Pickett and Chen Ch 5 (3) Flashcards
relational self
• Captures our connections to others, who we are in relational to significant others
-what we experience about ourselves – our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors
significant others
-Individuals who we have known for some time, to whom we feel some degree of closeness, and on whom our thoughts, feelings, and motives depend to some degree
symbolic interactionism
- School of thought that lies at the intersection of sociology and social psychology
- Concerned with the relationship between the person and society, adhering to the belief that the two are mutually constructed in the course of social interaction
-Assume the self arises and indeed exists only in interaction with others
lookin-glass self
• Refers to the idea that people perceive themselves though the eyes of others
-How we view ourselves is shaped by how we think we appear to others and how we think others judge us
reflected appraisals
Refer to our perceptions of others’ perceptions of us
relationship cognition
Conceptualize close relationships in terms of mental representations of the self and significant others
internal working models of self and others
• Refer to the set of beliefs and expectations people hold of themselves as a consequence of their interactions with attachment figures
-Reflect the influence of significant others and therefore can thought of as one form of relational self
relational schema
Consists of schemas for the self and the significant other, which are linked by an interpersonal script
if-then contingencies
Interactions reflecting beliefs and expectations regarding how significant others treat and respond to the self
transference
Refers to the phenomenon whereby previous assumptions and experiences that we learned in our relationships with significant others resurface in our present-day interactions with new people
actual self
People’s beliefs about what they are actually like
ideal self
People’s beliefs about what they would ideally like to be
ought self
People’s beliefs about what they think they ought to be
introjected self-guides
• Significant-other self-guides that we do not share
-Influence out thoughts, feelings, and behaviors when we are around or reminded of our significant others
identified self-guides
• Significant-others self-guides that we do share
-Indicate that they incorporation of significant-other ideals and ought’s into one’s own self-concept may extend beyond childhood