Maintaining relationships Flashcards
Why do people want to maintain relationships?
- dedication to partner
- positive attraction to partner or relationship
- a perception that leaving the relationship will be costly
What is commitment defined as and who defined it?
- wish or intention to stay in a relationship
-Adams & Jones 1997
Who created the investment mode?
- Rusbult 1993
What is the investment model?
- people weight up the rewards, costs and comparisons
- can explain why people stay in abusive relationships
What are the different factors influencing why someone would end a romantic relationship?
- marriage at young age
- cohabit rather than marriage
- initiate sexual activity sooner
- who have had more sexual partners
- no children
What are the differences in same-sex and heterosexual couples when it comes to ending a romantic relationship?
- sig differences in dissolution rates between gender and sexual orientation
- female-female couples were more likely to have dissolved their relationship than male-male couples and heterosexual couples
What are some strengths of the research into ending relationships?
+ to be able to compare dissolution rates in comparable samples of same-sex and heterosexual couples over a 12-year period during which legal relationship recognition became available to same-sex couples
+ prospective and longitudinal, with three time points over a 12 year that span a period of dramatic and rapid legal and political change
+ collected quantitative and qualitative data
+ recruitment stages made pps in same-sex and heterosexual couples comparable on some demographic and geographic variables
What are some limitations of the research into ending relationships?
- sample is overwhelming- needs more diverse sample in socioeconomic status, race and ethnicity
- no research on younger same-sex and heterosexual couples
Who came up with the 5 stages to adjustment of dying?
- Kubler-ross 1969
What are the five stages of adjustment of dying?
- denial
- anger: loss of control
- bargaining: attempt to postpone the inevitable
- depression
- acceptance
What is loneliness in bereavement?
- can result from breakup or death of partner
- lack of intimacy and supportive partner
- individuals who lose a spouse can have serious health problems
What support is there for bereavement?
- online support groups may help
- qualitative evidence: clear positive attributes of online peer support that are valued by bereaved users