week 1 Flashcards
7 components of intimacy
knowledge, interdependence, caring, mutuality, trust responsiveness and commitment
What does knowledge mean about intimacy?
intimate partners have extensive, personal, condifidential info on eachother
interdependence in intimacy mean
intimate partners have strong, diverse and enduring influence on eachother
caring in reference with intimate relationships
Intimate partners feel more affection for one another than they do for most others
mutuality in reference with intimate relationships
intimate partners think of themselves as a couple instead of two entirely separate individuals
Trust in intamacy refers to
intimate partners expect
treatment from one another that is fair and
honorable
responsiveness
intimate partners are
attentive to each other’s needs, and they
support each other more effectively than
they do most others.
Commitment refers to
intimate partners expect
their relationship to continue, and they
work to realize that goal.
Why do intimate relationships matter
the need to belong
Why do intimate relationships matter: people suffer both mentally and physically when they lack
intimacy
a tendency to form stable, affectionate, connections to others may have been…
evolutionary adaptive
what model displays intimate relationships matter?
Maslow’s hierarchy of needs
What was found with healthy couples and poor marital couples get diagnosed with an illness. Whats the trend of death in these groups
people with illness live longer if there in better marital quality
Influence of culture: people are marrying more or less
marrying less
what is the trend for how long people wait to get married
people are waiting longer to marry
what percent of marriages end in divorce?
half 50%
Most children live in a single—parent home sometime during
their childhood
What are 3 reasons cultural norms changed?
socioeconomic development, increasing individualism, technology
Influence of experience: infants interactions with their caregivers shape their
attachment style- their learned orientations toward relationships with others
Were all individuals with our own combinations of experience and traits: 5 traits
- Sex differences.
- Gender differences.
- Personality.
- Self-esteem.
- Sexual orientation.
Sex differences: Stereotypes suggest that man and women have little in common, so the ranges of their traits and interests are
completely separate
Actual sex differences take the form of
overlapping normal curves and most sex differences are rather small
Sex differences refer to
biological distinctions between man and women
gender differences refer to
social and psychological distinctions created by our cultures and upbrining