Phase 2 - Escalation Flashcards

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What are the three areas you escalate in Phase 2?

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1.Sexual subtext and sexual directness
2. Banter, teasing, and challenging
3. Physical contact

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How should you communicate your intent in Phase 2 without being too forward?

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  • Communicate that you find her attractive and could see things progressing but are not pushing for immediate action.
  • Use phrases that imply interest without suggesting immediate sexual advances, such as “I would love to take you home, but I’m not trying to… yet.”
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How do you introduce sexual directness in Phase 2?

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  • Admit or confess that you find her sexy, but only once.
  • Tell her specifically what you find sexy about her.
  • Discuss a sexual topic generally, keeping the focus on the subject rather than her directly.
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How should you discuss sexual topics in Phase 2 without being too aggressive?

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  • Use playful and vague statements like “I’ll bet you have a wild side” instead of direct questions about her sexual behavior.
  • Discuss broader sexual subjects such as “Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex?” instead of personal questions.
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What is the balance you should maintain when making sexual comments in Phase 2?

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  • Make a single direct comment about her sexiness to acknowledge your attraction.
  • Focus on sexual topics in a general sense rather than making repeated direct comments about her.
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How can you communicate sexual subtext without using explicit sexual language?

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  • Use a technique called “The Weatherman” where the content of your words is non-sexual, but the delivery and tone imply a sexual undercurrent.
  • Maintain eye contact, use a lower voice tone, and employ subtle physical cues to convey interest.
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Why should you avoid super direct questions about her sexual behavior?

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  • Direct questions like “Do you sleep with guys on the first date?” can make her feel uncomfortable or judged.
  • Instead, use playful, vague, and non-pigeonholing statements to create intrigue and maintain comfort.
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How does showing restraint in sexual conversations benefit your interaction in Phase 2?

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  • It shows that you respect her and are not solely focused on sex, which can make her more attracted to you.
  • Demonstrating restraint can increase her interest and anticipation, making the interaction more exciting.
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What should you do if she’s positively responding to your Phase 2 escalation?

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  • Continue to escalate slightly in each of the three areas (sexual subtext, banter, physical contact) while maintaining respect for her comfort level.
  • Look for cues that she’s ready to move towards a more romantic or sexual engagement.
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What are the key indicators that a woman is positively responding to Phase 2 escalation?

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  • She engages more deeply in sexual conversations.
  • She reciprocates or initiates playful banter and teasing.
  • She allows or increases physical contact, showing comfort and interest.
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What does B.T.C. stand for in the context of Phase 2?

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B.T.C. stands for Banter, Teasing, and Challenging. These are techniques used to escalate sexual topics in a playful and non-serious manner.

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Provide examples of using B.T.C. to escalate sexual topics.

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  • “I think you have a naughty side hiding.”
  • “You look good enough to eat.”
  • “I feel like you’re going to corrupt me with that look.”
  • “You’re one of those girls my mom warned me about, aren’t you?”
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How should you deliver B.T.C. statements to ensure they are effective and well-received?

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Deliver B.T.C. statements with a playful, joking tone and a smirk. The delivery should be light-hearted, ensuring that she is laughing and enjoying the interaction.

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Why is playfulness crucial when using B.T.C. in Phase 2?

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Playfulness ensures that the sexual comments are perceived as fun and non-threatening. It helps maintain a relaxed and engaging atmosphere, reducing the risk of making her uncomfortable.

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How should you escalate physical touch in Phase 2?

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Escalate touch by lightly grazing her more intimate areas, such as her hips, the side of her butt, chest, and legs. This should be done briefly and subtly to build anticipation without making her uncomfortable.

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What does “skirting” mean in the context of escalating touch?

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“Skirting” involves lightly grazing or brushing over intimate areas without directly touching them. This subtle approach heightens the sexual tension without crossing boundaries too soon.

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What are the guidelines for effective skirting?

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  • Keep the touch brief and light to avoid making her feel trapped or uncomfortable.
  • Pick moments to linger slightly but avoid prolonged contact.
  • Focus on maintaining a playful and respectful touch.
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What should you avoid to ensure you don’t over-escalate physical contact in Phase 2?

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Avoid holding her in long hugs or spending too much time stroking her knee or any other area. Prolonged or intense contact can make her uncomfortable and cause her to pull back.

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Why is patience important when escalating touch in Phase 2?

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Patience allows you to build sexual tension gradually. It ensures that you respect her boundaries and keeps her intrigued and interested without feeling pressured.

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How can you use B.T.C. to gauge her interest and comfort level?

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Pay attention to her reactions to B.T.C. If she laughs and engages with the playful comments, she is comfortable and interested. If she seems uncomfortable or does not respond positively, you may need to dial back the intensity.

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What is “The Triangle” technique in Phase 2?

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“The Triangle” technique involves making eye contact with a woman and moving your gaze in a triangle pattern: from her left eye, to her right eye, down to her lips, and back up to both eyes, all while smirking slightly. This builds sexual tension and anticipation.

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What are the steps to perform “The Triangle” technique?

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  1. Lean in slightly and make eye contact.
  2. Smirk as you look at her left eye.
  3. Shift your gaze to her right eye.
  4. Look down at her lips.
  5. Return your gaze to both eyes and smirk again.
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What message does “The Triangle” technique convey to a woman?

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“The Triangle” technique communicates that you find her desirable and are containing your urge to act on it, which creates a teasing dynamic and builds sexual tension.

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How does “The Triangle” technique affect a woman’s feelings towards you?

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It can create excitement and anticipation, making her feel that there is a strong but controlled attraction between you, enhancing her curiosity and desire.

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Why is getting alone time important in Phase 2?

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Alone time allows for more intimate and focused interactions, helping to deepen the connection and gauge her true interest in continuing the relationship.

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What are some methods to get alone time with her in Phase 2?

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  • Move to another part of the room.
  • Change locations to a different room or space.
  • Suggest going outside for fresh air.
  • Relocate to another party, bar, or venue.
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How can you gauge her interest based on her reaction to alone time suggestions?

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If she agrees and shows excitement, it indicates strong attraction and curiosity. If she hesitates or agrees politely, she might still be undecided but open to exploring further.

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How should you combine teasing, touching, and conversation in Phase 2?

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Alternate between teasing and more serious topics, use the boomerang method to mix escalating touch with non-touching moments, and balance sexual and non-sexual conversation to maintain intrigue.

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When should you use “The Triangle” technique and suggest moving to a new location?

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Use “The Triangle” technique when the interaction feels comfortable and playful to deepen sexual tension. Suggest moving to a new location once you’ve established initial comfort and rapport to enhance intimacy.

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Use “The Triangle” technique when the interaction feels comfortable and playful to deepen sexual tension. Suggest moving to a new location once you’ve established initial comfort and rapport to enhance intimacy.

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Signs include her positive response to your touching, interest in deeper conversations, and eagerness to spend more time alone with you, indicating readiness for further escalation.

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Why is building trust crucial in Phase 2?

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Building trust is crucial because it reassures her that she is in good hands as the relationship becomes more sexual and intimate. It helps balance between being too timid and too aggressive, ensuring she feels comfortable and secure.

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How should you balance verbal and touch escalation in Phase 2?

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Balance verbal and touch escalation by also deepening the emotional connection. This involves sharing more about yourself, learning about her, and finding common interests, interwoven with playful banter and teasing.

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What is the role of emotional connection in Phase 2?

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The role of emotional connection is to complement the playful and sexual escalation with deeper, more personal conversations. This shows that you have depth and are interested in more than just physical attraction.

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What are “But Seriously Though” moments?

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“But Seriously Though” moments are transitions from playful banter to deeper, more serious topics that help build emotional connections and show your depth. They are essential for balancing the playful and serious sides of the interaction.

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How do you use the phrase “But seriously though” in conversations?

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Use the phrase to transition from playful teasing to more serious topics. For example, after teasing each other about movies, you could say, “But seriously though, what IS your favorite movie of all time?”

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What are some examples of topics to discuss during “But Seriously Though” moments?

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Examples include:
- Asking about her favorite movie or book.
- Sharing a personal story or interest, like “I was such a geek in middle school; I had a rock collection.”
- Discussing passions, e.g., “If there were one thing that makes life worth living, what would it be?”
- Mentioning shared interests, “Wait, you like that band? I LOVE that band!”

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How can you incorporate an element of surprise in “But Seriously Though” moments?

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Surprise her by blending deep conversations with playful or unexpected comments. For example, after discussing a serious topic, switch it up with a sudden playful compliment, like “God, you’re so sexy. I can’t keep my hands off you!”

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How does emotional depth affect her comfort with physical advances?

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Emotional depth makes her more comfortable with physical advances because it shows that you are not just interested in her physically but also care about connecting on a deeper level. This builds a foundation of trust.

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What signs indicate that she trusts you in Phase 2?

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Signs include her willingness to share personal stories, showing interest in your deeper conversations, and becoming more comfortable with escalating physical contact.

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How do you combine emotional connection and physical escalation effectively in Phase 2?

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Combine them by alternating between deep conversations and light physical touch. Use “But Seriously Though” moments to deepen the emotional bond, followed by playful, non-threatening touch to keep the interaction balanced and comfortable.

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What is a “callback” in conversation, and why is it effective?

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A callback is when you refer back to something you both joked or talked about earlier in the conversation. It’s effective because it creates a shared “inside joke” or memory, strengthening your connection and showing attentiveness.

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How can you use callbacks effectively in conversation?

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Use callbacks by recalling previous teasing or shared moments and weaving them into new conversations. For example, if you joked about her high school haircut, later mention an actress with good hair, saying, “Now THERE’S a girl with good hair. You should take notes.”

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How should you balance touch escalation with emotional connection in Phase 2?

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Balance touch escalation with emotional connection by alternating between light physical touches and deeper, personal conversations. Use teasing and callbacks to maintain a playful vibe, while also sharing personal stories and interests to deepen your bond.

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How do you use the Boomerang technique for touch escalation in Phase 2?

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In Phase 2, use the Boomerang technique by unpredictably escalating touch, grazing more intimate areas briefly, then pulling back to neutral touch. Observe her responses and reward her engagement with varied, validating touches, avoiding repetitive patterns.

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How do you incorporate more sexuality into the Boomerang technique in Phase 2?

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Incorporate more sexuality by skirting closer to intimate areas, increasing the duration of touches, and being confident in your movements. Mix in touches that are more sensual and hold them longer, but always pull back if she’s not responding positively.

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Why is confidence crucial when escalating touch in Phase 2?

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Confidence is crucial because it signals that you know what you’re doing and aren’t hesitant or uncertain. Hesitation can be off-putting and make you seem unsure or creepy. Always initiate touch with assuredness and pay attention to her cues.

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How can you avoid being categorized as a “Pal or Perv” when touching?

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Avoid this by maintaining confidence without overstepping boundaries. Don’t be tentative or overly aggressive; instead, touch with assuredness but be ready to pull back if she’s uncomfortable. Respect her responses and avoid lingering too long in any touch.

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How do callbacks influence her receptivity to physical advances?

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Callbacks enhance receptivity to physical advances by building a sense of shared experience and connection. They make interactions feel more personal and engaging, which can make her more open and comfortable with escalating physical contact.

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How should you use surprises when escalating touch in Phase 2?

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Use surprises by occasionally pushing the boundary closer to Phase 3 touches, such as holding a touch longer or skirting closer to intimate areas. Ensure these surprises are delivered confidently and interspersed with more neutral interactions to maintain unpredictability.

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How should you react if she doesn’t positively respond to a touch escalation?

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If she doesn’t respond positively, pull back calmly without showing emotional reaction. Focus on reestablishing trust and emotional connection before attempting to escalate again. It’s important to respect her boundaries and not force the situation.

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What is The Triangle Technique, and how does it build sexual tension?

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The Triangle Technique involves making eye contact, smirking, and tracing a triangle with your gaze from one eye to the other, down to her lips, and back to her eyes. This move subtly signals desire and builds sexual tension by showing controlled interest.

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Why is changing locations important in Phase 2?

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Changing locations helps gauge her interest and adds excitement to the interaction. It shows your ability to lead and creates new opportunities for deeper connection. If she’s willing and excited to move with you, it’s a strong sign of her interest.

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How can the Boomerang technique be used effectively for verbal escalation in Phase 2?

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Use the Boomerang technique by alternating between playful BTC (Banter, Teasing, Challenging) and serious, connection-building moments. This unpredictability keeps the conversation engaging and helps escalate intimacy while maintaining a fun atmosphere.

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How do you transition from playful BTC to more serious, connection-building moments?

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Transition smoothly by using phrases like “But seriously though” to shift from teasing or playful remarks to deeper, personal topics. This shows versatility in conversation and helps to balance flirting with genuine connection.

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Provide examples of how to boomerang between BTC and serious moments.

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Example: Start with playful teasing like, “You’re one of those girls my mom warned me about, aren’t you?” Then transition with, “But seriously though, what’s your favorite movie?” This keeps the conversation dynamic and engaging.

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Why are “We” statements important in Phase 2, and how should you use them?

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“We” statements are crucial because they create a sense of unity and shared experience. Use them to suggest joint actions or highlight your compatibility, e.g., “Let’s get some air,” or “We make a good team.” This fosters a feeling of togetherness.

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How can you use conversation to suggest future plans in Phase 2?

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Suggest future plans by incorporating “We” statements that imply doing something together in the future. For example, “We should check out that new restaurant sometime,” or “Let’s plan a movie night.” This signals ongoing interest and deepens the connection

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How do you balance Banter, Teasing, Challenging (BTC) with deepening emotional connection in Phase 2?

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Balance BTC with emotional connection by alternating between lighthearted teasing and sincere, personal discussions. After a playful BTC moment, switch to a deeper topic using “But seriously though” to discuss personal interests or shared experiences.

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Why should you include neutral topics in your conversation during Phase 2, and how?

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Neutral topics, like discussing music or the venue, provide a break from intense or personal conversation and keep things balanced. They also offer opportunities to introduce new, playful topics or transition smoothly back into BTC or serious discussions.

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Give an example of how to use the Boomerang technique with neutral topics.

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Example: If you’re teasing her about being a movie buff, pivot to a neutral topic like, “This bar has great music tonight.” After discussing the music briefly, boomerang back to playful teasing or a deeper topic related to your earlier conversation.

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How can the element of surprise be incorporated into verbal escalation in Phase 2?

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Use surprise by unpredictably shifting between playful, serious, and neutral topics. This keeps the interaction lively and prevents it from becoming monotonous. Occasionally interject unexpected comments or questions to maintain her interest and excitement.

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How do Boomerang and Surprise techniques create anticipation in Phase 2?

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These techniques create anticipation by keeping the conversation dynamic and unpredictable. Switching between playful teasing, serious moments, and neutral topics keeps her guessing and engaged, fostering a sense of excitement and desire for what comes next.

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How can you gauge her interest using “We” statements in Phase 2?

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Gauge her interest by observing her response to “We” statements. Positive responses or enthusiasm about joint activities indicate strong interest and a willingness to deepen the connection. Hesitation or disinterest may suggest she’s still assessing her feelings.

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Provide examples of “We” statements that suggest a sense of togetherness or future plans.

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Examples include: “We should check out that new coffee shop,” “Let’s go on an adventure,” or “We make a great team.” These statements foster a sense of partnership and shared experience, deepening the bond between you.

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What does it indicate if a woman lingers her physical contact with you?

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If a woman lingers her physical contact, it’s a strong sign of sexual attraction. She’s comfortable with your touch and wants to extend the connection, indicating she’s into you.

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How should you interpret prolonged eye contact from a woman in Phase 2?

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Prolonged eye contact signifies deep interest and potential sexual attraction. If she’s staring into your eyes for extended periods, she’s likely feeling a strong connection and openness to further intimacy.

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What does it mean if a woman physically positions herself to be kissed or touched?

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When a woman subtly positions herself close to you, leaning in or tilting her head, she’s giving you a clear signal that she’s open to being kissed or touched. Trust your instincts—if it feels like she’s inviting more contact, she probably is.

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What is the significance of a woman hinting at or making efforts to get you alone?

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If she’s suggesting or creating opportunities to be alone with you, it’s a strong indication that she’s interested in escalating the interaction to a more private and intimate setting. This shows she’s comfortable and wants to deepen the connection.

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What does it imply if a woman makes the first move, such as initiating touch or giving you her phone number?

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When a woman makes the first move, it’s a definitive sign of attraction. Whether she initiates touch, expresses her attraction, or takes steps to continue the interaction, she’s actively showing her interest and desire to pursue things further.

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How do “We” statements from a woman indicate her interest?

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“We” statements suggest she sees potential for a shared future or partnership. When she includes you in her plans or talks about doing things together, it’s a clear sign she’s envisioning a continued and possibly deeper connection with you.

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How can you test if she’s ready to escalate by using touch and eye contact?

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To gauge her readiness, increase the duration of your eye contact and the intimacy of your touch. If she reciprocates these actions, it’s a positive indication that she’s comfortable and eager to move forward with you.

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What physical cues should you look for to assess her readiness to move to the next phase?

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Look for cues like her leaning in closer, playing with her hair, or adjusting her posture towards you. These actions suggest she’s engaged, comfortable, and likely ready to escalate the interaction.

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How can initiating alone time help in assessing her interest in escalating the interaction?

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Suggesting a change of venue or creating a private moment helps test her willingness to spend more intimate time with you. Her eagerness to join or her enthusiasm in the new setting can be strong indicators of her desire to progress the interaction.

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How can you use “We” statements and future plans to test her interest?

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Propose future activities or make “We” statements like “We should grab dinner sometime.” Her positive response or excitement about these suggestions indicates she’s interested in spending more time with you and exploring a deeper connection.

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What are the unmistakable signs a woman is sexually attracted to you in Phase 2?

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Unmistakable signs include lingering touch, deep eye contact, positioning for intimacy, making efforts to be alone, initiating contact, and using inclusive language about shared activities. These cues indicate she’s ready and willing to escalate the relationship.

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How should you respond if she hesitates or pulls back when you escalate?

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If she hesitates or pulls back, don’t react negatively. Respect her boundaries and return to building emotional connection and trust. Reassess her comfort level and continue with less intense interactions until she’s ready for more.

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Why do women often use indirect cues to show attraction?

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Women often use indirect cues to protect themselves from rejection and to maintain the mystery of attraction. These subtle signals allow them to gauge your interest without feeling too vulnerable.

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What are some common indirect cues that a woman is interested in you?

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Common indirect cues include:
- Prolonged eye contact.
- Subtle touches or lingering physical contact.
- Laughing at your jokes more than usual.
- Positioning herself closer to you.
- Playing with her hair or fidgeting.
- Giving you undivided attention in a social setting.

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How might men unknowingly reject themselves from women who are interested?

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Men might miss subtle signs of interest and assume the woman isn’t interested, leading them to back off or not pursue further. Recognizing and responding to these indirect cues can prevent self-rejection and help build a connection.

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Why is it important to bounce back to Phase 1 techniques during Phase 2?

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Bouncing back to Phase 1 techniques helps maintain the balance between building comfort and escalating attraction. It prevents the interaction from becoming too intense too quickly, allowing her to feel comfortable and safe while still being excited.

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How can the Boomerang technique be effectively used in Phase 2?

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In Phase 2, use the Boomerang technique by mixing more intimate touches and conversations with lighter, Phase 1 interactions. This unpredictability keeps the tension high and maintains her interest and excitement.

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When should you bounce back to Phase 1 during a high point in Phase 2?

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Bounce back to Phase 1 when you notice she’s enjoying more intimate touches or deeper conversations. For example, if you’re touching her in a more intimate area and she’s responding positively, switch to a lighter touch or casual conversation to keep her on edge.

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How can bouncing between Phases 1 and 2 reignite a woman’s primal attraction?

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Bouncing between Phases 1 and 2 stimulates her primal brain by creating a push-pull dynamic. This unpredictability taps into her instinctual desire for challenge and excitement, often increasing her attraction and interest.

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How do you manage escalation in Phase 2 without overwhelming her?

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To avoid overwhelming her, blend deeper emotional connections and light, playful interactions. Escalate gradually and pay attention to her responses, pulling back if she seems uncomfortable and re-engaging with lighter touches and conversations.

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How can you use feedback to perfect the bouncing technique?

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Use her verbal and non-verbal responses as feedback. If she’s enjoying the interaction, continue the balance of escalating and pulling back. If she seems uneasy or less engaged, return to more familiar, comfortable interactions from Phase 1.

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What are key signs that she’s ready to escalate beyond Phase 2?

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Key signs include:
- Actively participating in deeper, more intimate conversations.
- Reciprocating or initiating physical touch.
- Showing eagerness to spend more private time with you.
- Using “we” language and making future plans.
- Expressing strong reactions to your comments or actions.

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How does adding surprise elements help in Phase 2?

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Adding surprise elements keeps the interaction dynamic and exciting. It prevents predictability and keeps her engaged, heightening her anticipation and interest in what comes next.

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How should you adapt if she shows discomfort with Phase 2 interactions?

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If she shows discomfort, slow down the escalation and return to Phase 1 techniques. Focus on rebuilding trust and comfort through light touch and casual conversation before attempting to escalate again.