week 4 Flashcards

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Communication: what is interpersonal gap

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a sender’s
intentions – what they wanted to
communicate - differs from the
messages that others receive
(impact).

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What is nonverbal communication

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involves all the things people do in an
interaction except for what they say.

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non verbal communication does refer to

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their actions and the sound of their voices, or how they say
things is nonverbal communication.

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3 functions of nonverbal communication:

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  1. Providing Information.
  2. Regulating Interaction.
  3. Defining the Nature of the Relationship.
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what a example of nonverbal communication

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facial expression

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people sometimes try to control facial expressions by what 4 things

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  1. Intensifying or exaggerating them
  2. Minimizing or lessening them
  3. Neutralizing or withholding them
  4. Masking or replacing them with other emotions
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real smiles are called

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Duchenne smile

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the eyes and gazing behaviour

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The direction and amount of a
person’s eye contact is also
influential.
* Looking at someone can
communicate interest and
affection.

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eye contact can also coney

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dominance and status

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what is the visual dominace ratio?

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equals “look-speak” divided by “look-listen.”

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Body movement: gestures can replace blank blank, but they vary widely from culture to culture

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Gestures can replace spoken words but they vary widely from culture to culture

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the language of the face needs no

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o interpreter, but that’s not true
of the language of gestures.

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13
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body postures can also signal what

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status or position

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high status peoples body gestures

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High status people adopt
open, asymmetrical
postures that take up a lot
of space.

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Touch different types of touch have

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distinctly different meanings

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touch can often convey what two things

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closeness and affection

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what are the four zones of interpersonal distance?

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Intimate 0-18, personal 1.5-4, social 4-12 and public 12 and up

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Nonverbal communication involves paralanguage: what is paralanguage?

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the way in which you say words

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paralanguage refers to

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rhythm, pitch, volume and rate

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Combining the components: when there is a discrepency between peoples words and actions their true meaning ussually lies in their

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r true meaning usually lies in their nonverbal, not
their verbal communication.

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21
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nonverbal deficits may occur because

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people lack the
necessary skills or because they’re not trying very hard to do
well.

22
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nonverbal insensitivity is likely due to

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inattention and lack of effort

23
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verbal communication: Verbal disclosure is a hallmark of intamacy

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The process of revealing personal
information about oneself to
someone else

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How self disclosure develops: social penetration theory

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holds that as relationships develop,
partners become more intimate by increasing two aspects of
their verbal communication:

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What are the two aspects increasing in social penetration theory
Breadth: the variety of topics they discuss depth: the personal significance of the topics they discuss
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which factor increases faster than the other at the begining of the relationship
Breadth increases faster than depth
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resposiveness sustains
intimacy and depth
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The interpersonal process model of inta macy: states 3 things
1) They must engage in meaningful, honest and authentic self-disclosure. 2) They must respond to each other's personal information with interest and empathy. 3) They each must recognize that the other is being responsive.
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self disclosure reciprocity
People tend to match the other’s self-disclosure in terms of its intimacy and valence.
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self disclosure and relationship satisfaction trends
We reveal more personal information to those we like. * We also tend to like others more because we have opened up to them.
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what is dysfunctional communication?
Unhappy partners often have difficulty saying what they mean, hearing each other, and staying polite and calm when disagreements arise.
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Social exchange theory states
Successful relationships entail the mutual exchange of desirable rewards with others. * This process is called social exchange.
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social exchange theories include rewards and costs. what are these two things in this theories context?
rewards are results of an interaction that are gratifying, welcome and fulfilling costs: consequences that are frustrating, distressing and undesireable
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the outcome of an interaction formula
outcomes=rewards-costs
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Social exchange theory suggests that we evaluate the outcomes we receive with two criteria:
1. What we expect from our relationships. 2. How well we think we can do without our partners.
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What do we expect from our relationships: comparison level
describes what we expect and feel we deserve in our relationships with others
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when our outcomes exceed our comparison levels were... when it dosent were
happy and content upset and sitressed
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your comparison level is the standard by which your satisfaction with a relationship is assessed: what is the formula
outcomes - cl= satisfaction or dissatisfaction
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What is a comparison level for alternatives
describes the outcomes we think we can get elsewhere.
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so our cl alt s are the
lowest levels of outcomes we will accept from our current partners
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our blank in a relationship, the things we would lose if it ends, make it harder to leave and reduce our CLaltS
our investiments
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what is the first of four types of relationships in social exchange theory?
outcomes exceed both cl and clalts- happy and stable relationships
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second type of relationship
when utcomes exceed clalt but fall below cl-unhappy but stable relationship
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third type of relationship
when outcomes exceed cl but fall below clalt- happy but unstable relationship
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4th type
cl and clalts fall below- unhappy and unstable
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rewards need to outnumber costs by at least what if were to stay satisfied in a intimate relationship
5-to-1
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we want two things in close relationships
gain positive outcomes (approach motivation) avoid negative outcomes (avoidance motivation)
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the self expression model holds that we like partnerships that expand the
range of our interests, skills and experiences
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After a rapid rise in satisfaction at the very beginning of their relationships, many couples encounter
r a lull as they adjust to their increasing interdependence
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on average marital satisfaction does what over the years
declines
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why do they decline?
lack of effort, interdependency, acess to weaponry, unrealistic expectations.