conflict Flashcards
3 fundamental causes of conflict in organizations
identity-related differences
role incompatibility
environmental stress
where interdependent people perceive incompatible goals or interference with goal achievement
is conflict always bad
moderate amount is healthy
lack of conflict – individuals do not care about their jobs/organization or do not feel comfy bringing up differences
task conflict can be good in the early stages of decision making but can interfere with complex tasks in the long run
personal conflicts are never healthy
conflict outcomes
positive:
-greater creativity and better decisions
-consideration of a broader range
-increased participation and creativity
negative:
-increased stress and anxiety among individuals
-a climate of mistrust
-decreased productivity and satisfactiion
types of conflict
TASK
Awareness of differences in viewpoints and opinions pertaining to a task. Pertains to conflict about ideas and differences of opinion.
RELATIONSHIP
Awareness of interpersonal incompatibilities. Involves personal issues such as dislike among group members and feelings such as annoyance, frustration, and irritation
PROCESS
Awareness of controversies about aspects of how task accomplishment will proceed. Pertains to issues of duty and resource delegation, such as who should do what and how much responsibility different people
should get.
response to conflict chart
low concern for others + low concern for self= avoiding
high concern for others + low concern for self= accommodating
med concern for others + med concern for self = compromising
low concern for others + high concern for self = competing
high concern for others + high concern for self = collaborating
3 approaches to resolving conflict
Focus on Interests
What parties want/need/care about
What does each side really want?
Why?
Focus on Rights
What standards apply
Who is right?
Who has a right to their claim?
Focus on Power
What forms of coercion are available
Who can hurt the other most effectively?
Who can bring the most pain to bear?
Managing Conflict Effectively
Solicit Information – You must understand
the cause of the conflict. Take a Learning
Stance
What happened?? What did you experience?
Don’t assume you know
Acknowledgement/Apology
Acknowledge legitimacy of emotions and perspective
Signal regret for pain caused / Own your part
Clarify Intentions / Manage Impressions
What did you intend to have happen?
Source of the cause? Controllable? Stable?
Potential restitution
How to solve the problem or reconcile?
Identify steps to restoring good faith
Future relations… looking forward
Consider how to respond together later
Continue learning
What will be the result for our relationship
Succeeding In Conflict: Five Big Themes
Work on your Timing!
Private conversation… When and Where??
Attend to your emotions
Avoid conflicts where other tensions exist! We may mistake thesource!
Reduce tension early in the process
Active listening skills… spend more time LEARNING before hard
decisions
Recognize and Highlight Similarities
Empathize
Consider Shared Goals or Interests
Highlight the value of the RELATIONSHIP… past, future
Similarities in Background and Experiences
Try new “MAGIC WORDS”: “We both…”, “We all…”
De-personalize
Blame the situation!
Frame the conflict as a problem to be understood and solved
Don’t automatically view THEM as the problem
Resist the urge to be defensive or counter-attack
TROUBLESHOOTING: Change the Process
Take breaks when fatigued or angry… call a time-out
“Meta-negotiate” – rules of order; labeling counter-productive
behaviors
Involve a mutually agreeable 3rd party