week 1 Flashcards

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7 components of intimacy

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knowledge, interdependence, caring, mutuality, trust responsiveness and commitment

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What does knowledge mean about intimacy?

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intimate partners have extensive, personal, condifidential info on eachother

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interdependence in intimacy mean

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intimate partners have strong, diverse and enduring influence on eachother

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caring in reference with intimate relationships

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Intimate partners feel more affection for one another than they do for most others

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mutuality in reference with intimate relationships

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intimate partners think of themselves as a couple instead of two entirely separate individuals

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Trust in intamacy refers to

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intimate partners expect
treatment from one another that is fair and
honorable

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responsiveness

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intimate partners are
attentive to each other’s needs, and they
support each other more effectively than
they do most others.

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Commitment refers to

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intimate partners expect
their relationship to continue, and they
work to realize that goal.

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Why do intimate relationships matter

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the need to belong

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Why do intimate relationships matter: people suffer both mentally and physically when they lack

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intimacy

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a tendency to form stable, affectionate, connections to others may have been…

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evolutionary adaptive

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what model displays intimate relationships matter?

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Maslow’s hierarchy of needs

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What was found with healthy couples and poor marital couples get diagnosed with an illness. Whats the trend of death in these groups

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people with illness live longer if there in better marital quality

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Influence of culture: people are marrying more or less

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marrying less

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what is the trend for how long people wait to get married

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people are waiting longer to marry

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what percent of marriages end in divorce?

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Most children live in a single—parent home sometime during

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their childhood

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What are 3 reasons cultural norms changed?

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socioeconomic development, increasing individualism, technology

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Influence of experience: infants interactions with their caregivers shape their

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attachment style- their learned orientations toward relationships with others

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Were all individuals with our own combinations of experience and traits: 5 traits

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  1. Sex differences.
  2. Gender differences.
  3. Personality.
  4. Self-esteem.
  5. Sexual orientation.
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Sex differences: Stereotypes suggest that man and women have little in common, so the ranges of their traits and interests are

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completely separate

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Actual sex differences take the form of

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overlapping normal curves and most sex differences are rather small

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Sex differences refer to

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biological distinctions between man and women

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gender differences refer to

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social and psychological distinctions created by our cultures and upbrining

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What are gender roles?
Patterns of behaviour that are expected of normal men and women
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Male gender role expectation?
Men are expected to be masculine or assertive, self-reliant, decisive and competitive.
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female gender role expectation
Women are expected to be warm, sensitive, emotionally expressive and kind.
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Individual differences: 5 big personality traits
agreeableness, extraversion, conscientiousness, neuroticism, open-mindedness
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What of the five traits are influential in intimate relationships?
Agreeable and extroverted people are cheerful and enthusiastic. Conscientious people keep their promises people high in negative emotionality are pessimistic and argumentative
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What is soclometer theory?
Self-esteem is a gauge that measures the quality of our relationships with others. When others like us, we like ourselves
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like gender, sexual orientation is complex, being comprised of 3 things
identities, attractions and behaviours
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compare same sex couples vs hetrosexual sex couples
Same-sex couples have better relationships than heteros do
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evolution may have instilled in us certain tendencies that shape our
relationtionships
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what are three assumptions of evolutionary psychology?
sexual selection has sculpted our species men and women differ only to the extent that they have faced different reproductive dilemmas 3. cultures determine whether certain behaviours are adaptive and cultural changes occur faster than human nature
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What different reproductive dilemas do mena and women face? what is parental investment
: men and women differ enormously in the minimum time and biological effort they have to provide to each child they produce.
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what is paternity uncertinity
men, but not women, may face doubts about whether or not a particular child is theirs.
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influence of interactions: relationships emerge from the combination of the partners
experiences and talents and are often much more than the sum of those parts
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relationships are also fluid, blank processesses rather than static blank things
Relationships are also fluid, dynamic processes rather than static, changeless things.