Chapter 10: Grief and Loss Flashcards
Examples of necessary losses accompanying growth include
abandoning a favorite blanket or toy, leaving a first-grade teacher, adn giving up adolescent hope of becoming a famous rock star.
What is grief?
Subjective emotions and affect that are a normal response to the experience of loss
What is grieving?
Also known as bereavement, refers ot process by whcih person experiences the grief
What does grieving involve?
Not only the content (what a person thinks, says, feels) but also the process ((how a person thinks, says, and feels)
What is anticipatory grieving?
When people facing an imminent loss begin to grapple with the possibility of the loss or death in the near future
What is mourning?
Outward expression of grief. Rituals of mourning include having a wake, sitting shiva, holding religious ceremonies, and arranging funerals
Types of Losses: According to Maslow, hierarchy of needs motivates
human actions
Types of Losses: Levels of Maslow?
Physiologic Needs -> Safety Needs -> Security and Belonging -> Self Esteem -> Self Actualization
Type of Losses: Examples of Physiologic Loss?
Amputation of a limb, mastectomy, or hysterectomy, or loss of mobility
Type of Losses: Example of Safety Loss?
Loss of a safe environment evident in domestic violence, child abuse, or public violence
Type of Losses: Examples of Loss of Security and A sense of belonging?
Loss of a loved one affects the need to lvoe. Love accompanies changes in relationships
Type of Losses: Loss of Self-Esteem Example?
Any change in how a person is valued at work or in relationships. Deatho f a loved one, broken relationship, or loss of a job
Type of Losses: Loss related to self-actualization example?
External or internal crisis that blocks or inhibits striving toward fulfillment may threaten personal goals
Grieving Process: By understanding the phenomena that clients experience as they deal with the discomfort of loss, nurses may promote what?
The expression and release of emotional as well as physical pain during grieving
Who created some of the well known theories of grieving?
Elizsabeth Kubler-Ross
John Bowlby
George Engel
Mardi Horowitz
Kubler-Ross Stages of Grieving: What did she establish?
A basis for understanding how loss affects human life. Attended to clients with terminal illnesses. Developed a model of five stages to explain how people grieve and mourn
Kubler-Ross Stages of Grieving: What are the five stages in her model?
Denial Anger Bargaining Depression Acceptance
Kubler-Ross Stages of Grieving: What happens in denial?
Is shock and disblief regarding the loss
Kubler-Ross Stages of Grieving: What happens in Anger?
May be expressed toward God, relatives, friends, or health care providers
Kubler-Ross Stages of Grieving: What happens in Bargaining?
Occurs whne the person asks God or fate for more time to delay inevitable loss
Kubler-Ross Stages of Grieving: What happens in Depression?
Results when awareness of the loss becomes acute
Kubler-Ross Stages of Grieving: What happens in acceptance?
Occurs when the person shows evidence of coming to terms with death
Bowlby’s Phases of Grieving: What theory did he propose?
That humans instinctively attain and retain affectional bonds with significant others through attachment behaviors. Attachments crucial to the development of a sense of security and survival
Bowlby’s Phases of Grieving: People experience the most intense emotions when forming a bond such as
falling in love, maintaining abond such as loving someone, disrupting a bondas divorce, and renewing an attachment
Bowlby’s Phases of Grieving: An attach that is maintained is a source of
security
Bowlby’s Phases of Grieving: An attachment that is renewed is a source of
joy
Bowlby’s Phases of Grieving: When a bond is broken, person responds with
anxiety, protest, and anger
Bowlby’s Phases of Grieving: Described grieving process as what foour stages?
Experiencing numbness and denying the loss
Emotionally yearning for the lost loved one and protesting permanence of loss
Experiencing cognitive disorganization and emotional despair with difficulty functioning in everyday world
Reoganizing and reintegrating sense of self
Engel’s Stages of Grieving: Described grieving in what five stages?
Shock and Disbelief
Developing Awareness
Restitution
Resolution of Loss
Recovery
Engel’s Stages of Grieving: What happens in Shock and Disbelief
Initial reaction to loss is stunned, numb, accompanied by refusal to acknowledge the reality of the loss in attempt to protect the self against stress
Engel’s Stages of Grieving: What happens in developing awareness
As they acknowledge their less, there maybe crying , feelng of helplessness, frustration, or despair
Engel’s Stages of Grieving: What happens in Restitution?
Participation in the rituals assocaited with death such as funeral, wake, family gathering that help accept reality of loss
Engel’s Stages of Grieving: What happens in resolution of loss?
Individual preoccupied wiht the loss, lost person idealized, and mourner may imitate the lost person. Usually disappears after a year
Engel’s Stages of Grieving: What occurs in recovery?
Previous preoccupation and obsession ends and individual is able to go on with life
Horowitz Stages of Loss and Adaption: What does he do?
Divides normal grief into four stages of loss and adaptation
Horowitz Stages of Loss and Adaption: What are teh stages here?
Outcry
Denial and Intrusion
Working Through
Completion
Horowitz Stages of Loss and Adaption: What occurs in outcry?
First realization of loss. May be outward, expressed by screaming/yelling. Can also be suppressed. Takes great energy to sustain and short lived
Horowitz Stages of Loss and Adaption: What occurs in Denial and Intrusion?
People move back and forth during this stage.
Denial: Person becomes distracted or involved in activites that they sometime isnt thinking about loss.
Intrusion: Loss intrudes into every moment and activity
Horowitz Stages of Loss and Adaption: What occurs in working through?
As time passes, person spends less time bouncing back and forth between denial and intrusion
Horowitz Stages of Loss and Adaption: What occurs in completion?
Life begins to feel normal again, though different after losss. memories less painful. Pain occurs around anniversary dates
Tasks of Grieving: What is this?
Mourning, that the bereaved person face involve active rather than passive participation. Difficult and requires tremendous effort and energy to accomplish
Tasks of Grieving: What did Rando describe?
Taks inherent to grieving that she calls teh six Rs
Tasks of Grieving: What did Rando describe as the six R’s?
Recognize
React
Recollect and Reexperience
Relinquish
Readjust
Reinvest
Tasks of Grieving:What occur in recognize?
Expeirence the loss, understand it is real, and that is happened
Tasks of Grieving: What happens in react?
Emotional response to loss, feeling the feelings
Tasks of Grieving: What occurs in recollect and reexperience?
Memories are reviewed and relived
Tasks of Grieving: What occurs in relinquish?
Accepting that the world has changed and there is no turning back
Tasks of Grieving: What happens in Readjust?
Beginning to return to daily life. Loss feels like acute and ovewhelming
Tasks of Grieving: What occurs in reinvesting?
Accepting changes have occured, reentering world, , forming new relationships
Tasks of Grieving: How does Worden view Step 1 of Grieving?
Accepting reality of loss. Common for people initially to deny that loss occured. Too painful to acknowledge fully. Over time, personw avers between belief and denial . Funerals helpful to some