Chapter 3 (2) Flashcards
Who coined the term “the social me” which refers to what we know about ourselves from ______ _______
this lead to the ______ ______
William James
social relationships
the social self
William james said
“our sense of who we are in forged in large part by our _______ with _______”
“our sense of who we are in forged in large part by our interactions with others”
define the self
The self - mental apparatus allows people to think consciously about themselves
How is the self concept formed?
(2 theories)
1 - the looking glass self (Cooley)
2 -social comparison theory (Festinger)
Lack of self insight can sometimes be ____________
Most of the time it’s because we don’t have access to certain __________ ________
Self-protective
Cognitive resources
We tend to think of ourselves as our own best expert
How well do others do at anticipating our behaviour, in comparison to ourselves
Reports of close others are as accurate as our own in anticipating behaviour
________ is how individuals interpret information, events, or people, shaping their subjective understanding and reactions to them
we base much of our self knowledge on this
construal
eg. A person may construe their occasional mistakes at work as evidence of incompetence, leading them to have low self-esteem about their job performance.
self-knowledge is sotred in _____-______
self-schemas
whats a self schema
a self schema represents people’s beliefs and feelings about themselves, both in general and in particular situations
Experiment on self-schemas (markus):
P’s labelled themselves as either dependent or independent, or in the middle of the scale
how did markus label them after
extremes of dependent and independent = schematic
middle of scale = aschematic
Experiment on self-schemas (markus):
weeks later came back asn rated schema-relevant traits and t or f
results?
schematic P’s answered faster , had more examples of behaviour consistent with their schema
suggests that ppl are atuned to information that maps onto an existing self-schema
we learn what attitudes and behaviours are socially appropriate from _________ _______
socialization agents
eg. parents, peers, siblings
“the ______ ______ ______” is a phrase coined by Cooley
refers to the idea that other peopls’s _______ to us (approval or disapproval) serves as a mirror of sorts
self-knowledge is derived in part from reflected ______ ______-_______ - our beleif about others’ reactions to us
“the looking glass self” is a phrase coined by Cooley
refers to the idea that other peopls’s reaction to us (approval or disapproval) serves as a mirror of sorts
self-knowledge is derived in part from reflected self-appraisals - our beleif about others’ reactions to us
“the looking glass self”
we internalize how we _______ others see us, not how they _______ see us
we internalize how we think others see us, not how they actually see us
the notion that the social self changes across different contexts is consistent with _________
situationism
Markus and Wurf coind the term _______ ______-________
the idea that only a subset of a persons’s self knowledge it brought to mind in any given context
usually this subset is most relevant to the situation
working self-concept
In a social setting, a person’s working self-concept may include seeing themselves as outgoing and talkative, but in a different context, such as a library, they may see themselves as quiet and reserved
what is this an example of
working self-concept
if our sense of self shifts depending on social context (malleability), what makes us feel as if we have a core self (stability)?
(hint, there are 3)
- there are core aspects of self-knowledge that we think of first when thinking about the self
- pool of self knowledge remains stable over time, different pieces of it come to the forefront in diff contexts
- the sens of self shifts’ conform to a predictable, stable pattern
the social self is defined by what two truths?
it is malleable, shifting from one context to another
but it also has core components that persist accorss contexts
western culture tend to has an _________ ____-______
define it
independent self-construal
the self is an autonomous entitiy that is distinct and separate from others
eastern cultures tend to have an ___________ _____-________
define it
interdependent self construal
the self is fundementally connected to other people
__________ experience events from the inside out
________ experience events from the outside in
explain
westerners - inside out
they are at the center, looking out at the world
easterners - outside in
starting at the social world, looking/focusing in on them as an object of attention
interdependent/independent:
which is someone more likely to describe tehmself as
“i am freindly”
“i am serious at work”
“i am Jans friend”
“i like camping”
interdependent
“i am serious at work”
“i am Jans friend”
independent
“i am freindly”
“i like camping”
women in the US tend ot be more ________
men in the US tend to be more _________
women in the US tend to be more interdependent
men in the US tend to be more independent
where to gender differences in the self-construal come from?
socialization - especially how girls and boys are raised differently
gender roles - as adults, these gender roles amplify the socialization
biological differences - both^^ reinforce biological differences bet men and women
people actively seeking out information about themselves by comparing themselves to other people is known as
who coined it
social comparions theory
Leon festinger
how does Festinger say we “accurately” compare ourselves to others
by comparing yourself to someone who is roughly your level of skill
Eg. wouldn’t compare my score on a test to the professors
_______ ______ ______ -comparison yourself to someone that is better than you
________ _______ ______ - comparing yourself to someone who’s worse off than you are
Upward social comparison - comparison yourself to someone that is better than you
Downward social comparison - involves comparing yourself to someone who’s worse off than you are
________ social comparison Usually makes you feel better about yourself
Downward social comparison
Upward social comparison
pro and con?
Useful to motivate improvement ( but only if improvement is possible)
Can lead to anger/resentment (relative deprivation)when we feel we deserve better
____-_______ refers to the overall positive or negative view someone has of themself
self-etseem
what is trait self-esteem
a person’s enduring level of self-regard across time
generally stable throughout lifetime
just like your working self-concept, your ______ self-esteem changes depending on contect
state self-esteem
what is state self esteem
the changable self-evalutations a person experienes as momentary feelinfs about the self