Chapter 6 Part 2 Flashcards
1
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punishment vs. discipline
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- punishment: a consequence that causes an individual’s behaviour to occur with less frequency
- discipline: teaching/guiding
2
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7 types of discipline
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- power-assertion
- inductive discipline
- positive discipline
- proactive discipline
- love withdrawal
- shaming
- guilt-induction
3
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power assertion
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- using power/authority to force someone to do something (may be verbal, physical, etc.)
- no explanation provided
4
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inductive discipline
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- explaining why a punishment is given or why a rule exists
- better than power assertion -> provides more opportunity for teaching
- not as effective for hyperactive kids
5
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positive discipline
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- replace punishment with reinforcement as much as possible
- when using punishment, use logical or natural consequences rather than global ones (avoid using the same punishment for everything)
- should be preferred discipline style
6
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natural consequences
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- parent does nothing, instead allowing natural consequence to unfold
- ex. rather than punishing them for eating dinner, let them face the natural consequence of going to bed hungry
7
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logical consequences
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- planned consequence logically related to fixing the problem
- ie. if a kid breaks an object, consequence would be having them use their allowance to replace the item
8
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proactive discipline
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- trying to prevent behaviour from occurring
- important during pre-school years
- ex. not allowing 2 kids to sit beside each other when they go out for dinner to prevent fighting
9
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love withdrawal
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- withholding affection when the child misbehaves
- should not be used because it’s a form of psychological control
10
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shaming
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- humiliating/embarrassing child, attacking child’s sense of self
- should not be used because it’s a form of psychological control
11
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guilt-induction
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- making child feel bad/guilty about behaviour
- theoretically increases child’s empathy by forcing them to take perspective of someone else (ie. “how do you think hitting that boy made him feel?”)
- focuses on behaviour (not self)
- should be used sparingly because it’s a form of psychological control
12
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Baumrind’s 4 dimensions of parenting
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- level of warmth and responsiveness
- level of clarity and consistency
- level of maturity demands
- level of communication
13
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level of warmth and responsiveness
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- are you warm, or do your kids fear you?
- are you responsive (adapt based on child’s cues), or are you a dictator (don’t adapt)?
14
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level of clarity and consistency
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- do you have clear rules, and consequences when those rules are broken?
- do you have consistent follow-through with those consequences?
15
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level of maturity demands
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- some parents have higher standards for acceptable behaviour than others
- ex. expecting kids to do chores = higher standard