Topic 11 - Liking, Love and Other Close relationships Flashcards
evolutionary social psychology
An extension of evolutionary psychology that views complex social behaviour as adaptive, helping the individual, kin and the species as a whole to survive.
Assortative mating
a non-random coupling of individuals based on their resemblance to each other on one or more characteristics (age, ethnicity and culture)
Reinforcement affect model
model of attraction which postulates that we like people who are around when we experience a positive feeling
Minimax strategy
in relating to others we try to minimise the costs and maximise the rewards accrue
Equity theory
people expect resources to be given out fairly, in proportion to their contribution
Equity theory (Nancy grote, 1998)
people expect resources to be given out fairly, in proportion to their contribution
- benefits help
- costs hinder
- communal behaviour helps
Consummate love
Sternberg argues that this is the ultimate form of love, involving passion, intimacy and commitment
3 factors that contribute to an ongoing relationship
- Personal dedication - positive attraction
- mortal commitment
- Constraint commitment - factors that make it costly to leave a relationship.
Levinger (1980)’s 4 factors that herald an end of a relationship
- A new life seems to be the only solution
- Alternative partners are available
- There is an expectation that the relationship will fail
- There is a lack of commitment to a continuing relationship
Partner regulation
Strategy that encourages a a partner to match an ideal standard of behaviour
Sustaining long-term relationships (partner regulation)
- enhancing a partner’s virtues and downplaying the faults
- lowering expectations
- adjusting their perception so their partner bears resemblance to their ideal
Phases in the breakup of a relationship
Intrapsychic phase > dyadic phase > social phase > grave-dressing phase
social psychological explanations of attraction
reinforcement, social exchange (increases benefits & reduces cost), equitable