Lesson 12: Summary

Question 1

Break down why someone may brag or why you may percieve it as a brad

Answer 1

1. You’re trying to IMPRESS ME - You want something from me, e.g. buy your service so marketing will brag about being the best in something
2. You are THREATENED BY ME - It’s your compensation mechanism due to an insecurity
3. I am THREATENED BY YOU - You’re just telling me facts but due to my insecuties I am projecting either ghost (based on my past) or mirror (what I am currently feeling) on you.

Question 2

Break down our obsession with Money

Answer 2

We have been programmed to be insecure about food availability. Now its insecurity about money stability - can be gone any time. So we hold onto it (become stiny) or overspend it (bragging). All comes from inner inseecurity of wanting love, recognition, power, stability.

Question 3

Outline Gregg’s behaviour model framework

Answer 3

Trigger -> Behavior -> Thoughts -> Emotions -> Root cause

Each is expressed as an issue and has a/many solution(s)

Question 4

WHat could be some types of bad behaviours you see in clients & how would you solve them

Answer 4

Mal bhevaiour could be
1. Bad habits
2. Other problematic ones like jealousy, substance abuse, Agression/bullying

Solution - Understanding that these are COMPENSATION MECHANISMS that need to be addressed by
1. Recognizing and understanding them
2. Doing the work to get to the root cause
3. Fix it - Fight harder, try alternatives, cut losses and get social support
4. Forming new habits using neuroplasticity rules (LMNOP)

Question 5

How do you address bad thoughts in clients that come from fear or a percieved threat that is not real?

Answer 5

1. Dont judge it - it is real for your client, you stay in sys 2
2. Make cleint aware of it - its prob coming from a projection or limiting beliefs - its not real
3. Do the work - find the root cause
4. If its a projection issue - explain the ego, make client see that its not just about her and help her let go
5. If its about Limiting belief then reframe it

Question 6

How do you help a client that is reminating or living in Defauilt Mode Network?

Answer 6

Hynosis or guided meditation to relive the past memory and replace with a new healthy one
Rituals to help her let it go
LMNOP to build new healthy habits and circuitry