Final Part 3 Flashcards
self-serving bias
taking credit for success
- success is attributed to internal/ personal attribution
- failure is attributed to external causes/ situation
why does self-serving bias happen?
- cognitive: people expect to succeed and tend to attribute internal causes to expected events
- motivational: people want to feel good about self
confirmation bias…in what way can it be self-serving?
-the tendency to seek, interpret, and create information that verifies existing beliefs
3 main positive illusions
- I’m great:
- I’m in control:
- the future will be better:
illusion of control
-unrealistic perceptions of personal control over events
how do positive illusions affect our relationships
-thinking about partner that they are better than they really are = more satisfying relationship
definition of Lake Wobegon effect
- The average person purports to believe extremely flattering things about his or herself– beliefs that do not stand up to objective analysis
- We tend to believe that we possess a host of socially desirable characteristics, and that we are free of most of those that are socially undesirable
how are peopleself-serving when apportioning responsibility for their success and failures?
- people attribute their success to themselves
- failures to external circumstances
global self-esteem
-a personality variable that captures the way people generally feel about themselves
state self-esteem
the way people generally feel about themselves at that moment
implicit self-esteem
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narcissism …what is it?
- exaggerated sense of self-importance, entitlement
- grandiose, exhibitionistic, manipulative
how is narcissism related to self-esteem
- defensive self-esteem = contingent self esteem = shame = unstable self-esteem
- dissociated implicit and explicit self-esteem = continent self esteem = hubristic pride= unstable self-esteem
secure
- closeness to the mother and independence
- lack of concern with being abandoned
- Eager to see mother when she returns
- mastery and belonging needs met
anxious/ambivalent
- Have difficulty separating; unwilling or afraid to explore the environment
- Become distressed and upset when mother leaves
- Cling to mother and show signs of insecure dependence when mom returns
- sense of mastery but not belonging
avoidant
- Avoid or ignore mother altogether
- Little difficulty separating and little distressed when mom leaves
- Show little interest in mom when she returns; prefer to play alone
- Evade intimacy and closeness with their mothers
- sense of belonging but not mastery
sociometer theory
we want to avoid social exclusion and self-esteem lets us know how we stand with others
terror management theory
- we need meaning in life to overcome death anxiety
- self-esteem can help buffer us from this existential anxiety
Relationship between self-esteem and taking negative feedback personally
- Low self-esteem = felt good when succeeding, felt bad about themselves when failed/ take failure personally, humiliates them and makes them feel ashamed of themselves
- High self-esteem = feelings did not depend so much on whether they had just succeeded or failed
relationship between attachment figures and internal working models
-internal working models of the self and others are formed in the context of early interactions with attachment figures
what do low levels of self-esteem predict, in terms of negative outcomes
-dissatisfaction with life, hopelessness, loneliness, delinquency, lower satisfaction with relationships and one’s career, and higher suicide rates