Relationships Flashcards
Sexual selection
Drives partner preferences
- Males & females choose partners to maximise reproductive success
- Individuals with traits that maximise reproductive success are more likely to survive & pass on their genes
Anisogamy
The difference between how often men and women are able to reproduce. Leads;
- Men to use intra-sexual selection
- Women to use inter-sexual selection
Intra-sexual selection
Members of one sex (Typically male) compete for access to the other sex. This leads to male-female dimorphism
Dimorphism
Accentuation of secondary sexual characteristics in those with greater reproductive fitness
Anisogamy — Suggestion for men
The best evolutionary strategy is to have as many partners as possible
- Males may engage in mate guarding to prevent cuckoldry (Men are fearful of having to raise another mans child)
Inter-sexual selection
Members from one sex (usually female) choose from available prospective mates (Usually males) according to attractiveness
Anisogamy — Suggestions for women
The best evolutionary strategy is to be selective when choosing a partner
- Tend to seek males that display the characteristics of physical health, high status and resources
Therefore they can provide and protect
Strengths of the evolutionary explanation for partner preferences
- Buss conducted a survey of 10,000 adults in 33 countries and found that females value resource based characteristics, while men valued good looks and younger partners
- Clark and Hatfield conducted a study where male and female students approached fellow students (of the opposite sex) and asked them to go to bed with them. 75% of men accepted, while 0% of women did, however 50% agreed to a date
Weaknesses of the evolutionary explanation for partner preferences
- Determinsic & suggest we have little free will in choosing our partners
- Makes little attempt to explain other types of relationships eg homosexual, and cultural variations exist eg arranged marriage
- Approach is socially sensitive as it promotes traditionally sexist views regarding what is ‘natural’ and what is desired. Also ignores the existence of contraception
Self- disclosure
Revealing personal information (Thoughts, feelings, experiences) about yourself to another person
- Central concept in social penetration theory (Altman and Taylor)
- This proposes that gradually revealing emotions & experiences to another person increases trust & attraction
What does self disclosure look like at the beginning of a relationship, and after some time within the relationship?
Beginning: People only disclose superficial things
As time passes this deepens, as people begin to reveal more intimate details
Self-disclosing too quickly can reduce attraction
Reciprocal self disclosure
People expect the same level of self disclosure as given
Strengths of self disclosure
- Altman and Taylor found that self disclosure on the first date is inappropriate & the person is seen as maladjusted and not likeable
- Kito supported that self disclosure is present across cultures. Kito found that the level of self disclosure was high for both Japanese and American hetero couples
Weaknesses of self disclosure
- Sprecher found research evidence that the level of self disclosure received is the best predication of likening and loving, rather than the amount of self disclosure given — This goes against reciprocal self disclosure
- It seems unlikely that attraction is based off self disclosure alone. Self disclosure might be an important element but other factors, such as physical attraction, similarity of attitudes, and complementarity of needs might also be needed to increase attraction
Physical attractiveness
Men place a great deal of importance on physical attractiveness when choosing both a long and short term female partner
Women place more emphasis on physical attractiveness in the short term than the long term
Physical attractiveness varies across cultures & time