Fundamental Techniques in handling people Chapter 1: Flashcards
Criticism
People don’t criticize themselves for anything. We like blaming everybody but ourselves
Good vs Bad behavior
An animal rewarded for good behavior will learn more rapidly and retain what it learns far more effectively than an animal punished for bad behavior
We are humans with emotion, bristling with prejudices and motivated by pride. What are some things we can do besides condemning people?
Try to understand them. Figure out why they do what they do. It will breed sympathy, tolerance and kindness
Principle 1:
Don’t Criticize, Condemn or Complain!
Why is Criticism futile?
It puts a person on the defensive and usually makes him strive to justify himself. Criticism wounds a persons pride, hurts his sense of importance and arouses resentment