Week 5 Flashcards
- reasonsWhy is there a decline
- lack of effort 2. interdependency is a magnifying glass 3. access to weaponry 4. unrealistic expectations
What are three attributes of friendship
affection, communion and companionship
Compared to romances friendships are 3 things
less passionate, less exclusive, less confining, entailing fewer obligations to ones partner
Attributes of friendships: respect ovvurs when, trust occurs when
Respect occurs when people admire their friends and hold them
in high esteem.
* Trust occurs when people are confident that friends will behave
benevolently toward them.
Responsiveness involves attentive and supporitive recognition of our
needs and interests
Responsiveness in action: 6 ways to win friends and influence people
Become genuinly interested in other people 2. smile 3 Remember that a person’s name is to them the
most important sound in any language.
4. Be a good listener.
5. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
6. Make the other person feel important – and do
it sincerely.
Attributes of friendship: capitalization
occurs when others
enthusiastically enhance our
happiness by being excited when
good things happen to us.
Support may come in 4 forms
emotional, physical, advice and material
What generally are rules of friendships
are shared cultural beliefs about what
behaviours friends should and should not perform.
Friendships across the life cycle: infancy: toddlers play together
r cooperatively and take
evident pleasure in each other’s company.
toddlers have rudimentary friendships which include 6 things name 3
attachment, emotional bonds, limited social interaction
Childhood friendships involve
Play-based friendships
* Shared interests
* Social learning
* Imaginary play
What is theory of mind
ability to infer peoples mental states; the ability to use this information to interpret what others say, make sense of their behaviour and predict what they do next
Childhood: from approximately 4-7 years f age friendship is viewed concretely-
easily started and terminated, however conflict is easily resolved
childhood ages 8-10 have
mutual trust and assistance
Friendships become psychologically based
Different interpersonal needs are emphasized at different ages: elementary school, intamacy, sexuality
elementary: acceptance
middle school: intimacy
high school: sexuality