RELATIONSHIPS AND FAMILIES Flashcards
WHAT are parents required to act towards their children and how are children supposed to act towards their parents
parents are required to respect their parents and children are required to honour their parents
what does the bible show the model of a family consists of
mother
father
and children
what does the catechism of the catholic church remind believers and what does it say
it says the family is the original cell of social life (2207)
it also reminds believers of the central importance of families in society
what does Christianity teach that help protect the stability of the family unit
teaches fidelity in a marriage relationship. this means to remain faithful to your spouse, not commiting adultury
what is fidelity
fidelity means to remain faithful and committed to your spouse, not commiting adultery
exodus 20:12
honour your father and your mother so that you may live long in the land your god is giving you
evidence in the bible to show that children should respect their mother and fathers
exodus 20:12
honour your father and your mother so that you may live long in the land your god is giving you
what churches teach that a marriage should only take place between man and women
Anglican
catholic
Methodist church
what blessings does marriage offer
procreation and the nurture of children
the correct place for sexual relations
help and comfort during all aspects of life
Christian attitudes towards marriage
All Christian Churches will very much support marriage. The Bible states that ‘it is not good for man to be alone’ (Genesis 2) and as such being in a union with another person who can show you love and support is deemed the perfect state for living.
The Roman Catholic Church believes that marriage is necessary to fulfil the command from God to ‘be fruitful and multiply’ (Genesis 1:28). Sex before a marriage is the sin of fornication and is sexually immoral, as such to fulfil this command a couple must marry and procreate. Sexual intercourse is a gift from God, it says in mark 10:7-9, married couples will become ‘one flesh’ this allows the couple to fully join together a marriage is needed for the coupe to enjoy this. Marriage is the most suitable relationship for bringing up children being the pattern for society. Roman Catholics view marriage as a life-long commitment, a sacrament that cannot be broken as evidenced by ‘till death do us part’.
In church of England churches it welcomes any heterosexual couple to marry in the church, whether they are Christian or baptised. the church also allows mixed faith marriages however the service remains unchanged and all vows are said in the presence of god
catholic or orthodox marriage services
in the catholic and orthodox church marriage is a sacrament
the catholic church believes that the act of marriage creates a unique, unbreakable bond between the couple, In the catholic church one of the couple must be baptised and one of the couples must be catholic
church of England marriage services
the church of England believe that a church wedding adds spiritual dimension to the marriage, as god is included
it welcomes any heterosexual couple to marry in the church, whether they are Christian or baptised. the church also allows mixed faith marriages however the service remains unchanged and all vows are said in the presence of god
non conformist marriage service
they are allowed to write their own vows rather than following vows set down by the church, this gives more emphasis on the couple saying things to god rather than on his own unique work through the act of marriage
quaker weddings
they have the belief that only god can join the couple together which means that they have no minister to lead the proceedings
the couple sit in silent worship with the congregation until they feel its the right time to say their vows
they then sign a quaker marriage certificate
evidence of marriage in the bible
mark 10; 7-9
the two will become one flesh
Christian responses to civil partnerships
the catholic church and the church of England do not perform civil partenerships because of their teachings about sexual relationships
both churches teach that marriage is the proper place in which sexual relationships should occur with the main role of sex being to create new life
however there are some Christians from across different denominations who believe that civil partnerships should be acceptable to the church, they believe that civil partnerships provide companionship unity and stability
which churches do not allow civil partnerships
catholic church and church of england
responses to same sex marriage
both the catholic church and the church of England do not carry out same sex marriages
the church of england church believe that marriage should be between, man and woman with one of its purposes being procreation
the catholic church is opposed to same sex marriage as they are concerned that it will have an harmful effects on society by undermining the value of heterosexual marriage
however the episcopal church voted to change its churches law and allow same sex marriage
pre marital sex and cohabitation
church of england accepts cohabitation including a sexual relationship is a step towards commitment to marriage
all Christians believe casual sex is wrong, one of the reasons being that the bible teaches that having sex outside a commited relationship is sinful
sex outside a marriage relationship is wrong by the cstholic church