Relationship development Flashcards

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What is the initial feelings of attraction based on?

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Physical attractiveness, similarity and interaction

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What research design is much of close relationships based on and what do they focus on?

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-Use non-experimental designs
- focus on romantic relationships between heterosexual couples/usually young/ in individualistic cultures

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Who demonstrated that the average face seems to be most attractive?

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  • Halberstadt et al, 2005
    -Winkleman & Halberstadt 2006
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What did Halberstadt et al, 2005; Winkleman & Halberstadt 2006 demonstrate?

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  • average faces seem to be most attractive
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What is the biological bases of physical attractiveness?

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  • Symmetry
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What are men looking for in a women?

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  • youth and fertility
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What is linked to higher oestrogen levels?

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  • facial femininity (Gangestad and Scheyd, 2005)
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Who demonstrated that men desire features of women associated with reproductive value/fertility?

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Kendrick et al 1996

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What do women look for in men?

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  • physical strength
  • financial resources
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Who demonstrated women preferred men to be 3-4 years older?

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-Buss 1993

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What do women not want in men?

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  • unhealthy mass as less likely to provide food, health care etc
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How do women in developing countries differ when choosing a male?

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  • rate potential health as more important
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Why is testosterone seen as a negative?

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-suppresses immune system (not seen as positive to have high levels)
- only well adapted males can tolerate levels

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What is the matching phenomenon?

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  • people tend to be attracted to others who are about the same level of physical attractiveness as themselves
    -people can compensate or make up for looks by having other attractive factors, e.g. humour
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Who is the theorist who demonstrated people exchange what they want, in the matching phenomenon?

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  • Buss & Schmitt, 1993
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What did Thissen et al 1983?

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  • women more likely than men to offer attractiveness, seek financial security and seek someone who was older
  • men more likely than women to seek attractiveness, offer financial support and seek someone who was younger
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What does similarity do in terms of relationship development?

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  • increases attraction and liking because we see anything connected to the self as positive
  • encourages positive interaction over common interests
  • signals familarity
  • signals mastery
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Who determined similiarity to others increases attractiveness?

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Swami & Furnham, 2008

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What did Swami & Furnham, 2008 say?

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determined similiarity to others increases attractiveness

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Who demonstrated that people prefer faces that look like their own?

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Little & Perret, 2002

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What did Little & Perret, 2002 say?

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demonstrated that people prefer faces that look like their own

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What does familarity lead to?

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leads to liking - mere exposure effect

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What does interaction do in terms of relationship development

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  • increases liking
    -help us feel connected
    -when people interact, they often mimic speech patterns, posture, mannerisms
24
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Who demonstrated physical proximity increases liklihood of interaction?

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Festinger, Schachter & Back 1950

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What did Festinger, Schachter & Back 1905 demonstrate?

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demonstrated physical proximity increases liklihood of interaction

26
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What is stage 1 of liking, similarity, interaction and attractiveness being the mutually reinforcing processes?

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similairity encourages interaction

27
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What is stage 2 of liking, similarity, interaction and attractiveness being the mutually reinforcing processes?

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the more we interact with others, the more similarities we discover

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What is stage 3 of liking, similarity, interaction and attractiveness being the mutually reinforcing processes?

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The more we interact with someone, the more attractive that person appears to us, the more we continue interacting with them

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What is stage 4 of liking, similarity, interaction and attractiveness being the mutually reinforcing processes?

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we find those we are similiar to us to be more physically attractive, and the more attractive people are, the more we want to be like them

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What is stage 5 of liking, similarity, interaction and attractiveness being the mutually reinforcing processes?

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once liking develops, it feeds back on the other factors to develop and reinforce the connections

31
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In exchanging relationships, what is cost-reward ratio?

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each partner rewards the other in order to gain rewards in return

32
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In exchanging relationships who demonstrated the social exchange theory, in economic theories?

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Blau, 1964; Emerson, 1976; Kelley et al, 2003

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In close relationships, what are the three types of interdependence?

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  • cognitive
    -behavioural
    -affective
34
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Who proposed the interdependence theory and what does it involve?

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  • Kelly & Thibaut 1978
    -when we become closer with someone, our thoughts, emotions and behaviours intertwine
35
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What is cognitive interdependence, as a type of interdependence?

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-the partner becomes part of self concept
-self-disclosure, perspective and control
- partners knowledge becomes more likely self-knowledge and start making attributions about our partners as if we were us
-self-serving attributionsq

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In cognitive interdependence, what does self disclose mean?

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  • know partners thoughts and feelings as well as ones own
37
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In cognitive interdependence, what does perspective mean?

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  • think about events from a partner’s point of view as well as one’s own
38
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In cognitive interdependence, what does control mean?

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  • can influence partners actions as well as ones own
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What is behavioural interdependence, as a type of interdependence?

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  • each person has a great deal of influence on partners decisions, activities and plans
  • prefer to do different activities but both want to do activity together: co-ordinate/cooperate
  • connectedness- concerned for each others welfare
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What is affective interdependence, as a type of interdependence?

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  • refers to emotional band that links close relationship partners
  • intimacy translates into social support- strongly related to physical health
    -intimacy draws people together and committment holds relationship together
41
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What is intimacy in affective interdependence, as a type of interdependence?

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  • positive emotional band of understanding and support is a key component of close relationships
42
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What is commitment in affective interdependence, as a type of interdependence?

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  • long term orientation toward relationship, with intention to maintain it over time
43
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What is attachment styles in relationship development?

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  • general beliefs about self and othersthat influence orientations toward relationships
    -originate in infancy, begin with relationships to caregiver
  • researchers tend to think of attachment styles on continuous dimensions- the extent to which people seek relationships with others (Shover & Mikulincer, 2009)
44
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What are the different attachment styles?

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  • secured attachment
  • preoccupied attachment
  • dismissing attachment
  • fearful attachment
45
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What is secured attachment style?

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  • unafraid of intimacy
    -comfortable relying on their partner for support and acceptance
46
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What is preoccupied attachment style?

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  • want relationships but are worried others do not
47
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What dismissing attachment styles?

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  • reluctant to get close to others because they want to feel independent and self-sufficient
48
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What is fearful attachment styles?

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  • reluctant to get close to others because they find it difficult to trust others and dont want to get hurt- rejection sensitivity
49
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In same-sex relationships, who demonstrated similiarities and differences with heterosexual relationships?

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  • Peplau and Fingerhut 2007
50
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What are the similarities between same sex couples and heterosexual couples?

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  • value placed on affection, dependability and shared interests
  • relaitonships form through proximity and familiarity
  • interest plays key role in establishing new relationships
  • commitment strong predictors of success
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What are the differences between same sex couples and heterosexual couples?

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  • gay and lesbian couples are more likely to remain friends following relationship breakdown
  • division of household labour more equitable
  • lesbian relationships are more likely to originate from pre-existing friendship
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What is communal relationship defined as?

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  • relationship in which people reward their partner out of direct concern and to show caring
53
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What is interdependence defined as?

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  • situation in which each persons thoughts, emotions and behaviours influence those of other people
54
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What is social support?

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  • emotional and physical coping resources provided by other people