Phase 2 - Summary Flashcards
How should you display your intent in Phase 2 without being overly direct?
Introduce sexual directness by:
- Confessing or hinting that you find her sexy.
- Discussing sexual topics without making it personal.
- Using BTC (Banter, Teasing, and Challenging) to keep the conversation playful yet provocative.
What are the three main areas to escalate in during Phase 2?
In Phase 2, escalate in:
- Sexual subtext and sexual directness
- Banter, teasing, and challenging
- Physical contact
How can you effectively use BTC to escalate sexual topics?
Use playful and challenging statements such as:
- “I think you have a naughty side hiding.”
- “You look good enough to eat.”
- “You’re one of those girls my mom warned me about, aren’t you?”
Describe the Triangle Technique used in Phase 2.
To use the Triangle Technique:
- Make eye contact, look at her left eye, right eye, down to her lips, and back to both eyes.
- Smirk subtly to build sexual tension and convey restrained desire.
Why is moving to a new location important in Phase 2?
Moving to a new location helps gauge her interest and can increase her excitement. It also allows for a change in setting which can deepen the connection and keep the interaction fresh.
How do you balance trust and control in Phase 2 to avoid being too timid or aggressive?
To balance trust and control:
- Show that you can lead confidently without being forceful.
- Make her feel safe by escalating emotionally as well as physically.
- Use “But Seriously Though” moments to add depth and balance playfulness with real conversation.
What are “But Seriously Though” moments and how do they deepen the connection?
“But Seriously Though” moments transition from playful banter to meaningful conversation. They show depth and genuine interest in her, balancing the playful BTC with emotional connection.
How can callbacks strengthen your connection with her?
Callbacks involve revisiting previous playful or meaningful interactions, which creates a sense of shared history and deepens the bond. For example, referencing a funny or memorable moment from earlier in the conversation.
How do the Boomerang and Surprise techniques create desire?
These techniques create unpredictability and excitement by:
- Alternating between more intimate touches and neutral interactions.
- Mixing in deeper emotional moments and playful banter.
- Pushing the envelope slightly towards Phase 3 to maintain anticipation.
What are key signs that she’s ready to escalate to a more intimate level?
Signs include:
- Lingering physical contact.
- Staring deeply into your eyes.
- Positioning herself closer to you for touching or kissing.
- Making efforts to get alone with you or initiating physical touch.
- Expressing attraction verbally or through actions like sharing contact information or making plans.
How can “We” statements and future planning enhance your connection in Phase 2?
“We” statements create a sense of partnership and shared experience. They help establish a connection by suggesting shared activities and future interactions, reinforcing the idea of togetherness.
Why is bouncing between Phases 1 and 2 effective in maintaining attraction?
Bouncing between Phases 1 and 2 keeps the interaction dynamic and prevents it from becoming monotonous. It helps reignite her interest and maintains the tension by alternating between familiar comfort and escalating excitement.
How can you avoid self-sabotage by recognizing her attraction cues?
Pay attention to her subtle signals of interest, such as prolonged eye contact or initiating touch. Responding to these cues can prevent you from mistakenly assuming she isn’t interested and backing off too soon.
