Lvl 2 Mod 5 Flashcards

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What is the 6 part synopsis of the expansive core meditation?

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  1. Get client into mindfulness - noticing the present moment
  2. Direct client to go back into childhood memories - looking for moments where they felt full of life, playfulness, wonder/awe. Giving several examples.
  3. From those memories, see if there is a sense of the core qualities about the client that have been with them all their life. List examples of expansive self qualities.
  4. Encourage client to get in touch with these qualities and connect them to core organizers and embodying them in the present moment
  5. MFQ for belief/conviction connected to these qualities
  6. Bring the transformation with them as they stand, then walk, then come back into connection.
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What can the therapist offer if client reports elements of their expansive core got them into trouble and may have hesitance when leaning into this? (3 parts)

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  1. This is what life did to you when you were acting from your expansive core.
  2. We are taught to be afraid of our positive traits and that if I’m my full person, I’ll be disowned.
  3. However, you really are this expansive core.
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What is the role of pain? How can the interpretation of pain get confused when we were kids and lead to a sense of shame?

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Pain is there to tell us that something is wrong, not that we are wrong.
When we experience pain when we’re young, we interpret that pain as being something wrong with us and not something that’s wrong the situation that’s happening around us.

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Instead of telling clients they are good, they are worthy of love, etc. what do we help clients do?

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Help clients have an embodied experience of those beliefs, e.g. innate goodness, loveability,

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When doing developmental work, what’s the value of tapping in/resourcing with their sense of expansive core before going into the difficulty?

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Helps the remaining process not feel so exhausting/burdensome

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What’re the body-centered metaphors for trauma vs developmental injury?

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Trauma is like my body chopped up into different parts

Developmental injury is like parts of me locked in a dungeon. Often that dungeon is guarded too.

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How can we determine if a client is just having a “normal” reaction to a situation or if there is a developmental injury also at play?

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If there’s trouble figuring out what to do with the distressing emotion, then it could be a developmental injury. Put another way, a sense of stuckness in a particular emotion without signs of problem-solving is a sign of developmental injury.

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Rebeca’s closed fist analogy to describe the accessing phase of developmental injury

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The developmental injury experience is represented by a closed fist. When we find one core organizer, it’s like lifting up one finger. We continue studying other core organizers and the lifts other fingers to a total of 5 core organizers/5 fingers.

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When the client finally drops into deep emotion what do we do next?

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Stop doing the 5 steps to mindfulness and just do empathic attunement.

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Are adaptive strategies inherently problematic?

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No - the problem is that a client can be stuck and not have the ability to choose other strategies that might better fit a situations.

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When do we use the more directive technique of helping a client see the places where an adaptive strategy doesn’t work?

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If after a while of celebrating the functions, protections and benefits of the strategy, the client does not volunteer some limitations.

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What is a probe?

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A verbal statement (repeated twice) to a client to evoke an adaptive strategy

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If you don’t really believe a probe as the therapist, what should you do?

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Don’t say it because the client in mindfulness can sense that it’s not true for you.

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When making a probe, should you the therapist bring yourself into the statement (e.g. I am here for you)?

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Not during the accessing stage because that’s too narrow. Perhaps during the integration stage.

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What is a rough, 8-step outline of the wording that can be used with a client when offering a probe as an experiment?

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  1. I’m going to offer you a potentially nourishing statement
  2. Let’s see what happens in your when I say these words.
  3. Let me know when you’re ready?
  4. Notice what happens when I say X
  5. Deliver the probe in authentic prosody/tone, twice.
  6. Pause
  7. Track
  8. Contact
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What self-limiting beliefs are associated with the Holding In strategy and what can that belief be shifted into?

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“l can’t trust myself’ -> “You can trust yourself’, “You can trust your
instincts”

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What self-limiting beliefs are associated with the Insistent Seeking strategy and what can that belief be shifted into?

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“Things can change at any moment” -> “You can handle change”

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What self-limiting beliefs are associated with the Pliant Collapse strategy and what can that belief be shifted into?

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“My needs will never be met” -> “Your needs deserve to be met”,
“There’s enough for you”, “Abundance is yours”

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What self-limiting beliefs are associated with the Sealed Off strategy and what can that belief be shifted into?

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“l can’t count on others” -> “There are people you can rely on”

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What self-limiting beliefs are associated with the Inflated Posture strategy and what can that belief be shifted into?

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“People will use my feelings against me” or “l can be in relationship
as long as I have the power ‘ -> Some people will treat you kindly and with respect, Power can be shared safely

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What self-limiting beliefs are associated with the Fluid Motion strategy and what can that belief be shifted into?

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“l cannot be direct or honest with my intentions and desires” -> “My intentions and desires can be heard and understood by the right people”

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What self-limiting beliefs are associated with the Kinetic action strategy and what can that belief be shifted into?

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“It is not OK to rest” or “l have to perform to be loved” -> “I am lovable no matter what I do”

23
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What are probes used for in the Framing stage? (1 thing)

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Used to evokes Adaptive Strategy for study

24
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What are probes used for in the Accessing stage? (3 things)

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  1. Clarifies and/or challenges the limiting belief
  2. Evokes the procedural tendencies of the limiting belief
  3. Deepens emotional pain related to attachment
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What are probes used for in the Processing stage? (1 thing)

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Probe often changes into a new belief to can be deepened and embodied through all core organizer

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What are probes used for in the Integration stage? (1 thing)

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Enhance retention of new belief by contacting the core organizers that are in alignment with it and project into future with this belief active

27
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How can a prior probe be altered for re-use at transformation?

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It can be made “bite sized” making it smaller in number of people it involves or time– you have two friends that can support you. Make it smaller

28
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One exercise to help provide experience of grasping somebody’s hands through telehealth? (3 steps)

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  1. Have the client put pillow or cushion between knees and hold it tightly as an anchor
  2. Therapist outstretch their hands towards the camera
  3. The client can grab the pillow and hold it with some resistance, just like somebody else’s hands.
29
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What does ego dystonic mean?

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Something that does not feel like the ego - “not me”

30
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Why is it important that the client has an observing adult self when doing developmental work?

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Because the client needs to know the difference between the adult and the child.

31
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What three questions can we use to discover an implicit child state underlying a current, explicit issue?

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  1. Is this familiar?
  2. How old/young is this part?
  3. Is there a memory that comes up?
32
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If a client starts to drop into the child emotional state but doesn’t seem to be moving through it, what can we do?

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Contact more core organizers to deepen the state specific memory

33
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What are three examples of the types of thinking that do children have in childhood that can result in maladaptive self-limiting beliefs?

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  1. Magical thinking
  2. Generalizing/all-encompassing
  3. Overly-simplified
34
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Once the client has dropped into processing the emotion of the child emotional state and we’ve been holding it a while with empathy, what do we start to do next? (3 parts)

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  1. Think about what the missing experience is, apart from the client’s child experiencing this emotion in connection with you.
  2. Start to embody it ourselves non-verbally
  3. Either the adult self in the client can supply or we can supply explicitly/verbally
35
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What does conducting an experiment where we provide the client a missing experience do? (2 things)

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  1. It helps them move towards transformation
  2. It may also bring up an adaptive strategy
36
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What are the three skills used in the container stage when doing child state work?

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  1. Track
  2. Body experience
  3. Contact Indicators of Child
37
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7 somatic indicators of a child part

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  1. Lower lip juts out
  2. Head down or to the side
  3. Twisting the hair
  4. Rocking
  5. Peeking out at the therapist
  6. Body posture indicative of a child (0-14 age)
  7. Childlike voice tone
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7 cognitive indicators of a child part

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  1. Magical thinking
  2. Generalizing/all-encompassing
  3. Overly-simplified
  4. They relate to you in a young way
  5. Childlike innocence, awe, wonder playfulness
  6. Change in field or level of consciousness: trance-like, confused, unable to think clearly about current reality
  7. Childlike word choice
39
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One emotional indicator of a child

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Strong incongruent emotion

40
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3 types of parts that we can encounter doing developmental work in SP? (These are not the same as IFS types of parts)

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  1. Adaptive strategies
  2. Child states
  3. Dissociative state
41
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When there is developmental trauma, why is it important to have a relational resource before going into the trauma part?

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So the client can feel like they have a holding environment where they can even execute things like acts of triumph, etc.

42
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Do we use 1st person or 3rd person perspective when contacting a child part?

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Talk in the 3rd person about the child part. Important to separate that and not talk to the client like “You” , which is like you talking with them as a fellow adult.

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What is some alternative language we can use in case a client doesn’t like the language “child part”?

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Referring to it as “memory”

44
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When doing developmental work what tends to be the first frame and then the refined frame

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First frame is a current moment issue – e.g. disappointment in your body as you recall not getting the job
Refined frame -e.g. how about we spend some time finding out about this little girl

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What are 6 examples of 5-sense questions that can be used to deepen into an embodied experience of a child state?

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  1. Where is the child in the room?
  2. What does the room look like to the child?
  3. What else does the child see?
  4. What sounds does the child hear?
  5. Who is there with the child?
  6. Can the child see the look on their face?
46
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What’s a way to get the child part’s input in coming up with a corrective emotional experience during the processing phase?

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Ask the client if they can sense what the child is longing for

47
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During transformation, when a client says this is weird, foreign – what’s an important thing to highlight?

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That something new is happening

48
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Insistent seeking and holding in strategies may have shaking once the client lands in the body-> what do you do next?

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Validate, this is great you’re able to shake. Sequence through.

49
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Are injured child parts typically associated with the ANP or the TP?

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The ANP

50
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What’re Laia’s thoughts on the resources to establish before doing developmental injury work?

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Come up with a somatic resource from the body that helps them tap into love, being cared for, awe, playfulness, expansive core.

51
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What’re 5 qualities of the Expansive Self

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  1. Calm
  2. Curious
  3. Compassionate
  4. Creative
  5. Wise