Phase 1 - Summary Flashcards
What are the two main ways to display your intent to a woman early in an interaction?
- Non-Verbal Subtext: Use confident body language, such as maintaining good posture, eye contact, and a relaxed demeanor.
- Verbal Subtext: Use clear and confident statements to convey your interest without being overtly aggressive.
How can you effectively display confidence when interacting with a woman?
- Speak clearly and at a moderate pace.
- Use open body language and maintain a strong presence.
- Show enthusiasm and engage her with genuine interest.
What are the key strategies to earn a woman’s trust and make her comfortable with you?
- Emotional Connection: Share personal stories and insights to give her a sense of who you are while keeping some mystery.
- “We” Statements: Use inclusive language to create a sense of partnership.
- Touch Sparingly and Playfully: Initiate light, playful touches early on to build comfort.
- Show Vulnerability: Open up about your experiences and emotions without apologizing for them.
What are the indicators that you’ve earned a woman’s trust in an interaction?
- She engages in playful banter with you openly.
- She accepts or reciprocates light, playful touches.
- She remains relaxed and continues the conversation freely.
What is the purpose of creating desire and how do you achieve it using the Boomerang Technique?
- Purpose: To get her to invest in you, making her more interested and engaged.
- Boomerang Technique:
- Withdraw your positive attention at a high point in the conversation.
- Preoccupy yourself with something else, making her feel your absence.
- Return your attention to her once she shows signs of trying to re-engage with you.
- Boomerang Technique:
How can you use the Boomerang Technique nonverbally to create desire?
- Withholding Touch: Touch her during key moments, but then stop and wait before touching her again to keep her wanting more.
- Body Language Shift: Engage closely with her for a moment, then shift your body away and focus on something else briefly before re-engaging.
How do you use the Boomerang Technique verbally to maintain mystery and intrigue?
- Share personal details and switch to humor or a light topic after being sincere.
- Ask about her interests and then shift the conversation away from her.
- Reward her investment by re-engaging when she shows interest in the conversation.
What is the Surprise Technique and how do you use it effectively?
- Purpose: To keep the interaction exciting and unpredictable.
- Application:
- Use sudden, brief escalations in physical touch, like a quick waist pull or testing if she’s ticklish.
- Interject a playful or mildly sexual comment into a nonsexual conversation and then switch back.
- Application:
How can you tell if a woman is positively responding and ready to escalate to Phase 2?
- Body Language: She partially faces you, stands close, makes eye contact, and fixes her appearance.
- Physical Flirting: She finds excuses to touch you or engages in more intimate physical contact.
- Increased Attention: She focuses more on you despite other distractions and might fidget with her clothes or jewelry while maintaining eye contact.
What verbal cues indicate that a woman is interested in you and ready to escalate?
- She asks questions about you and shows genuine curiosity.
- She teases or challenges you in a playful manner.
- She talks about future plans or includes you in hypothetical future activities.
How should you interpret and respond to mixed messages from a woman?
- Possible Reasons: She might be flirting for fun, afraid of rejection, or undecided about her feelings.
- Response: Continue to test Phase 2 interactions and see if she reciprocates. If she backs off, respect her space and shift your focus elsewhere.
What are the definite signs that a woman is attracted to you and not just flirting for fun?
- She talks about doing things together in the future.
- She seeks your approval or reacts strongly to your opinions of her.
- She finds excuses to ask for your help or to interact with you more.
