Lvl 2 Mod 3 Flashcards
What 4 things to keep in mind when working with a client who just keeps talking and doesn’t seem to ever drop in?
- Building the container is the hardest step and it takes about 20 minutes to do
- Just listening is OK, don’t try to interject too many contact statements because it can be important to the client just to share with me.
- If the client’s energy is really high (upset/anxious) you can match their energy as implicit contact and then down-regulate with my own energy/statements
- It’s important to get in touch with both ourselves and the client on all the three levels of information processing.
What is the rule of thirds with respect to time spent in the stages of the process within an individual counseling session?
1st third - Container/Framing
2nd third - Accessing/Processing/Transformation
3rd third - Integration
6 Steps of the container stage for developmental work
- Attune, listen, Track, & Bodyread to collect Information
- Assess is this developmental or trauma
- Stimulate developmental themes with Contact
- Hypothesize what could be accomplished in this session
- Provide psychoeducation
- Determine a developmental theme and core organizer to Frame
What are two signs that a contact statement lands with a client
- If they settle downward into their body
- If they do a head nod
Three options for a physical experiment in the context of developmental work
- Repeat a gesture more slowly with attention
- Slightly exaggerate a physical tension pattern with mindful attention (e.g. “Just a 1/4 inch forward”)
- Do the opposite movement/gesture to take the client back into alignment
What do we do during steps to mindfulness when we don’t get a mindful report from the client?
Go back to contact statement and continue the cycle from there
What’s an important quote from Pat to keep in mind when pacing a session?
Slower is faster.
How do we know when to stop doing rounds of steps to mindfulness during developmental work?
Once we have all 5 core organizers.
What’s an example statement from Rebecca to help probe for memories/images?
Does this feel familiar?
What principle do we follow when determining what core organizers to ask the client to notice first vs save for later
Go with the easiest ones first as they will help the other more difficult core organizers to come out later.
Why is meaning essential to developmental processing?
Because the implicit beliefs often inform much of client’s behavior and relationship dynamics
Three examples of questions that can elicit a body-based meaning?
- If that < body sensation> could talk, what would it say?
- What are the words that go with this movement?
- What do these hands seem to be saying?
What is the activity of “going for meaning from the body” and what is the purpose?
It is an experiment that integrates non-verbal, somatic and emotional meaning (right brain) with language (left brain).
The purpose is to light up enough state specific memory so that we can take an automatic and implicit meaning and bring it into explicit and reflective awareness (e.g. integrate the right brain and the left brain)
4 techniques besides contact statements that can help deepen a client’s somatic experience
- Link core organizers
- Use mindfulness directives to increase awareness
- Use a mindful question to get more detail
- Try an experiment
What to do when the client comes up with a meaning from the body?
Go into the processing stage (state-specific processing) to work with the implicit memory
What did Rebecca do when the demo client wanted to “break out” and “walk away” (escape from the painful meaning) during the going for meaning from the body experiment.
She validated the work of the protector part/adult self and that it’s uncomfortable. Then asked if they could come back to the original frame.
How to leave the session in a better place if time is starting to run out and there’s not enough time to complete the exercise of going for meaning from the body? (4 steps)
- Ask the client to do the opposite of what their body is currently doing
- Ask what feels good
- Deepen into that
- Ask them what their body is telling them about themselves now
What is an example of a statement that can be made to help soothe clients who feel like they are not doing enough or session was not good enough
Whatever you have done today, let it be enough
What are the five basic motions associated with attachment and what does each represent (in general)?
- Yield - the capacity to feel support – to rest in intimacy
- Push - the sense of knowing my own needs – separate but in contact with the earth and other beings
- Reach - desire
- Grasp - agency
- Pull - Feeling like I deserve the things for myself
Non-verbal way to interrupt the client in person
Lean forward
How to make verbal interruptions less disruptive
Use one word contact + qualifier (huh?)
What are the three primary functions of emotions?
- Are an internal information source within the nervous system providing feedback about the positive and negative valence of things, people, experiences
- Help us communicate with those around us via empathy system and mirror neurons
- Neuro‐process hypothesized to be integrative between the thinking brain (prefrontal cortex) and doing/movement brain (reptilian brain)