Chapter 9: Relationships Flashcards
How have marriages and partnerships changed ?
- fewer people are getting married
- people are getting married later
- family compositions are changing
- definitions of marriage and family are changing
What is the average age of 1st marriage?
- men: 31
- women: 28
- increasing
Gender differences in marriages and partnership?
men
- stay single longer, fewer remain unmarried, men have more option for remarriage
women
- less likely to remarry
What Is Cohabitation?
- living together before marriage
What is the Cohabitation Effect?
- people are more likely to separate once married
What is Serial Cohabitation?
- people who have lived with more than one partner in a cohabitating relationship
- especially likely to show separate once married
What is Living Apart Together?
- couples in long term committed relationships but choose to live apart
- 1 in 3 young adults
- 2% of 60+ are LAT
When was Same-sex Marriage Legalized?
- canada legalized in 2005
Same-sex couples are different how
- less daily strain reported
- more likely to separate when things aren’t working
- perceived discrimination leads to negative outcomes
What is the average length of marriage before divorce?
- 14 years
what are the disadvantages of not remarrying?
- economic disadvantage, especially for older adults
What is gender disparity in relationships/ divorce
- following divorce women experience advantage and men experience disadvantage
(access to resources)
How did the Divorce Act change relationships
- led to increase in divorce rates
How can divorce statistics be misleading
- divorce rate in a given year including those divorcing for the second or third time
Why are some people more prone to divorce
- history of intimacy problems
- infidelity (cheating)
- people who are more likely to contemplate divorce when their marriage is in trouble are more considered divorce- prone
What are the negative and positive emotional outcomes of divorce
- anxiety, depression and loss of trust
- may provide relief
- more positive outcomes if able to protect identity
How does divorce change when children are involved
- children are more likely to live with mom
- sometimes its better for kids than parents staying together
- many complexities
- mediation is becoming more common, no lawyers, uses co-operative dispute settlement
Late-life divorce
- 55+ increase in divorce and separation
- children more likely to distance with father than mother
- more relationship problems in adults with children
- kin-keepers: daughter more likely to be confidants and social directors
What is the average age of widowhood
- around 75 years
What are widowers
- widowed men
- people 65+ 10% of men
- more chances of remarry
What are Widows
- widowed women
- 65+ 33% of women
- 90+ 80% of women
- greater financial impact
What is the widowhood effect
- more likely to die sooner after
- loss of friends and social isolation
- resilient grief is associated with widowhood
What is the Socioemotional Selectivity Theory
- people prefer long term relationships to maximize their positive affect , rather than forming new ones
(perspective of long-term marriages)