Self-Disclosure- Relationships (factors affecting attraction) Flashcards
what is self-disclosure?
refers to the extent to which a person reveals personal information about themselves to another person
-leads to greater intimacy between two people
A01- Altman and taylor
- social penetration theory, to explain how its a gradual process that helps relationship develop
- suggest to penetrate more deeply into each others lives, must disclose inner self more and more and must be reciprocal
-Two key elements: (onion analogy)
- breadth
- depth
as elements increase, romantic partners become more attached and committed to each other
What is the onion analogy?
like an onion, personalities have “layers”. The outside layer is what the public sees, and the core is one’s private self. When a relationship begins to develop, the individuals in the relationship may undergo a process of self-disclosure, progressing more deeply into the “layers”.
AO3- Strength- Spreacher and Hendrick
-and counterargument
studied heterosexual couples and found a strong positive correlation between measures of satisfaction and self-disclosure
BUT
-correlation doesn’t mean causation: don’t know if self-disclosure causes satisfaction
-lacks generalisability: only studied heterosexual couples
AO3- strength- Haas and Stafford
and counterargument
found that 57% of homosexual men and women stated that open and honest self-disclosure was the main way they maintained and deepened their relationships.
-real-life application: couples therapy, awareness of self disclosure
BUT
- was open ended surveys using thematic analysis: open endedness of questions, researcher is subjective to the responses. social desirability- making out relationship is better than it is
AO3- limitation Tang et al
reviewed research literature into sexual self-disclosure and found that American (individualistic) males and females disclosed more sexual thoughts and feelings than Chinese (collectivist) males and females. relationship satisfaction was high in both. -shows that self-disclosure is not a requirement for successful relationships in all cultures, making Social Penetration Theory culturally biased. (ethnocentric)
AO3- limitation, individual differences
theory doesnt account for individual differences. Personality affects whether self-disclosure increases the attractiveness of potential partners, as personality determines different needs for levels of intimacy within a relationship. This would affect how attractive they would find intimate disclosures.
(cant make sweeping generalisations)
- socially sensitive suggests insulting to people in society eg introverts- introverts may not communicate with partner- struggle to open up but may be happy to text rather than speaking