Phase 3 - Summary Flashcards
What is the main goal of Phase 3 in building attraction?
The goal is to maintain and escalate sexual desire by being more directly sexual, both verbally and physically, while ensuring trust and understanding her responses.
How should you verbally express your sexual intent in Phase 3?
- Tell her exactly what you find sexy about her.
- Tell her what you want to do to her.
- Tell her she’s driving you crazy.
Additional Action: Get very close while talking and increase physical touch around her sexiest areas.
How should you escalate touch in Phase 3?
- Touch around her sexiest areas for longer periods.
- Graze and lightly squeeze, then pull back to increase her desire.
- If not done yet, move in for a kiss.
What’s the purpose of getting her alone in Phase 3?
It’s to escalate the interaction on “Your Turf and Terms,” displaying confidence and making decisions about where and when to go.
What should you avoid to maintain her trust in Phase 3?
Avoid being unsure of what to do; she needs to feel your absolute certainty.
How do you ease her reservations about escalating physically?
- Continue flirting and bouncing between phases to show she won’t regret being intimate.
- Take things slow and show restraint; don’t jump on her immediately.
- Move two steps forward, one step back.
How can you stimulate her curiosity during Phase 3?
Keep her guessing and ensure she doesn’t know what’s going to happen next, using the Boomerang and Surprise Techniques.
What should you do to maintain her desire for you?
- Be confident and bold with your advances.
- Pull back if she closes off to reassure her you understand her boundaries.
- Make strong, bold moves to show your ability to take risks.
What should you communicate to meet her emotional and sexual needs?
- You’re here for non-judgmental fun.
- You’re drawn to her because she’s unique and special.
How can you use power role switching to increase her desire?
Show that you’re overwhelmed by her sexiness and that your urges are hard to control, complimenting her and making her feel powerful.
How can you tell if she’s steering the interaction away from sexual escalation?
- She might turn flirtatious or sexual comments into nonsexual ones.
- She’ll break eye contact, shift body position, or look for excuses to end the conversation.
Why is recognizing subtle cues important in Phase 3?
Recognizing subtle cues helps you figure out what she needs and when to recalibrate your approach by bouncing between the phases.
How should you manage bouncing between the phases in Phase 3?
Spend equal amounts of time in Phases 1, 2, and 3 initially, adjusting based on her responses to keep the interaction dynamic and engaging.
What are the key achievements of successfully completing Phase 3?
- Displayed sexual intent clearly and confidently.
- Got her alone on your terms, showcasing confidence.
- Built trust and desire by addressing her reservations.
- Made bold, confident moves.
- Switched power roles effectively.
- Accurately read and responded to her cues, maintaining her interest and desire.
