Self Confidence Flashcards

1
Q

What is self confidence?

A
  1. being secure in yourself and your abilities
  2. your ability to trust yourself, knowing you can experience any emotion without being harmed
  3. your overall opinion of yourself
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2
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where do you get your ability to trust yourself?

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it comes down to knowing you will do what you have said you will do - you will follow through on your plan and take care of yourself

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3
Q

if you can’t count on yourself, you will feel _______

A

insecure

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4
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the ability to trust yourself starts from __________ on your word to yourself

A

consistent follow through - your earn self confidence by keeping your word and doing what you say

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5
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what is the worst thing that can happen?

A

an emotion

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6
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when we are willing to experience any emotion and we know it’s the worst that can happen, we will be flooded with ________

A

self confidence

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7
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What generates or depletes self confidence?

A

what we think about ourselves

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8
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how is self confidence different than arrogance?

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arrogance is thinking you’re better than someone else and then trying to prove it ; arrogance comes from a place of creating false self confidence by trying to put others down

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9
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when you’re arrogant, you try to raise your opinion of yourself by…

A

comparing yourself with others and putting yourself down

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10
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when you’re arrogant, it comes from a lack of _________

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self confidence - arrogance is based on fear and not self-confidence

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11
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most criticism of others is usually__________

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projection = we compensate for our lack of confidence by trying to make ourselves better than someone else in our own minds

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12
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self confidence is practiced _______

A

self belief

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13
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when you’re self confident, do you rely on your abilities or your beliefs?

A

your beliefs

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14
Q

your identity is built on ________

A

your beliefs about yourself

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15
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increased self confidence comes from …

A

changing your thoughts about yourself

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16
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Your identity isn’t fixed. It’s created ______

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daily

17
Q

true or false - your brain produces self confidence naturally

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false, but it does produce fear, worry, and doubt

18
Q

we have to be willing to experience ______ consistently in order to be self confident

A

discomfort