Verbal Communications Flashcards
How is information exchanged?
Two way process - sending and; receiving of information.
______ is the foundation of effective communication.
“the ability to recognize, understand, and manage our emotions; and to recognize, understand, and influence the emotions of others.”
Emotional Intelligence
“________ is a skill that you can learn. It is like riding a bicycle or typing. If you’re willing to work at it, you can rapidly improve the quality of every part of your life.”
Communication
Communication is said to be the _______ life skill one could possess.
most important
The two words ‘information’ and ‘communication’ are often used interchangeably, but they
signify quite different things;
Information is _______. communication is ______.
giving out;
getting through
______ is able to be trusted as being accurate or true; reliable. Commanding, self-confident; likely to be respected and obeyed
Authoritative
______ is enforcing very strict obedience to authority. Much like an autocrat, or dictator, oppressive, tyrant
Authoritarian
Simple basics of human interaction: ● \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ ● \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ ● \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ ● \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ ● \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_
●Listening actively ●Asking questions ●Showing courtesy ●Engaging empathetically ●Observing non-verbal body language
Escalation by the officer may be due to… ●\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ ●\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ ●\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ ●\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ ●\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ ●\_\_\_\_\_\_\_
●failed delivery ●Authoritarian thought process ●Lack of communication skill set ●Deficient skill set ●emotional intelligence issues (ex: depression, anger, fatigue, worry) ●“Contempt of Cop”
______ a temporary state of upset and disorganization, characterized by an inability to cope with a particular situation using customary methods of problem solving
Crises:
EQ stands for ___________.
emotional intelligence quotient.
key characteristics associated with Emotional Intelligence (EQ): ●\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ ●\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ ●\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ ●\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ ●\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ ●\_\_\_\_\_\_\_
● Self-awareness of one’s attitude, thinking attached to attitude, and behaviors ● Self-control ● Social competency and; empathy ● Motivation and determination ● Influencing others ● Understanding others
Advantages of Emotional Intelligence (EQ): ●\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ ●\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ ●\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ ●\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ ●\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ ●\_\_\_\_\_\_\_
● Better communication and connections with others
● Better equipped to deal with unexpected stress
● Controlling feelings & behavior (managing worry, anger, crisis)
● More accurate perceptions
● Optimism increases
● Stronger relationships bonds
four (4) limited connections with communication: 1. 2. 3. 4.
- Immaturity;
- Ego driven;
- Failure to value;
- Insecurity
“First impressions matter. The way an interaction begins: ______!
affects the interaction as a whole
Experts say we size up new people in somewhere between _____ and ______.” ~Elliott Abrams (Wall Street Journal May 9, 2009)
30 seconds and two minutes
John C. Maxwell stressed these three essential elements of communication:
1. _______
2. _______
3. _______
Failure to include any one of the above three will develop in a disconnect/ breakdown in communication.
- Thought – something we know
- Emotion – something we feel
- Action – something we do
Maxwell’s Four (4) Components of Connection
- ______
- ______
- ______
- ______
- What people see –Connecting Visually
- What people understand – Connecting Intellectually
- What people feel – Connecting Emotionally
- What people hear – Connecting Verbally