Lvl 2 Mod 5 Flashcards
What is the 6 part synopsis of the expansive core meditation?
- Get client into mindfulness - noticing the present moment
- Direct client to go back into childhood memories - looking for moments where they felt full of life, playfulness, wonder/awe. Giving several examples.
- From those memories, see if there is a sense of the core qualities about the client that have been with them all their life. List examples of expansive self qualities.
- Encourage client to get in touch with these qualities and connect them to core organizers and embodying them in the present moment
- MFQ for belief/conviction connected to these qualities
- Bring the transformation with them as they stand, then walk, then come back into connection.
What can the therapist offer if client reports elements of their expansive core got them into trouble and may have hesitance when leaning into this? (3 parts)
- This is what life did to you when you were acting from your expansive core.
- We are taught to be afraid of our positive traits and that if I’m my full person, I’ll be disowned.
- However, you really are this expansive core.
What is the role of pain? How can the interpretation of pain get confused when we were kids and lead to a sense of shame?
Pain is there to tell us that something is wrong, not that we are wrong.
When we experience pain when we’re young, we interpret that pain as being something wrong with us and not something that’s wrong the situation that’s happening around us.
Instead of telling clients they are good, they are worthy of love, etc. what do we help clients do?
Help clients have an embodied experience of those beliefs, e.g. innate goodness, loveability,
When doing developmental work, what’s the value of tapping in/resourcing with their sense of expansive core before going into the difficulty?
Helps the remaining process not feel so exhausting/burdensome
What’re the body-centered metaphors for trauma vs developmental injury?
Trauma is like my body chopped up into different parts
Developmental injury is like parts of me locked in a dungeon. Often that dungeon is guarded too.
How can we determine if a client is just having a “normal” reaction to a situation or if there is a developmental injury also at play?
If there’s trouble figuring out what to do with the distressing emotion, then it could be a developmental injury. Put another way, a sense of stuckness in a particular emotion without signs of problem-solving is a sign of developmental injury.
Rebeca’s closed fist analogy to describe the accessing phase of developmental injury
The developmental injury experience is represented by a closed fist. When we find one core organizer, it’s like lifting up one finger. We continue studying other core organizers and the lifts other fingers to a total of 5 core organizers/5 fingers.
When the client finally drops into deep emotion what do we do next?
Stop doing the 5 steps to mindfulness and just do empathic attunement.
Are adaptive strategies inherently problematic?
No - the problem is that a client can be stuck and not have the ability to choose other strategies that might better fit a situations.
When do we use the more directive technique of helping a client see the places where an adaptive strategy doesn’t work?
If after a while of celebrating the functions, protections and benefits of the strategy, the client does not volunteer some limitations.
What is a probe?
A verbal statement (repeated twice) to a client to evoke an adaptive strategy
If you don’t really believe a probe as the therapist, what should you do?
Don’t say it because the client in mindfulness can sense that it’s not true for you.
When making a probe, should you the therapist bring yourself into the statement (e.g. I am here for you)?
Not during the accessing stage because that’s too narrow. Perhaps during the integration stage.
What is a rough, 8-step outline of the wording that can be used with a client when offering a probe as an experiment?
- I’m going to offer you a potentially nourishing statement
- Let’s see what happens in your when I say these words.
- Let me know when you’re ready?
- Notice what happens when I say X
- Deliver the probe in authentic prosody/tone, twice.
- Pause
- Track
- Contact
What self-limiting beliefs are associated with the Holding In strategy and what can that belief be shifted into?
“l can’t trust myself’ -> “You can trust yourself’, “You can trust your
instincts”
What self-limiting beliefs are associated with the Insistent Seeking strategy and what can that belief be shifted into?
“Things can change at any moment” -> “You can handle change”
What self-limiting beliefs are associated with the Pliant Collapse strategy and what can that belief be shifted into?
“My needs will never be met” -> “Your needs deserve to be met”,
“There’s enough for you”, “Abundance is yours”
What self-limiting beliefs are associated with the Sealed Off strategy and what can that belief be shifted into?
“l can’t count on others” -> “There are people you can rely on”
What self-limiting beliefs are associated with the Inflated Posture strategy and what can that belief be shifted into?
“People will use my feelings against me” or “l can be in relationship
as long as I have the power ‘ -> Some people will treat you kindly and with respect, Power can be shared safely