J4 - family and rites of passage Flashcards

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define rites of passage

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ceremonies after a child is born

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define Brit Milah

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name of the ceremony which circumcision takes place to fulfil the command of circumcision of Abraham and his desendents

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define mohel

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professional person who does the circumcision on brit milah

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Which 2 verses show the importance of circumcision

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-Genesis 17: 11
“You are to undergo circumcision, and it will be the sign of the covenant between Me and you”
-Genesis 17: 13-14
“My covenant in your flesh is to be an everlasting covenant. Any uncircumcised male, who has not been circumcised in the flesh, will be cut off from his people; he has broken my covenant.”

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How does the naming ceremony go

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Orthodox
-baby is blessed on the first Shabbat after their birth
-father recited Torah blessing
-Girl’s name is announced and get prayer of thanks, Sometimes, they are welcomed with the Zeved Habat ceremony
Reform
-same but both parents take part in it

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define of Zeved Habat

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means gift of the daughter

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What is the significance of the naming ceremony

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-the baby is formally introduced into the community and God
-It is a celebration of children as a gift from God

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How does the Brit Milah go

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-when baby is 8 days old, as soon as possible if ill health
-at home or synagogue
-A family member (Sandek) has the baby on their lap and a chair is left empty for Elijah to be present
-baby is passed to the Mohel who has the honoured of role of being the “companion of the child”
-Father says the blessing over wine and the baby is formally named
-there is a celebratory meal

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What is the significance of the Brit MIlah

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-recalls the covenant made with Abraham in Genesis where God said that the circumcision would “be the sign of the covenant between Me and you”
-lifelong reminder to baby that they are one of God’s chosen people

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How does the Redemption of the first born son go

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Some Orthodox Jews:
-31 days after first born son’s birth, some money is given to ‘redeem’ him from temple services ( even though the temple no longer exists)
-5 silver coins are given to a Kohen (a descendent of the priests who worked in the temple)
-prayer are said to the child

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What is the significance of the Redemption of the first born son

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-tradition comes from the command in Numbers 18: 15-16
“But you shall have the firstborn of man redeemed…take as their redemption price…the money equivalent of five shekels”

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define Bar Mitzvah

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rite of passage for boys which means “Son of the Commandments”

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define Bat Mitzvah

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rite of passage for girls which means “Daughter of the Commandments”

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How does the Bar Mitzvah go

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-First Shabbat after their 13 birthday, he read the Torah in the service and wears the Tallit and Tefilin for the first time
-He usually lead part of the service- reading from the Torah, say prayers and make a short speech
-He will prepare and practice his reading in advances as he has to learn Hebrew- can take up to 1 year
-Father thanks God for making son mature and declares he is now responsible for his own actions
-Celebration after meal

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How does the Bat Mitzvah go

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Reform:
-service similar to a Bat Mitzvah
Orthodox:
-Marked by a family meal and small religious gifts
-she will read a special prayer
-usually celebrations happens at home

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5 importance of Bar/ Bat Mitzvah

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-Its when a jew becomes an adult in religious terms
-preparing for it brings you closer to God and the community
-It’s when they are expected to strictly follow the Jewish law and be responsible for themselves
-It’s when they chose to accept that they are the chosen people of God
-When Boy is allowed to be part of the Minyan (girls too) and take part in synagogue services. He can wear the Tefillin.

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What does the Bar Mitzvah, Bat Mitzvah and Bat Chayill signify

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the boy or girl being subjected to Jewish law

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define Bat Chayill

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rite of passage of girls that do not do the Bat Mitzvah and it means “Woman of Valour”

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How does the Bat Chayill go during and after

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-It’s a community ceremony but not the same kind of service like a Bar Mitzvah
-She’ll talk about a topic related to Judaism but not read form the Torah
-After ceremony, she is expected to observe Jewish religious rules for women and learn how to keep a good home

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why is Bat Chayill different than Bar Mitzvah in Orthodox

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-Orthodox Jews interoperate roles of men and women differently
-Girls will not play an active role in the synagogue like boys

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what will some orthodox jews do instead of a Bat Mitzvah

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Bat Chayill

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What is the significance of rites of passage for the child, community and covenant

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-Child: stronger faith because they are fully part of the covenant now/ responsible for themselves
-Community: more closer because they prepare for it together/ introducing a new adult in their community
-Covenant: They introduce a new adult who takes full responsibility of themselves

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define Kashrut

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Dietary laws that restrict what and how Jewish people eat

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define Kosher

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clean or acceptable

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Define Treyfah

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unclean or forbidden

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Where is the Kashrut found

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Torah

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what did people originally think Kashrut was

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-for health and hygiene reasons
-some animals were more valuable than others

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Why do orthodox Jews follow the kashrut strictly

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-believe the laws come from God
-to test their obedience
-mark Jews as different from others

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why do some reform Jews not follow the Kashrut

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-they think it’s outdated and should be down to the person if they want to follow or not

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What foods are considered kosher

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-animals that have split hooves and several stomachs
-birds that are poultry
-fish with fins and scales
-all plants

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What food are considered teryfah

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-animals with paws and pigs
-birds that hunt
-prawn, muscles, shellfish
-insects

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Who has to kill the animal

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-a Jewish butcher has to kill it

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How is an animal killed

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-method is believed to be painless- causing pain to living things are against Jewish law
-animal must not see knife- it might upset it
-prayers are said during the killing

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what does a Jewish butcher need and what does it do

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-hechsher (certificate)
-so people know he kills correctly

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which verse talks about why you must kill animals in a certain way

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-Deuteronomy 12: 23
“but make sure you do not partake of the blood; for the blood is the life, and you must not consume the life with the flesh”

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what are the restriction on meat and dairy

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-they cannot be eaten 30 mins of each other
-kept separately during preparation, cooking, eating

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verse talks about why you cannot consume diary and meat at the same time

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-Exodus 23: 19
“you shall not boil a kid in its mother’s milk”

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define marriage

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-legal joining of 2 people
-in religious terms- uniting of man and woman. They are elevated to a higher spiritual level before God during the wedding

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what do jews believe marriage is for

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-to experience holiness in everyday life as it creates a spiritual bond between couples and their souls are fused into one

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verse describes the souls being fused into one

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-Genesis2: 24
“Hence man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife so they become one flesh”

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41
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what are the 2 parts of a marriage

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-betrothal
-marriage

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define betrothal (kiddushin)

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-when the couples are engaged or promised to each other
-lasts for 1 year
-has a legal statue in Jewish law
-only broken by death or divorce
-do not live together during this time- but prepare for their future lives together

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what is done before the wedding

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-couple may fast:
-to cleanse themselves sin
-come to the ceremony with the right attitude

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define chuppah

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-cloth canopy suspended from 4 poles that symbolises their home
-means they are officially married

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What is done in the betrothal ceremony

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-Bride joins groom under the chuppah
-they recite blessings over wine
orthodox:
-groom give ring
reform:
-both exchange rings

46
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define the marriage contract (ketubah)

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-signed in front of witnesses, read out and given to bride
-signed by 2 witnesses
-in Aramic
-states husband is not allowed to stop wife if she wants a divorce
Orthodox:
-covers husbands duties to his wife (legal rights)
reform:
-describes mutual hopes for the marriage (spiritual)

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what happens during the marriage (Nisuin)

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-7 blessings are recited
-rabbi makes a speech and blesses the couple
-groom breaks a glass under his foot
-congregation wishes the couple good luck

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why does the groom break a glass under his foot

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symbolises the destruction of the temple to remind that life involved hard times and joy

49
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what happens in the wedding reception

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-couple spends a short time together privately- symoblises their status as a married couple
-then recpetion

50
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define kiddushin

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-betrothal ceremony and first part of wedding
-means “holy/ santified”

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define Nisuin

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-the marriage itself
-finalises the marriage

52
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order of marriage

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-kiddushin (betrothal)
-Nisuin (marriage itself)

53
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who are the rites of passage intended to support

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bereaved family and friends

54
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what is a dead person entitled to

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as much respect as a living one

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why is the dead body covered

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-believed you should remember them as living not dead

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why is a dead person’s eyes closed

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-believed you cannot look into the afterlife and this world at the same time
-allows them to see the afterlife

57
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where and why are canlels lit

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-placed on head
-said in Proverbs

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why is the body watched until burial

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-believed soul only leaves at burial
-comforting to have someone

59
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define Havrash kadishah

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group of people that prepare the body for funeral and work at a funeral parlor

60
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why do they stop when carrying the coffin and how many times

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-7
-shows difficulty of it
-no desire to hurry and complete task

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why is the Havrash kadishah important

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-they follow the mitzvot when they prepare the body
-its kind because the dead cannot pay back the kindness

62
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when and why are they burried

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-not cremated
-as soon as possible but not on Shabbat or festivals

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verse talks about why jews are buried and not cremated

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-Genesis 3: 19
“man is formed from dust and returns to it”

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define Keri’ ah

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-ritual of tearing mourner’s clothes
-is a mitzvot
-represents sadness
-follow example of Jacob in Genesis 37: 34

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when do orthodox and reform do Keri’ah

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orthodox:
-straight after death
reform:
-no Keri’ ah- wear a strip of black cloth given at funeral in out clothes

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how is the grave filled

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-everyone takes turns and put shovel on ground after their turn
-symbolises not passing sorrow to others

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define Se’ udat Harra’ ah

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-first meal brought by family, friends or neighbors at home after funeral

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what do men do during the funeral

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-form 2 line and mourners pass through as they are consoled

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which way is the head facing in the coffin

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-towards Jerusalem- believed dead is resurrected facing east to Jerusalem

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what are said as the coffin is lowered

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prayers eg. El Malei rachamin (prayer of mercy)

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order of mourning

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-announcement of death
-Anuit
-Shiv’ ah
-Sheloshim
-Avelut
-first year after death

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what do you do at the announcement of death

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-Keri’ ah
-says blessings that say God is the true judge- shows they accept God’s decision to take life

73
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define the Anuit

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-first period of mourning
-24 hours till burial
-dead is comforted by the living till burial
-family is excused form following most mitzvots
-family do not cut hair, wash clothes and celebrate festivals

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define the Shiv’ ah

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-second period of mourning
-1 week long
-for bereaved parents, children, siblings and spouses
-do not work and stay at home to have prayer services 3 times a day eg. Kiddish- praise God and ask for peace
-mirrors are covered so they do not focus on their apperance
-cant cut hair, shave, wear make up

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define the Sheloshim

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-third period of mourning
-30 days after death
-life resumes but cant cut hair, shave, listen to music and go to parties
-Men say Kiddish in synagogue

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define the Avelut

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-final period of mourning
-11 months
-don’t party
-children continue to say Kaddish for parents

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what do you do at the first year after death

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-for those who lost a parent- formal mourning ends after a year after death
-Sons recites Torah and make a Torah blessing if possible
-mark anniversary by lighting candle that burns 24 hours

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why are gravestone important

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-mitzvot to not forget the dead so gravestone makes dead impossible to forget

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when is the unveiling ceremony

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-when gravestone is placed
-first anniversary of their death

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define Yahrzit

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fasting on the anniversary of a dead parent to remember them

81
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what is done on the anniversary of a dead parent

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-Yahrzit
-special memorial candle is lit for 24 hours
-study torah

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define Yizkdor

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memorial prayer recited by mourners in synagogue at certain festivals

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what is women’s clothing centered upon

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modesty

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laws on clothing

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-don’t have Shatnez
-how strictly followed depends

85
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define Shatnez

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-mixing of wool and linen

86
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define Sanctity of life

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-God breathe life into humans
-life is sacred and holy as it is given by God and so only God can take it away

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verse show sanctity of life

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Genesis 2

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what does Sanctity of life tell jews to do

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-preserve life
-don’t do anything to quicken death

89
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define Pikuach Nefesh

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-obligation that Jews have to save a life even if they have to break the Jewish Laws

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what does Pikuach Nefesh show

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-how valuable human life is as it put human life over the Jewish law

91
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verse talks about how you must not take life

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-Sanhedrin 4: 5
“He who destroys one soul of a human being, the Scripture considers him as if he should destroy the whole world”

92
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verse talks about respecting your elder

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-Leviticus 19: 32
“In the presence of an elder, you shall rise and you shall respect an elder; you shall have fear of you God; I am Adonai”

93
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which commandment talks about respecting elders

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-fifth
“honour your father and mother”
-stated several times

94
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how is old age viewed

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-is a virtue
-wise - each year of life brings wisdom

95
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verse talks about how old age is viewed as wise

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-Genesis 24: 1
-said by Abraham

96
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What must a Jewish family do for an elder

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-take care of them in their home

97
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how can jews take care of their elders when their living situation is not suitable

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send them to Jewish retirement facilities

98
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what is important when caring for an elder

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the care demonstrates respect and dignity required by God in the Torah

99
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3 mitzvots reserved for women

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-preparing and separating Challah
-lighting candles on Shabbat
-Nidah - family purity

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differences btw men and women

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-women rest on Rosh Chodesh
-Women do Challah, Nidah and light candles
-Women sleep separately on period
-Women are expected to learn how to keep a home after Rite of passage
-Men & women sit separately at Synagogue
-Men are more active at Synagogue than women

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why are women significant in teachings

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-only they can do certain mitzvots
-keeps Jewish atmosphere at home
-her family is blessed by God based on her merits

102
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why might some reform jews challenge teaching on views on women

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-think men can keep the home too
-women may have ambitions
-stereotypes on women
-inequality

103
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verse to show father must make sure child is circumcised

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Genesis 17: 10-14

104
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parent responsibilities

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-father must make sure child is circumcised - Genesis 17: 10-14
-father must teach torah
-father must help sons find wives
-responsible for education of children - Deuteronomy 11:19

105
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verse to show parents are responsible for education of children

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Deuteronomy 11:19

106
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significance of parents

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-seen as partners of God in the creation of his children
-bringing up children in in Jewish faith shows God bringing his word to them

107
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verse to show children duties to parents

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-“Honour thy father and mother”
-Exodus 20
-seen as honouring Gid

108
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children duties to parents

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-honouring parents is seen as honouring God
-provide food, cloths & their mobility
-respect parents
-not sit/ stand in parent’s place
-not oppose parents