Relationships L9 - 11 Flashcards
What is the prominent difference between face to face and virtual relationships and why does this exist?
- Self-disclosure tends to occur much faster
- Less of a risk that info will be leaked to mutual friends
- Less risk of fear of ridicule/rejection
What analogy is self-disclosure in virtual relationships?
Strangers on a train
Rubin (1975):
- Series of studies where confederates disclosed personal info about themselves to strangers on trains, airport lounges or standing at bus stops
- Found they disclosed intimate details to a stranger next to them , which was often reciprocal
2 major theories explaining virtual relationship:
1) Reduced cues
2) Hyperpersonal model
Who proposed the hyperpersonal model and what is it?
- Walther (1996, 2011)
- Can be more intimate than face to face relationships due to earlier self-disclosure
2 features of hyperpersonal model:
1) Selective self-presentation –> Sender has greater control over what they disclose and the cues compared to face to face. This means relationships can be either hyper honest/hyperdishonest
2) Receiver gains positive impression and feedback of sender, which reinforces selective self-presentation
What did Bargh et al (2002) point out about the outcome of greater self-disclosure?
When anonymous, one feels less accountable for their behaviour so there appears to be no consequences for greater self-disclosure
Who came up with reduced cues theory?
Sprout and Kiesler (1986)
What is reduced cues theory?
- Virtual relationships are less effective than face to face
- They lack many of the cues we depend on in FTF interactions eg NVR cues
- This leads to deindividuation (loss of one’s identity), which leads to disinhibition (feeling freer to communicate bluntly and are less likely to share their real thoughts
What is a gate and who came up with this definition?
- Any obstacle to forming a relationship
- Face to face interactions are gated by things like age, ethnicity
How is gating different in virtual relationships?
Absence of gating allows for greater opportunities for less attractive and shy people to develop a relationship
Strengths and weaknesses of virtual relationships: (+2, -4)
+ Type of self-disclosures used differ in FTF and virtual relationships –> Whitty and Joinson (2000)
+ Research support –> McKenna and Bargh (2000) and Kirdpatrick and Davis (1994)
- NVR cues may be different rather than totally absent –> Walther and Tidwell (1995)
- Lack of support for hyperpersonal model –> Rupel et al (2017)
- Based on mainly Western, technologically developed countries –> Nakanishi (1986)
- Gender differences –> McKenna et al (2002)
What did Whitty and Joinson (2009) do to support the hyperpersonal model?
Summarised evidence showing how self-presentation is manipulated in virtual relationships (hyperhonesty)
How does McKenna and Bargh (2000) support virtual relationships?
Saw that shy, lonely and socially anxious people found it easier to express their true selves more online than FTF
What did Kirdpatrick and Davis show about online relationships by shy people?
- 71% of relationships formed online lasted at least 2 yrs
- In real world, only 49% of these survive