Attraction Flashcards

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1
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define a psychological need

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A mechanism for regulating behaviour to acquire the tangible or intangible resources necessary for survival and well-being

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what happens when a psychological need is not met

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Mental and physical health decline
Loneliness and social rejection

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How is loneliness measured in a lab

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  • Cyberball - robots posed as other students throw ball whilst excluding actual participant
  • Measure consumption afterwards e.g. how much they drank
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what would evolutionary perspectives suggest about a need to belong

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-The motive to belong is universal –Behaviours seen in children worldwide and not in other species
-reproduction is more successful in stable and close relationships

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how does proximity play a role in relationship development

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-requires physical closeness to lead to greater comfort and attraction

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what is the reward model of liking

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-people like others they associate with positive stimuli
-like or dislike of a person can be simply due to the mood they were in when they met

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define transference

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When meeting new people you transfer feelings from someone who you already know

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why is similarity of attitudes a strong determinant of attraction

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sharing interests validates own view of the world

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what is the norm of reciprocity

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-being liked first is a strong initial factor of attraction
-people anticipate rewards from people who like them

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when does flattery become innaffective

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if an ulterior motive is noticeable

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example of opposites attracting

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highly masculine men often prefer highly feminine women
tend to prefer opposites in terms of dominance and submissiveness

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what does gain loss theory suggest

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Liking is highest for others when they increase their positivity toward you over time

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13
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when is a compliment more potent

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when from someone who has never complimented you before

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14
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what role does physical attractiveness play

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Can influence political decisions, popularity, and dating frequency

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why is physical attractiveness important

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-pleasant to look at attractive people (rewards)
-contributes to sexual appeal

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what is the halo effect

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Assumption people with one positive attribute (attractiveness) must have other positive traits

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how does culture play a role in physical attractiveness

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beauty standards tend to vary across cultures

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evidence of averageness being key to physical attraction

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The more real faces that are used to create the composite face, the more attractive a composite face is perceived

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why are we attracted to averageness according to evolutionary psychology

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they signal good health for mating potential

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what are the gender differences of the role of physical attraction

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-men tend to report physical attractiveness as a key factor to relationships more than women

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21
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what are women more likely to be attracted to over physicality

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financial status and resources

22
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gender differences for views on sex

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women - tend to see sex as part of an emotionally intimate relationship
men - more likely to have casual sex outside a relationship - want sex sooner and more often

23
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what is interdependence as a component of closeness

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A situation in which what each person does significantly influences what the partner does over long periods of time

24
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what is mutuality as a component of closeness

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Partners’ acknowledgment that their lives are intertwined and thinking of themselves as a couple (“us”) instead of as separate individuals

25
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what is commitment as a component of closeness

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Partners’ investment of time, effort, and resources in their relationship, with the expectation that it will continue indefinitely

26
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what is a parasocial relationship

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Relationships with people in the media e.g. celebrities
Usually lack interdependence

27
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what are common costs of close relationships

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Can be demanding
May require sacrifice
Can be a source of stress, frustration and emotional pain

28
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what are common benefits of close relationships

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Facilitate day to day activities
Share labour and pool resources
Provide advice and consolation

29
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Pope’s definition of romantic love

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romantic love is preoccupation, deep desire, despair in separation, and joy in reunion

30
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Berscheid’s definition of love

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a strong, positive feeling we have toward someone/something we care deeply about

31
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Fisher’s definition of love

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focus of attention, feelings, desire; source of meaning and value; joy and despair

32
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what neuroscientific evidence is there for love

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Increased activity of dopamine (reward) areas occurs when loved one is contemplated

33
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what does culture influence

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-what love looks like
how to act on feelings of romantic love

34
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what does attachment theory suggest

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three major forms of attachment stemmed from child-maternal interactions
attachment type tends to persist into adult relationships

35
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what are the three attachment types and their prevalence

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secure - 60%
anxious/ambivalent - 20%
avoidant - 20%

36
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who are relationships more likely to be satisfying and long term with

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secure attachment for both members
anxious women and avoidant men

37
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how are relationships related to terror management theory

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Help each other manage the threat of mortality by giving life meaning and reinforcing self-worth
- having children and therefore living on in some way

38
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what does the self expansion model suggest

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Romantic relationships serve the desire to expand the self (self schema)

39
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relationships in 1700s-1800s

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marriage geared towards resolving practical concerns

40
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relationships 1800-1960s

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breadwinner model dominated

41
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relationships 1960s - present

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Marriage results in greater sense of life satisfaction and self growth

42
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what are the main stages in the course of a romantic relationships

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physical attraction
self disclosure
rose coloured lenses
adjusting to interdependency
marital satisfaction

43
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what is the value stage

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comparing attitudes or values

44
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what is the role stage

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establishing roles to maintain relationships

45
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what does the rose coloured lenses stage mean

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people long to have a perfect romantic partner
positive illusions - negatives ignored

46
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how does adjusting to interdependency occur

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Beginning of a romantic relationship is marked by a rapid rise in satisfaction
Satisfaction levels off

47
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what happens after turbulence occurs

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satisfaction increases gradually again

48
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when does turbulence in a relationship occur

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-during major life events
-more common in younger ages

49
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when do marital satisfaction drops tend to occur

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first year and eight year

50
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what may cause decreases in marital satisfaction

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unrealistic expectations
challenges of parenthood
decrease in passionate love

51
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what does interdependence theory involve

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assessing:
-satisfaction
-investments
-alternatives