Attraction Flashcards
What are the rules of attraction?
both geographical nearness and functional distance predict liking
How does availability and proximity effect attraction?
encountering other people allows for and encourages the formation of new relationships
What is anticipatory liking?
the expectation that someone will be compatible and pleasant
What is the mere exposure effect?
The idea that repeated exposure to a stimulus, such as an object or a person, leads to greater liking of the stimulus
What is fuctional distance?
The influence of physical layout that encourages or inhibits certain activities, including contact between people
Why does mere exposure cause attraction?
classical conditioning, fluency,
How does fluency influence mere exposure?
easier to process info about familiar stimuli
How does similarity influence attraction?
friends and romantic partners tend to be similar in beliefs and other characteristics
How does social validation promote similarity?
similar others have similar beliefs, we feel uncomfortable around people who challenge our beliefs
How do more fluent interactions influence similarity?
interacting with people similar to ourselves is often easier
less conflict over which activities are desirable and greater ability to understand other person choice
What is the false consensus bias?
individuals assume that their personal qualities, characteristics, beliefs, and actions are relatively widespread through the general population
What is the halo effect?
The common belief (accurate or not) that attractive individuals possess a host of positive qualities beyond their physical appearance
What is attitude alignment?
a phenomenon where people change their attitudes to be more similar to the attitudes of others
What are complimentary opposites?
the tendency to seek out others with characteristics that compliment their own
What is the status exchange hypothesis?
a sociological theory that suggests that people in interracial marriages exchange one social status for another
What is the pratfall effect?
is a psychological phenomenon where a person’s likability increases if they make a mistake or display a humanizing flaw, especially if they are otherwise perceived as competent or high-performing
What is reciprocal liking?
we like those who like us back
What are the effects of overestimating attraction?
effects of a blow to our self esteem (eg rebound relationships), low self esteem
What are the benefits of physical attractiveness?
more popular as friends. better liked as potential romantic partners
What are the physical attractiveness features of women?
large eyes, small nose, small chin, full lips, prominent cheekbones, narrow cheeks
What are the physical attractiveness features of men?
strong jaw, broad forehead, broad shoulders
Why does attractiveness matter?
immediacy, prestige, halo effect
What is the matching phenomenon?
the tendency for men and women to choose as partners those who are a good match in attractiveness and other traits
What are the most attractive faces?
faces that are more average (less abnormal)
What is paradox of choice?
an abundance of choice leads people to be less happy with the choices they do make
What is the gain loss theory of attraction?
is a psychological concept that explains how changes in someone’s perception of us influence our feelings of attraction toward them
How does positive behaviour influence the gain loss theory of attraction?
increases in positive behaviour has more of an impact on us than constantly rewarding behaviour from that person
When do we like someone the most?
in a gain situation