Attraction and Intimacy Flashcards

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6 ways intimate relationships enrich our lives

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1) Positive health outcomes
2) Social support
3) Capitalization
4) “Michelangelo Effect”
5) Goal pursuit
6) Self-expansion

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Capitalization

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We take greater joy in a positive outcome when we can share it with close others

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“Michaelangelo Effect”

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We become more like our partner’s idealized view of ourselves

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What factors influence our choice of close friends and partners?

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1) Proximity
2) Physical attraction
3) Perceived similarity

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Physically attractive people are more likely to…

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Marry or remarry
Achieve good grades
Attain prestigious occupations
Get lighter sentences for crimes

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“Halo effect”

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Those who are physically attractive are seen as being more moral, kind, and smart

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Why are attractive people seen as being more socially skilled?

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History of positive social interactions

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Why is baby-facedness seen as attractive among women? (evolutionary perspective)

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Youth signifies fertility

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Why is facial symmetry seen as attractive? (evolutionary perspective)

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Linked to fertility because asymmetrical faces and bodies can be due to toxins in fetal development

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Why is clear complexion and fair skin seen as attractive? (evolutionary perspective)

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Clear skin signifies health which in turn signifies fertility

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In 1871 Darwin wrote of an explore in Africa…

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“Their ideas of beauty are on the whole the same as ours”

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One difference among cultures is…

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what the “beauty bias” means - what physical attractiveness is associated with

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In independent cultures those who are perceived as physically attractive are seen as….

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strong and independent

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In interdependent cultures those who are perceived as physically attractive are seen as…

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honest and modest

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What is seen as beautiful is _____ across cultures, the stereotypes associated with beauty ____ among cultures.

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similar, differs

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“Romantic Red”

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The colour red will lead men to view women as more attractive and sexually desirable

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The “Romantic Red Effect” is NOT shown when…

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The dependent measures are likability, intelligence, or kindness

18
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What is the mechanism underlying the “Romantic Red Effect” for women?

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Sexual receptivity - more open to sexual activity

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What is the mechanism underlying the “Romantic Red Effect” for men?

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Status - higher status = higher attractiveness

20
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Research indicates that similarity ______ attraction and opposites ____ attract

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increases, do not

21
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Traditional social commodity theory

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There is a difference in what men and women value and find attractive.

Men’s commodities: wealth & status

Women’s commodities: attractiveness

22
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Traditional social commodity theory is based on ______ theory

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evolutionary

23
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Attachment theory

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Predicts many aspects of relationship function

24
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Strange situation: three main attachment types

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1) Secure
2) Anxious/ ambivalent
3) Anxious/ avoidant

25
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Attachment orientations are less likely to affect…

More likely to affect…

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our everyday behaviour

us in times of stress and conflict

26
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Researchers measure attachment within romantic relationships on two dimensions:

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Anxiety and avoidance

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High anxiety

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Over dependence on partner for comfort and support. Fear rejection

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High avoidance

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Low trust, maintain distance, avoid negative emotional states

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Why can attachment anxiety become a type of self-fulfilling prophecy?

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Worry about rejection leads them to engage in bad behaviours than can result in rejection

30
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Can attachment orientations change? (yes or no)

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yes

31
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Small gender difference on attachment orientations

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Females scored higher in attachment anxiety and males scored higher in attachment avoidance

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Commitment is also known as an ______

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“internal pledge”

33
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Commitment is more _____ than love and satisfaction. Therefore a better predictor of relationship longevity.

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stable

34
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Investment model

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Commitment is predicted by satisfaction level, quality of alternatives and investment size. Commitment then predicts to stay vs leave

35
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Satisfaction is determined by:

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  • Rewards (positive things)
  • Costs (negative things)
  • Comparison levels (is your relationship meeting your expectations of a relationship?)
36
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Commitment is determined by:

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  • Satisfaction
  • Alternatives
  • Investments