Lvl 2 Mod 1 Flashcards
What are the three primary purposes of attachment
- Safety/Protection
- Regulation
- Connection
3 types of connection provided by attachment
- Physical Contact
- Emotional Connection
- Sense of Belonging
How do effective attachment relationship modify stress factors affecting childhood development?
They serve as a buffer and reduce the negative impacts
Is “family comes first, I come second” a pathological response?
No, it is a reflection of different cultural norms
Do all emotions exist in all cultures?
No, for example sadness doesn’t exist in Tahiti – they perceive the somatic sensations as tiredness
Do parents have to verbally communicate to children to pass on developmental learnings?
No, nonverbal communication is very powerful
4 categories of factors that inform a person’s attachment patterns
- Attachment Relationships
- Society
- Environment
- Other developmental factors
What two things are more important than getting our contact statements correct?
- That we show our client we are trying to connect
- That clients check in with themselves
3 Actions associated with Proximity Seeking
- Reaching Motions
- Eye Contact
- Grasping
3 Actions associated with Distancing
- Leaning away
- Avoidance movement in hands or arms
- Looking down or away
What is the most extreme of childhood abuse and the hardest to treat?
Neglect
What is the influencer of the number of connections between OPFC and amygdala?
The amount of attuned caregiving we got
Can a child do their own emotional regulation?
No, children depend on an adult’s nervous system
What is more important – tolerance for positive states or negative states?
Neither – they are equally as important
What is the value of disruption in the attachment relationships? (2 things)
- It demonstrates how repair happens
- Shows its ok to experience states of distress
How does a person learn auto-regulation?
From an attachment figure repeating soothing actions over time
What conditions created babies at 6 months that had the best auto-regulation capability?
The caregivers that would let the child dysregulate a little before coming in to regulate interactively
If a person is having trouble dropping into an emotion (not just uncomfortable) or is losing mindfulness/cognitive ability, what could that be an indicator of?
Some unresolved trauma
Why do we work with trauma first?
To make sure that the client has a wider zone of optimal arousal to allow them to be present and metabolize difficult emotions and pain. A client can be expressing deep emotions yet not get benefit due to lack of ability to integrate.
4 more specific tasks within the goal of widening a client’s zone of optimal arousal when doing developmental injury work
- Expand affect array (eliminate/reduce emotional biases)
- Enhance range of affect intensity, including positive affect
- Increase emotional specificity
- Increase ability to sense a blend of emotions
What is “memory glue” and what happens to this glue and the memories during trauma?
The ability of the hippocampus to engage in long-term potentiation. Hippocampus is inhibited during events perceived as a life-threat and so the memory glue is missing and that page of the life story book is floating loose in the body
In the simplest terms, what is a developmental injury? What may a person with this type of injury think about themselves?
A wound to the sense of self or a disowning a part of self, typically caused within an attachment relationship.
A person may think - “I suck as a person”
What is relational trauma? Does this result in disorganized attachment?
Something that happened within a relationship that elicited animal defenses and dissociation.
Does not necessarily result in disorganized attachment.
What is attachment trauma? Does this result in disorganized attachment?
The perception that attaching to the caregiver is unsafe due to past trauma experiences.
Results in disorganized attachment.
What is developmental trauma? Does this result in disorganized attachment?
A trauma that occurs in childhood (e.g. surgery) that results in a wound to sense of self (a developmental injury).
Does not necessarily result in disorganized attachment.
What is implicit relational knowing?
How to do things with others – how to play, what thoughts/emotions to show vs not, etc.
What is the three part feedback loop involving experiences, expectations and action tendencies?
- Experiences prime expectations
- Expectations prime action tendencies
- Action tendencies reveal expectations to careful observers
What are the 6 principles
- Organicity
- Presence/Mindfulness
- Relational Alchemy
- Holism
- Unity
- Nonviolence
If we notice the client is having difficulty being mindful, what is one thing we can notice within ourselves?
Notice our own level of mindfulness
What are four elements within the organicity principle?
- Each living system is self-organizing, complex, non-linear, and evolving.
- Our client has their own answers inside and can grow and change.
- Each culture has its own wisdom.
- Organicity is filtered through individual experience and shaped by social location and culture
What are three elements within the principle of nonviolence?
- The therapist must cultivate a non-judgmental, compassionate attitude accepting of all parts and responses of client.
- We can go with the grain rather than use force, trusting in the existence of the client’s natural impulse towards a higher level of organization.
- Awareness of of the potential impact of implicit biases that exist in the therapeutic relationship.
What are two elements within the principle of holism?
- Body, Mind, Spirit, and Culture are essential aspects of the human organism, each can only be understood in relationship to the whole they comprise.
- All experience is registered in the body and all significant bodily experience has a corresponding mental, spiritual, and cultural component.
What is Relational Alchemy and what are two elements within this principle?
Relational Alchemy is the interaction of implicit selves (both positive and challenging) that emerge from the relationship.
- The healing and growth-producing power of relationships
- Acknowledges that therapeutic enactments are an impetus for higher degrees of organization.
How can we acknowledge symptoms/behavior in a way that challenges the tendency to pathologize those aspects as shameful or indicative of an innate fault in the person?
We can acknowledge them as “survival resources”
Rather than giving advice, trying to change, fix or get rid of the client, what do we do?
Take an experimental attitude
What are two characteristics of the experimental attitude? And how are these characteristics reflected?
- Driven by an inquisitive mindset receptive to and interested in whatever emerges.
- Without the kind of agenda (change, fix, get rid of) or investment in a specific outcome or attitude that renders a “right” and “wrong” outcome.
Reflected in prosody and body language and phrasing
Why is it important to study all of the core organizers during reconstructing the state specific memory?
If core organizers are missing, it can result in the client getting stuck
Why do our habits of organizing experience have tremendous power over the quality of our daily life experience?
Because they operate unconsciously
What widens the gap between stimulus and response?
Mindfulness