Nagy, Contextual Flashcards
Contextual Family Therapy
Transgenerational
Nagy
Highly influenced by judge father
WHO?
HOW LONG? Long term
Insight, working through
RELIABILITY, TRUSTWORTHINESS
Relational ethics, fairness, ledger, exoneration, entitlement, merit
- Each person take responsibility and work through destructive entitlements
- Reclaim disowned parts of self - work through perceived legacies
- Differentiate guilt (irrational, rational)
- Exoneration of self and others
- Create fairness
4 Dimensions of Individual & Relational Psychology
Nagy
Contextual
1) Facts - stable, physical qualities we are born with, contextual circumstances of upbringing (race, disability, divorce)
2) Psychology - Internal experience of the world through thoughts, desires, etc.
3) Transactions - how relationships function
4) Relational Ethics - responsibility of our actions on others, endorses consideration for best interest of family
Loyalty
Nagy
Contextual
How responsible we feel toward our family.
Internalized expectations or obligations to F.O.O
-can influence the way we function
Legacy
Nagy
Contextual
What is handed to us just because of the family we are born into - qualities.
Entitlement
Nagy
Contextual
The things we perceive as being inherently due to us from family or that we earned.
Ledger
Nagy
Contextual
How we keep track of debts and entitlements
Contextual
Systemic impact of all impacted by therapy, social/political context w/in a family
Equitable Asymmetry
Nagy
Contextual
Inherently there is a power differential in parent, child relationship - if parents are ethical to kids, they earn merit/loyalty. If not, kids are highly vulnerable and can lead to negative entitlements
Merit
Nagy
Contextual
What parents earn when there is fair and ethical treatment of kids, leads to loyalty.
Filial Loyalty
Nagy
Contextual
The inherently loyalty kids feel toward parents
Split Filial Loyalty
Nagy
Contextual
When kids have to choose loyalty to one parent over the other.
Revolving Slate of Injustice
Nagy
Contextual
Transgenerational transmission of issues that cause problems.
Debts or Filial Responsibility
Nagy
Contextual
Result of how parents treated kids.
If ethical: filial responsibility, loyalty, merit
If not: debts, destructive entitlement
Destructive Entitlement
Nagy
Contextual
When we are denied the things we need from our families, we seek it elsewhere - often from our family of creation.
Parentification
Nagy
Contextual
Diff. than parentified! This is when kids feel need to caregive for parents to get love.