Family, Love & Intimacy Flashcards

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The most common script themes for adolescent characters in TV serials are?

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Sex
Dating
Romantic interests

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The 2 types of psychological theories that attempt to explain romantic love are?

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dimensional theories

type theories

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What are the 3 areas of Sternberg’s Triarchic Theory?

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Commitment (Cognitive)
Intimacy (Emotional)
Passion (Physical)

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What are the 4 dimensional theories?

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Sternberg’s Triarchic theory
Hazan & Shaver’s Attachment theory
Hatfield’s Two factor theory
Thibaut & Kelly’s Social Exchange & Equity Theory

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What is an example of a type theory of romantic love?

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Lee’s Colours of Love Theory

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What are the 3 main ‘colours’ of love in Lee’s theory?

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Eros
Storge
Ludus

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WHat are the 3 secondary ‘colour’s of love in Lee’s theory?

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Mania
Pragma
Agape

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What is Eros love?

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Passionate love with strong attraction

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What is Storge love?

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Companion love out of friendship and interaction

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What is Ludus love?

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“Game playing” love-

no long-term commitment

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What is Mania love?

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(Eros + Ludus)

Dependent & Possessive

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What is Pragma love?

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(Storge + Ludus)
Logical & practical
“shopping list love”

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What is Agape love?

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(Eros + Storge)

Selfless & Giving

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What is the love that comes from having all three elements of Sternberg’s Triarchic theory?

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Consummate

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What are the 7 other types of love that come from combinations of passion, intimacy and commitment?

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Fatuous 
Infatuation (Just Passion)
Compassionate 
Empty (Just commitment) 
Romantic 
Liking (Just Intimacy) 
Isolation (NOTHING)
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What are the four categories in Bartholomew’s Self/Other theory?

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Secure (Low avoidance, low dependence)
Dismissing (high avoidance, low dependence)
Preoccupied (Low avoidance, high dependence)
Fearful (High avoidance, High dependence)

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Senchak & Leonard suggest that avoidant individuals select partners who are either_______ (to __________ intimacy) or ____________ (whose dependence may validate avoidance).

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avoidant
avoid
ambivalent

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What are the 4 primary areas of love?

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Passion
Commitment
Intimacy
Caring

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Secure attachment leads to relationships that are?

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Trusting
Open 
Intimate (eros) 
Commitment
Compassionate
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Avoidant attachment leads to relationships that are?

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Jealous
Dishonest
Closed (Ludus)
Less reassuring - anger when needed to comfort

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Resistant/ Preoccupied/ Ambivalent attachment styles lead to relationships that are?

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Dramatic
Fearful
Apprehensive (Mania)
Less reassuring- help is offered to gain approval

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What are some issues with Hazan & Shavers attachment theory for romantic love?

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Instruments of testing unsure of quality

Little consideration for temperament and very individually based

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Traupmann and Hatfield’s two factor model has what 2 categories?

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Passionate

Companionate

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Tarupmann & Hatfield’s Passionate love maps onto which of Sternberg’s 8 triarchic combinations?

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Passionate

Infatuation

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Passionate love can have two forms. WHat are they?

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Reciprocated

Unreciprocated

26
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Why does Passionate love become companionate love over time?

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Because the body cannot sustain extreme levels of arousal

27
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Tarupmann & Hatfield’s Companionate love maps onto which of Sternberg’s 8 triarchic combinations?

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Commitment & Intimacy

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The Equity theory of love is?

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Balance of contributions to relationship

29
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There are two types of partners in an inequitable relationship. WHat are they?

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Underbenefitted (Angry/ exploited)

Overbenefitted (guilty)

30
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Why do people stay in inequitable relationships?

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No better comparable alternatives

31
Q

Marriage is a way that _________ legalise and regulate __________ relationships between couples.

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societies

private

32
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People in Western societies choose to believe that the ideology of romance and marriage is not only an institutional way to control us because we…

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select partners as individuals ourselves

live out our marriage according to our own needs and wishes

33
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Marriage is both:

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personal relationship

scripted social institution

34
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What percentage of people in Western Societies marry approximately?

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90%

35
Q

When did people get married in 1990 compared to 2010?

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26/24 Men/women

30/27 Men/ Women

36
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Why has the age of marriage increased?

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longer studies
economic involvement by women
advances in contraception
increasing popularity for defacto

37
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Why do people marry?

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health
chastity 
dependability 
intelligence 
ambition 
status 
religion 
neatness
38
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What are the 4 most important characteristics for a potential mate?

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Mutual attraction and love
Dependable
Emotionally stable
Pleasing disposition

39
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What did women emphasise in the importance of a male partner?

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Earning capacity

40
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What did men emphasise in the importance of a female partner?

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Physical attractiveness

41
Q

Couples tend to be closely matched on 6 characteristics. These are?

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Social class
Ethnic/racial group
Height
Attractiveness 
Age
Values
42
Q

If there are differences between couples then man is usually? (3)

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Older
Better educated
More prestigious occupation

43
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What is the marriage gradient?

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Women tend to marry up and men marry down- because of the traditional lack of chances women had to education and high statis jobs

44
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What are the 3 approaches to the division of labour in the home?

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Traditional
Egalitarian
Colleague partnership

45
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In traditional roles the husband and wife are responsible for?

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Husband= financial responsibility 
Wife = housework/ children
46
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In egalitarian roles…

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Both share all responsibilities

47
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In colleague partnerships…

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Specialisation of roles is made by choice because of personal preference

48
Q

Craddock found that the greatest negative implications came from households that had which sort of partnerships?

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Traditional husband + egalitarian wife

49
Q

Gottman said the strongest predictor of marital satisfaction was?

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The ratio of positive to negative communications

50
Q

Gottman argued that the ration of communications was a better predictor than?

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Length of relationship
Method of division of labour
Demographics

51
Q

Grottman suggested there were 5 types of marriage which were?

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Validating 
Volatile 
Avoidant 
Hostile/Engaged
Hostile/Detached
52
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Which were Gottmans stable ‘Masters’ of marriage?

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Thos who were validating, volatile or avoidant

53
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Which were Gottmans unsuccessful ‘Disasters’ of marriage?

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Hostile/Engaged

Hostile/Detached

54
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The marriage that is Validating is?

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mutually respectful and listens

55
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The marriage that is Volatile is?

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Disagreeing/ doesn’t listen but laughs and is affectionate

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The marriage that is Avoidant generally?

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Avoids conflict

57
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The marriage that is hostile/engaged has?

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frequent hot arguments/ lack humous and affection

58
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The marriage that is hostile/detached generally?

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Fights regularly/ doesn’t look at each other and lacks affection and support

59
Q

What were the top 3 reasons for divorce?

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Infidelity
Incompatibility
Drinking/ Substance abuse

60
Q

Do men or women come out better economically through a divorce?

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Men do (up to 40% better) 
Women don't (up to 73% worse)
61
Q

Birth rates although they have been decreasing over the past century are now increasing but women are now?

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Delaying child birth

62
Q

Why does satisfaction with marriage decline once a child is born?

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constraints of child bearing 
less career
difficult temperaments 
support
unrealistic expectations