Laia Consults Flashcards
How do we do trauma sequencing if the client does not have an explicit memory/narrative?
We work with the client to create a fabricated image/story that represents their feelings, image/story fragments, imagination of what happened. Then use that just like we would an explicit memory/narrative
What can happen with body activation if trauma occurred when client was young?
If the child was very young when it happened there’s a sense the body doesn’t know to direct the activation downwards and instead the body kind of flails around unproductively in an attempt to discharge the activation.
What three techniques does Laia use to help a client intuitively sense to direct their trauma activation energy downward?
- She puts a heavy blanket on the client
- Puts pressure on the feet
- Puts pressure on the back of the neck
What are two different functions of muscular tension? And what’s two ways to distinguish between these?
- Precursor of mobilizing defensive action
- Strategy designed to stop the client from feeling an emotion perceived as overwhelming (either current emotion or bracing for future possibility)
To distinguish, you can:
- Ask the client if this movement were to complete, what would it do?
- Experiment with tensing and then relaxing - if during relaxing there’s a sense of increased activation, you know the tension falls in bucket #2 above
What’s the upper level of intensity (what number out of 10) we want for trauma work and what’s two ways of adjusting the trauma story/imagery to help with this?
If the intensity is above a 7/8, we start
1. earlier in the story
2. create distance between client and the people in the story (imagine your dad and his friend in a car on the other side of town)
Laia’s suggestions to balance client venting with other sensorimotor work?
- Check in on how it feels before and after - feel relieved or more tired/heavy?
- Check in on the space the client has to do this during the week - if our sessions are helpful, encourage client to bring more of this helpfulness throughout the week - e.g. imagining a little Brandon with them
- Validate the importance of venting but name that there is a second project which is to go to the source of the emotions and resolve. Collaborate on how to divide time in session towards both projects.
Is it important to do positive resourcing work before trauma so that client has a sense of positive life direction and self-esteem?
- enough to keep them from harming themselves
- The sooner we can do trauma work the better to help improve sense of life direction and self-esteem. That meaning making comes more naturally when we feel better in the body
How can we do RAD without the client even moving? What’re the pros/cons of doing RAD with or without movement?
If client is able to tract the activation, they can just track it through to completion. Movement is helpful for clients that have a hard time tracking the activation but if they can track then just tracking the activation without moving is more efficient.
How can we use mental imagery to help prime an involuntary movement?
If the client names an energy wants to do some action, then asking them if that action could happen, what would it look like.
Laia’s suggestions for working with a client who is just starting to come into their body and experiencing distressing trauma memories/activation? (Includes out of session homework)
In session we work to establish the ability to tolerate waves of activation and be OK.
Outside of session, we give clients homework to get into pleasurable (and safe) things in the body and then if the trauma memories/activation find a process to shut them down
One possible way to help a shut down trauma memories/activation outside of session (3 steps)
- Imagine the memory/activation as a substance
- Put it into a box
- Distract yourself/do something else
Four ways to work with body sensation that is too activating/intense/painful to stay with
- Titration/pendulation: going into that area for a short period and then going to something neutral/positive
- Imagining it as an entity outside the body and slowing that entity down to study it
- Noticing the limits/boundaries of the activated area
- Imagining an empty space surrounding the area/ softening the areas around the distress
Experiment to study how saying No to the therapist may be for the client
Therapist says Yes with different tones (timid, demanding, desparate) and client studies what its like to say No
What are the 5 things that we need to have in-place before doing trauma processing?
- Client able identify and stay with body sensations (regardless of positive neutral negative)
- Client can say no/exert influence over process (may require giving parts stuck in “no” a “remote control”)
- Client has ability to notice where they are within window of tolerance and tools to modulate arousal up and down
- Therapist has addressed concerns/fears about the process, esp from managers and fight parts
- Develop skills and plans (if necessary) to ensure the work does not destabilize client’s life
What three things do we need to do to help client avoid destabilizing their life while doing trauma processing and possibly even developmental injury?
- Ensure client has skills to contain trauma parts between sessions
- Tracking if clients are leaving session in a functional state, ready to transition to next thing
- Ensure client has ability to notice and manage urges for unhealthy coping mechanisms
What three things are necessary before being able to do developmental injury work?
- Resolved trauma that could be activated
- Able to mindfully notice a part and stay in Self (dual awareness) while understanding the importance of doing so
- Client trusts the therapist to hold their vulnerable parts with skill and care
What is Laia’s definition of active rest?
Mindfulness + restfulness (e.g. breathing while doing puzzles)
5 ways to help ensure the client’s adult is engaged so the client’s child parts don’t become dependent the therapist
- Ensure the client understands why dual awareness is important
- Monitor client to ensure they are in dual awareness
- Always ask the adult to report back on the child
- Be clear to which part you are speaking to (adult or child)
- Discuss with client how they can integrate learnings from you on how to support their child
Before doing developmental injury work, is it necesarry that the client is generally living in Self during the week?
No. The therapist can help them unblend in session and foster dual awareness.
Before doing developmental injury work, does the client need to believe there are positive aspects of themselves?
No
What are two ways therapists can help increase trust before getting into vulnerable areas of developmental injury work?
- Studying adaptive strategies
- Building client knowledge of how SP works
What do we do if the client feels conflicted about the active defense? (e.g. “it’d make things worse”)
Put distance between stimulus and client and have the active defense happen then. E.g. go back to a point in the story before it was “too late”
Is it important to track the client’s breath when doing sequencing, why? What can we do about it?
Yes - clients can hold their breath. Have them synchronize their action (E.g. push) with breathing
What 5 things does Laia suggest to help encourage clients to do trauma work and make it smoother?
- Avoid describing it in terms that paint it as hard. Do not want to build reasons for them to avoid.
- Explain we are helping the body release and it’s important and it feels good at the end
- Want to avoid avoidance - name it and work to build up there.
- Suggest doing 2x weekly sessions so things don’t drag.
- List the targets so client can see how they are progressing
What’s another defense we can try if running or fighting doesn’t work?
Client imagining they are a ghost – the perpetrator just moves right through them. Client is mindfully dissociating.
Above what level of disturbance (out of 10) tells us the trauma memory is not yet fully settled (or maybe a different connected trauma)?
Above 1 or 2. Client should be able to put it away.
What are 3 techniques clients can use if intrusive CSA memories come in during normal sex?
- Distinguish past and present
- Remind themselves this is sex among adults, their kid is not welcome in the room.
- Ensure they have safety & ability to control with partner (e.g. pause, stop, adjust)
3 suggestions to work with dystonia
- Identify any specific triggers
- Sequence the tension
- Self-massage into the areas that feel neutral to raise awareness
Psychoeducation for clients on the four categories of ways they can deal with something upsetting
- Avoidance - no acknowledgement, results in shame building, out of control
- Distraction - acknoweldgement and limits. Must regulate or process afterwards.
- Regulation (soothing) - doing something nice for myself, deeper impact
- Processing - must have a time limit and be done with available skills/ resources/tolerance
All these can be done at cognitive, emotional, body and relational level
When doing trauma processing when do we pause to resource, RAD or sequence? Then when do we move forward?
Stop when:
1. Any time they leave the window
2. Anytime the arousal spikes
Continue when:
1. Come back into window
2. Arousal spike resolves
What is two ways to desensitize to annoying/bothersome external stimuli?
- Goal is to have client practice ground, open and regulate themselves during it (to break procedural patterns of resistance).
- Imagine a barrier between themselves and the sound that is able to turn the sound down a little bit, synchronized with each breath
What are the basics of working with dissociated parts using the inner circle/outer circle metaphor? (4 parts)
- Imagine parts seated in two circles – inner circle, and outer circle. Inner circle is parts that tend to come up more (more than 50% of the time)
- Ask ANP of client to notice what parts are in the inner circle and see their face/posture
- When anything significant happens, you can ask client to observing what is happening for a particular part or the overall circle
- Client can also imagining changing seats and embodying a different part (More advanced/potentially energy taxing or challenging for highly judged parts)
What can we do when client shows up to therapy with just a child part being embodied?
Ask if they can feel sense of core self or observer
What 3rd element can we bring in to help if fragmented client feels too overwhelmed to acknowledge a part? (hint: relational)
Bring in me or future wise self or some other person/spiritual being