Relationships: Duck's Phase Model of Relationship Breakdown DP Flashcards
Name Duck’s phases of relationship breakdown in order
Intrapsychic, Dyadic, Social, Grave Dressing
What does a person have to reach for them to be tipped to the next phase of breakdown?
Threshold
“I can’t stand this anymore” is a threshold example for which phase?
Intrapsychic
“I would be justified in withdrawing” is a threshold example for which phase?
Dyadic
“I mean it” is a threshold example for which phase?
Social
“It’s now inevitable” is a threshold example for which phase?
Grave Dressing
Give a threshold example for the Intrapsychic phase
“I can’t stand this anymore”
Give a threshold example for the Dyadic phase
“I would be justified in withdrawing”
Give a threshold example for the Social phase
“I mean it”
Give a threshold example for the Grave Dressing phase
“It’s now inevitable”
In which phase does one member of the couple identify the problem but not talk about it with their partner?
Intrapsychic
In which phase does confrontation occur and dissatisfactions aired?
Dyadic
In which phase do the partners decide to either break up or repair the relationship?
Dyadic
After which phase does a relationship break up occur?
Dyadic
What two outcomes are there at the end of the dyadic phase?
Relationship breaks up or a desire to repair is created
In which phase does the relationship breakdown become public?
Social
In the social phase, what happens after the relationship breakdown?
Other people are told / it becomes public / mutual friends are encouraged to take a side
During which phase are mutual friends encouraged to take a side?
Social
During which phase is there a point of no return?
Social
During which phase do we tell our own version of events and justify our decision?
Grave dressing
During which phase do we present the ex-partner in a bad light?
Grave dressing
Name the phase -
“I’m really fed up and I wish the relationship was over. But I can’t tell him, because he thinks everything is fine”
Intrapsychic phase
Name the phase -
“We’ve told the children what’s going to happen to them and sorted out the money side”
Social phase
Name the phase -
“He was too spontaneous anyway, always planning dates without even asking me”
Grave dressing phase