M2: Counseling Skills for doctors Flashcards
8 Basic counseling skills
- Listening
- Attending
- Bracketing
- Leading
- Reflecting content
- Reflecting feelings
- Reflecting experiences
- Probes
a way of looking and dealing with a patient in which the doctor counselor, without condition (chooses to believe that there’s a good person inside the patient)- regardless of the external qualities of the patient
Unconditional Positive Regard
the ability to put oneself in the shoes of another person such that one can see the world from
the eyes of the other and as a result, one can feel what the other person is feeling
Empathy
(Consistency) in the doctor-counselor’s feeling actions and words
Congruence
a certain (approachability and willingness) to be open to the client
Warmth and genuineness
(clear and explicit) in his dealings with the client
Concreteness
it is helping the client (Identify present) thought and feelings
Immediacy
DON’TS IN THE COUNSELING RELATIONSHIP (G2K)
- Don’t ask “why” questions
- Don’t use “should” and “ought’s”
- Don’t blame
- Don’t invalidate the client’s feeling
- Don’t automatically compare
metaphorically, this is a matter of (making space) in
one’s mind and one’s heart in order to be able to truly empathize and see the world from the point of
view of the patient
Bracketing
Involves (suspending one’s own judgments and feelings and then putting them aside) for a while in order to be able to listen more fully to the patient
Bracketing
refers to the non-verbal of the doctor-counselor. All non-verbal must convey a (message of openness and willingness) to listen and understand what the patient is saying
Attending
Types of leading
- Indirect lead
2. Direct Lead
invitation by the doctor-counselor to the patient to (talk about whatever concerns him)
Indirect lead
the doctor/counselor chooses direction
in which to go
Direct lead
(paraphrasing) in a form of a question
Perception checking
oftentimes the patient says a lot of things and behaves in a way that (reflects what he feels), but he never overly states the feelings
Reflecting feelings
oftentimes the patient does a lot of non-verbal communication which (reflects some emotional state), but the feeling is not articulated. The doctor counselor can mirror talk the non-verbal behavior back to the patient and ask for clarification as to what the behavior means
Reflecting experience
opens new areas, focuses on selected areas
and delves more deeply into a patient’s total
experience.
Exploration
An inquiry which aims to know the patient’s private, subjective experience of health and illness
Open-ended, spontaneous inquiry
TWO PROCESS OF EXPLORATION
- Focused exploration (interrogative questioning)
2. Patient Cue Exploration (following through in exploring a patient cue)
Direct and lead the search for information regarding pertinent aspects of a patient’s health story and current needs for care
PLANNED EXPLORATION
Pick up and follow through in (exploring a patient cue) indirect disguised ways
SPONTANEOUS EXPLORATION
Repetition of key words or phrases
One-word phrase
(Explicit requests) for information or elaboration, although a specific topic is often introduced
Gentle commands
Provide a broad introduction to topics for discussion. Sometimes referred to as “indirect questions”
Open-ended statements
Pitfalls in the Use of Probing Skills (G2K)
- Confuse the patient
- Shifts the focus of interaction
- Shows an overbearing position of authority
- Continuous questions in succession would not give time for the patient to reply
- “Why” question
6 MOST COMMON BARRIER
- Distraction
- Preoccupation
- Too focused on Details
- The topic
- Rebuttal tendency
- The speaker
3 TIPS TO IMPROVE LISTENING SKILLS
- Show people they matter.
- Listen to understand not to respond.
- Show the speaker you are following along.
equal worth, absence of blame, non-defensiveness and closeness, it is a frame of mind rather than a skill, developed through being honest with oneself and being prepared to be open with others.
Warmth
involves helping the client put into works those things that are just being hinted
Concreteness
Current issues are addressed and problem solving can relate directly to (present day issues)
Immediacy
How do you reflect content?
By paraphrasing or paraphrasing in a form of a question (Like is this what you mean)
Asking “You love your wife and her attentiveness to your needs, but the
attentiveness also irritates you, doesn’t it?” is an example of
Reflecting feelings
Asking “While you were talking about your wife, I noticed that you were clenching and unclenching your fist. What do you think that could mean?” is an example of
Reflecting experience
“Tell me how are you feeling” is an example of..
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