Transgenerational - Contextual Family Therapy Flashcards

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Who are the founders/leaders of Contextual Family Therapy?

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Ivan Boszormenyi-Nagy (commonly referred to as “Nagy”), a psychiatrist and neurologist.

Nagy was born in Hungary to a line of several generations of high judges, possibly explaining his focus on ethics within relationships. He immigrated to the US in the early 1950’s.

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What are assumptions in Contextual Family Therapy?

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  • Values & ethics are transmitted across generations
  • 4 dimensions intertwine to drive people’s behaviors and relationship dynamics: factual, psychological, relational, and ethical
  • When relationships are not trustworthy, debts and entitlements must be paid back and may pile up. An unbalanced ledger gets balance in ways that may be destructive to individuals, relationships, & posterity (e.g. revolving slate; destructive entitlement).
  • Facts, meaning, setting, and motive must all be considered in the work of therapy.
  • People do not live in isolation; their lives are affected by present and past relationships
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In Contextual Family Therapy, what four dimensions of reality are thought to drive behavior and relationship dynamics?

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  • Facts
  • Individual psychology
  • Systemic interactions
  • Relational ethics

Facts are things about life/relationships that are difficult to change: biological facts, medical conditions, historical events, racial/cultural facts, personal circumstances.

Individual psychology describes how people transform information from their external environment into info, experiences, emotion, motivations, and memories. During this process, a person develops a view of self, others, and the world, and their interrelatedness – which becomes his or her personality.

Systemic interactions include power alignments, communication patterns, & family rules. This is considered objective since systemic interactions can be witnessed.

Relational ethics focuses in particular on the nature and roles of connectedness, caring, reciprocity, loyalty, legacy, guilt, fairness, accountability, and trustworthiness - within and between generations

Relational ethics is the balance of fairness – what people give and what they are entitled to receive from others. THIS DISTINGUISHED CONTEXTUAL THERAPY FROM ANY OTHER THERAPEUTIC APPROACH.

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What are common criticisms of Contextual Family Therapy?

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  • It is too intellectual
  • There is no empirical evaluation of efficacy.
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What is the concept of loyalty in Contextual Family Therapy?

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Loyalty is an ethical concept of obligation to another person in a close relationship. Being loyal involves accepting obligations in relatedness and sharing power.

Loyalty often transcends imbalances in the ledger of give and take, because of the human need to be loyal. Examples: accepting parents’ religion, or a partner’s profession; or a child’s mimicking of parents’ values, attitudes, or beliefs.

Loyalty can be invisible when one behavior substitutes for another, such as when a non-monogamous parent’s child is loyal to their spouse relationally, but has an “affair” with work, a hobby, etc.

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What is the concept of entitlement in Contextual Family Therapy?

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Entitlements are What is inherently and fairly due and what each accrues based on behavior toward one another

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What is Constructive Entitlement in Contextual Family Therapy?

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Constructive entitlement happens when family members receive a fair return from their giving (such as acknowledgement, praise, etc.). This allows the individual to maintain freedom and security.

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What is Destructive Entitlement in Contextual Family Therapy?

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When a person feels they’ve given more than they’ve received.

Destructive entitlement happens when old hurts are revenged, within that relationship or in new ones. A person feels entitled to act a certain way because of their history. This can lead to lack of remorse, as a partner or as a parent.

People who have experienced destructive entitlement from parents or partners refuse to blame them, and instead continue to earn destructive entitlement through remaining invisible, loyal, captive victims of the past.

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What is the concept of parentification in Contextual Family Therapy?

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Unfair/Asymmetrical relationships between parent and child.

Parentification is when parental authority is misused, when there is an asymmetrical relationship between parent and child (that is, a role reversal). Example: children who are forced to take care of their parents, or children who are infantilized to maintain the parents’ identity.

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What is the concept of the “revolving slate” in Contextual Family Therapy?

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When one person takes revenge in one relationship based on relational transactions in another relationship.

The revolving slate is a multigenerational transmission of injustice and destructive entitlement. This happens when parents have unresolved FOO issues and seek entitlement from their child, thus robbing that child of their own just entitlement. This leads to the same injustices and distrust being passed down to be repeated in the child’s experience of their family.

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What is the concept of the “ledger of merits” in Contextual Family Therapy?

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The ledger of merits is the balance of give and take within a relationship. All relationships should have balanced reciprocity in order to both individuals to feel they are being treated fairly. When this happens, people experience the relationship as trustworthy.

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What is the main concept or assumption of Contextual Family Therapy?

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The present dynamic is typically a continuation of past loyalties, injustices, and entitlements.

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How many generations are evaluated in Contextual Family Therapy, and why?

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Three generations, at least, are evaluated, because Nagy observed that destructive and dysfunctional patterns are passed down intergenerationally.

Generational evaluation allows the therapist to identify these patterns and themes, and then repair and restore healthy interactions and patterns.

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What does “context” mean within Contextual Family Therapy?

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The integration of facts, individual psychology, systemic interactions, and relational ethics that contribute to the dynamics of relational/family functioning.

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Is Contextual Family Therapy integrative?

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Nagy said yes, because it embraces biology, psychology, transactional patterns, and responsibility.

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What are Invisible Loyalties in Contextual Family Therapy?

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Family ledgers that extend across generations (e.g. an unconscious commitment to FOO)

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What is Exoneration in Contextual Family Therapy?

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An intervention: a process through which balance is regained and trust is restored in a client’s relational ledger. A client makes an exemption from liability on the grounds of reasonableness and fairness.

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What is split loyalty, in Contextual Family Therapy?

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When a child feels forced to choose one caregiver over another.

Split loyalty happens when a person is forced to be more loyal or disloyal to significant people in their life. It creates a conflict, where to be loyal to one person, they must be disloyal to another. This often happens to children in divorces and can be very damaging in this case.

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What is symmetry and asymmetry in relationships, in Contextual Family Therapy?

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Asymmetrical relationships are ones where one person cannot give back equally – such as how a child cannot reciprocate what they receive from their parents. The exchange is seen as equitable, but not equal.

Symmetrical relationships are where each person owes the other the same due consideration.

Unbalanced symmetry leads to pain, unfairness, and loss of trust. This can happen with imbalance give and take, including where one person is blocked from giving.

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What is the stance of the therapist in Contextual Family Therapy?

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  • Directive
  • Expert in terms of assessment
  • Non-judgmental and accepting of who a person is
  • Clients are doing the best they can with what they have learned from their FOO
  • Not neutral, but siding sequentially and continually with each person affected by the therapeutic process (even if they are not present)
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What is multidirected partiality, in Contextual Family Therapy?

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The therapist empathizes and gives credit to each family member, and sides sequentially and continually with each person affected by the therapeutic process (even if they are not present). This allows therapy to open the dialog among family members and encourage family members to reinvest in trustworthiness.

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What is Sequential Siding in Contextual Family Therapy?

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A way of showing multidirected partiality by empathizing with each person’s position in turn

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What is the mechanism of change in Contextual Family Therapy?

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  • Therapists help clients look at their families from a different perspective, develop understanding of motives for others’ behaviors, and better understand different roles in give & take and the ledger of merits.
  • By encouraging clients to talk about their justified relational position in the family and listen to other family members’ responses, and by highlighting issues of unfairness, the therapist cultivates awareness of interpersonal ethics: legacies, debts, and entitlements. This elicits and facilitates the self-reinforcing process of mutually merited trust (i.e.., when a person trusts that giving can be receiving).
  • Very action oriented: actions must change.
  • So: awareness leads to understanding, which leads to a desire for balanced fairness and trust, which leads to change.
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What are interventions in Contextual Family Therapy?

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Multidirective partiality -
–Empathy toward Cts’ loss/pain/grief
–Crediting - acknowledging & validating unfairness, violations, & imbalance, as well as love & trustworthiness
–Acknowledgement of attempts & contributions in the relationship
- Accountability - holding each person responsible for behaviors in the relationship
- Exoneration
- Rejunction - Therapist helps clients explore their ability to recreate balance among family members, see how each person is available for each other, and recognize how they use each other to meet needs. By discovering each person’s part in system imbalance, each person gains a sense of inner entitlement to autonomy and growth.

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What is the goal of Contextual Family Therapy?

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To restore trustworthiness in the relationship, and balance the ledger.

Action should lead to a balance of self-validation and fair accountability.

The concept of trust cannot be forced or imposed by a sense of guilt or manipulation: trust must be earned through actions of giving and earning merits.

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What types of clients benefit from Contextual Family Therapy?

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  • Families with unbalanced family ledgers (merits & debts)
  • Families that deal with intergenerational issues: grandparents raising grandchildren; abuse in the family; lack of parental presence; parental/sibling narcissism; etc.
  • Families and relationships marked by unfairness, lack of reciprocity, or absence of trust.
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What are the phases of Contextual Family Therapy?

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  • Phase 1 - Joining & building rapport
  • Phase 2 - understanding the presenting issue (assessment of facts, psychology, relational transactions/power, and relational ethics)
  • Phase 3 - Assessment of family dynamics
  • Phase 4 - Goals. Directing clients toward increased trust, exoneration, and accountability, and acquiring inner entitlement for growth and personal freedom.
  • Phase 5 - Amplifying change.
  • Phase 6 - Termination
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When does termination occur in Contextual Family Therapy?

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When the client and therapist mutually decide. Can happen when the client can solve family issues without needing the therapist’s help.

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What is a Transgenerational Legacy in Contextual Family Therapy?

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A transgenerational mandate that links relational obligations from current to future generations