Fundamental Techniques in handling people Chapter 1: Flashcards

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Criticism

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People don’t criticize themselves for anything. We like blaming everybody but ourselves

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Good vs Bad behavior

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An animal rewarded for good behavior will learn more rapidly and retain what it learns far more effectively than an animal punished for bad behavior

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We are humans with emotion, bristling with prejudices and motivated by pride. What are some things we can do besides condemning people?

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Try to understand them. Figure out why they do what they do. It will breed sympathy, tolerance and kindness

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Principle 1:

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Don’t Criticize, Condemn or Complain!

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Why is Criticism futile?

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It puts a person on the defensive and usually makes him strive to justify himself. Criticism wounds a persons pride, hurts his sense of importance and arouses resentment

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