The 6 Essential Flirting Tools (3) (Touch, Open Body Language, Be Open About Your Intentions) Flashcards
Why is touch important in flirting?
Touch is essential in flirting as it can either creep a woman out, engage her, or send pulses of excitement throughout her body, depending on how it’s done. It allows for physical connection and can enhance the flirtatious interaction.
What are the guidelines for touch in flirting?
*Touch her on the shoulder, arm, or upper back briefly while talking to her.
*Avoid lingering too long with your touch to prevent coming off as creepy.
*Initiate touch early in the interaction to demonstrate comfort with physical contact.
*Combine touch with eye contact for increased impact, but be mindful not to overdo it.
*Use touch sparingly and sporadically in the beginning to maintain its effectiveness.
Why is open body language important in flirting?
Open body language signals confidence, trustworthiness, and attractiveness, which are all desirable qualities in flirting. It helps create a positive impression and facilitates better communication without saying a single word.
What are keys to open body language?
To be open, don’t close yourself off. Relax your shoulders. Keep your arms at your sides. Keep eye contact. Keep your hands out of your pockets. Take big strides.
What is a Key Tip to focus on?
Any time you’re “going in on yourself” with your body language, i.e., fidgeting, touching yourself, even talking about or thinking about yourself in the interaction (which can subtly show up in your body language), you’re closing yourself off more. Instead of paying attention to yourself, pay attention to everyone else in the room and think about how you can add value to them.
What should you do about rejection?
Accept each rejection and don’t be swayed by it—and never become overly aggressive. Be totally fine with each rejection (even laugh at it – just don’t scoff!). The message you want to send to a woman during a “rejection” is this: “It’s okay if you don’t want me. (You aren’t wounded by the NO)
What rude and you should not do?
What is rude is pretending you don’t want anything from this woman while secretly falling in love her and then revealing it to her 3 months later.
Tips: (Intention)
The intention is that you because you find her attractive, you’re going to talk to her
in a flirty manner and see if that attraction continues. IF it does, you’ll invest further a.k.a ask for her number, ask her out, and flirt more.
No more covering up what you want! It will never get you the results you want.
Which leads me to our last basic principle of flirting.
