The essentials of human communication Flashcards
The complex connection and cycle of sending and receiving verbal and non verbal cues.
human communcation
The myths about human communication
T W I L F
The more you communicate, the better your communication will be
When two people are in a close relationship, neither person should have to communi-
cate needs and wants explicitly; the other person should know what these are
Interpersonal or group conflict is a reliable sign that the relationship or group is in
trouble
Like good communicators, leaders are born, not made.
Fear of speaking in public is detrimental and must be eliminated
Explain this myth about communication
“The more you communicate, the better your communication will be”
Although this proposition seems logical the same idea lies behind the popular belief that practice makes perfect—it actually is at the heart of much faulty learning. Practice may help make your communication perfect if you practice the right habits. But if you practice bad habits, you’re likely to grow less, rather than more, effective. Consequently, it’s important to learn and practice the principles of effectiveness.
Explain this myth about communication.
“When two people are in a close relationship, neither person should have to communicate needs and wants explicitly; the other person should know what these are”
This assumption is at the heart of many interpersonal difficulties. People aren’t mind readers, and to expect them to be sets up barriers to open and honest communication
explain this myth about communication
“Interpersonal or group conflict is a reliable sign that the relationship or group is in
trouble.”
If the conflict is managed effectively, it may actually benefit the individuals and the relationship.
explain this myth
“Like good communicators, leaders are born, not made”
Although some people are
better suited to leadership than others, leadership, like communication and
listening, is a learned skill. You’ll develop leadership abilities as you learn the
principles of human communication and those unique to group communication
and group leadership.
explain this myth of communication.
“Fear of speaking in public is detrimental and must be eliminated”
Most speakers are nervous and, to be perfectly honest, you’re probably not going to learn from this book or this course to eliminate what is commonly called stage fright or communication apprehension. But you can learn to manage your fear, making it work for you rather than against you; you can learn, and this is crucial, to become a more effective speaker regardless of your current level of anxiety
Skills of human communication
SRIGP
Self-presentation skills
Relationship skills
Interviewing skills
Group interaction and leadership skills
Presentation or public speaking skills
enable you to present yourself as (and
just for starters) a confident, likable, approachable, and credible
person. It is also largely through your communication skills (or
lack of them) that you display negative qualities. What skill of communication?
Self-presentation skills
help you build friendships, enter into love
relationships, work with colleagues, and interact with family
members. These are the skills for initiating, maintaining, repairing,
and sometimes dissolving relationships of all kinds. What kind of skill in communication?
Relationship skills
enable you to interact to gain information, to successfully present yourself to get the job you want, and to partic-
ipate effectively in a wide variety of other interview types. (This topic is covered in a separate supplement, The Interviewing
Guidebook.) What kind of skill in communication?
Interviewing skills
help you participate effectively in relationship and task groups informative, problem-solving, and brainstorming groups, at home or at work as a member and as a leader. What kind of skill in communication?
Group interaction and leadership skills
will enable you to manage your fear and make it work for you, rather than against you. These skills will enable you to communicate information to small and large audiences and influence their attitudes and behaviors.
What kind of skill in communication?
Presentation or public speaking
Forms of human communication
III
Intrapersonal communication
Interpersonal communication
Interviewing
the communication you have with yourself when you talk with, learn about, and judge yourself. You persuade yourself of this or that, reason about possible decisions to make, and rehearse messages that you plan to send to others. In intrapersonal communication you might, for example, wonder how you did in an interview and what you could have done differently. You might conclude you did a pretty good job but tell yourself you need to be more assertive when discussing salary. What form of human communication?
Intrapersonal