Finding Responsibility in the Interaction

Question 1

2 ways of Finding Responsibility in the Interaction

Answer 1

Encourage the Observation of the Contextual Variables’ Impact

Encourage Observation of the Behaviors’ Impact

Question 2

How to Encourage the Observation of the Contextual Variables’ Impact ?

Answer 2

• Use conditional framing to explore antecedents and history
• Use perspective taking to improve awareness of antecedents and history

Question 3

How to Encourage the Observation of the Contextual Variables’ Impact Using conditional framing to explore antecedents and history ? (3 exemples)

Answer 3

• “What do you think led you to act this way?”;
• “What happened just before?”;
• “What in your history might explain this reaction?”

Question 4

How to Encourage the Observation of the Contextual Variables’ Impact Using perspective taking to improve awareness of antecedents and history ? (3 frames; 4 exemples)

Answer 4

|| Interpersonal deictic framing

• “If you were me, what would you think caused your behavior?”;
• “If your best friend reacted the same way, how would you explain it?”

|| Temporal deictic framing

• “Remember when you were a kid and you had the same reaction in this kind of situation. What would you say was the cause of this reaction?”

|| Spatial deictic framing

• “If you were in the audience listening to your own speech, what is the first thing you would think of that explains why your voice was shaking?”

Question 5

How to Encourage Observation of the Behaviors’ Impact?

Answer 5

• Use conditional framing to explore action–consequence relationships
• Use perspective taking to improve awareness of consequences.

Question 6

How to Encourage Observation of the Behaviors’ Impact Using conditional framing to explore action–consequence relationships ? (3 exemples)

Answer 6

• “What happens when you do ?”;
• “How do you manage to do ?”;
• “Is it hard? What do you do to make it anyway?”

Question 7

How to Encourage Observation of the Behaviors’ Impact Using perspective taking to improve awareness of consequences? (3 frames; 3 exemples)

Answer 7

|| Interpersonal deictic framing

• “If your wife spoke to you the way you just spoke to her, how would you feel?

|| Temporal deictic framing

• “What do you think you will see a year from now, as you look back at what happened since you made this decision?”

|| Spatial deictic framing

• “Imagine you are watching a movie that shows that whole day when you decided to get up and go to work. What consequences of getting up would you see in that movie?”