Chapter 15 Flashcards
personality interacts with situations in the social environment in 3 ways: _____, _____, ______ -> social environment
selection, evocation, manipulation
everyday we make choices (small, big, become part of larger decision). personality characteristics of others influence if we choose them as friends, dates or mates. our personality characteristics play role in kinds of situations we select to enter and stay in. ie extrovert will chose environments that are going to help expose them to different people, place selves in loud action packed situations, and hang out with mates/people who have similar interests. determines much of social world. ie, marriage selection shows how it works as when asked to pick 3 most important characteristics, mutual love/attraction is the ____ favoured especially in individualized society, dependibility is also ___ ranked personality characteristic, followed by emo stability/low neuro and pleasing disposition
involves _____ selection (should I attend this party, should I take the job). ______ selection emphasizes eco mechanism of selection when choosing a partner - you pick social acts you will experience and a network of friends and family
selection, most, most, situational, mate
postulates opposites attract
complimentary needs theory
states we are drawn to those who are most similar. people dominant may be attracted to dominant people because they like someone who oushes back, as people may also like extraverts if they’re extraverted so they can party together
attraction simularity theory
theory that has stood test of time / experimental compared to complimentary needs theory and attraction simularity. says that people intercact w, prefer company of, and marry those similar in personality to them. also seen in physical traits like height, ses, ear lobe length
people pick those who are most similar to selves even across physical characteristics like nose breadth, weight
assortative mating
botwin studied dating and married couples. correlated preferences for big 5 desired in a mate and their own traits, correlations werew consistently -_____, between own personality and ideal partner meaning people look for these mates. actual personality of obtained mates was also examined, and ____ people get the mates they wnat on average for personality especially prevalent w ____ and _____. people are happier if married to partners who are high on agreeableness, openness to experience and emo stability which is the _____ _____: people rate partners higher on these 3 and then they decrease over the years.
positive, most, extraversion, openness, honeymoon effect
says break ups should be more common when one’s partner does not posses desired characteristics (are violated compared to when fulfilled). people seek dependible and emo stab, and those who fail to chose are at a higher risk for divorce, along with those who fail to get what they want - including a similar mate
violation of desire theory
once we select others in social environment, another set of processes is employed in how we behave in the environment (response is illicited), unintentional, our personality characteristics evoke responses. seen in aggression/hostility. ____ ____ ___ looks at how hostile people infer hostile intent on part of others in face of uncertain behaviour from others, you will treat them more aggressively.
evocation, hostile atttibution bias
in relationships, 2 ways anger is evoked: _____ ____that evoke a response - (getting mad about a messy house) or __ ____ that upset original elicitor
perform actions, elicit actions
form of evocation where peoples beliefs about personality characteristics of others cause them to evoke in others actions that are consistent with initial beliefs snyder and swann studied this and found that peoples beliefs ___ lead them to behave aggressively toward unsuspecting target, then target ____ behave more aggressively which ___ confirm initial beliefs
expectancy confirmation. did, did, did
also called social influence. includes how we intentionally or unintentionally alter, change or exploit others. no negative connotations in this context. personality is linked to how we exploit people in environment. ask if some are more manipulatiev than others, if yes what personality characteristics predict? ie. Andrew trying to charm then boast, then coercion.
manipulation
2 step process of manipulation. how many tactics were found?
- nomination acts of influence - what do you do when yiou want someone to do something for you like a chore?
- factor analysis of self report and observer reports of nominated acts
11 total
i try to be loving when asking them do do it
charm
i yell at them until they do it
coercion
i dont respontd until they do it
silent treatment
i explain why i want them to do it
reason
i whine until they do it
regression
i act submissive until they do it
self abasement
i get them to make a commitment to doing it
responsibility invocation
i hit them so theyll do it
hardball
i shown them how fun it is so theyll do it
pleasure induction
i tell them everyone else is doing it
social comparison
i offerthem money so they will do it
monetary reward
high extraversion/dominance predicts to 2 manip techniques
coercion, repsonibility invocation