
- turning to each other
regulation of conflict
creating share meaning
- meshing individual and family life dreams together
Marital Virtues perspective
the best way to a good marriage is to be a good person
friendship, loyalty, generosity, and justice
skills operate in value centered culture. you listen well because you are patient and generous