Quiz 10 Flashcards
People with what type of personality trait produce more conflict?
those who score high on neuroticism
T or F: By definition, conflict is a bad thing. It’s a mechanistic inevitability in interdependent bonds.
F: conflict is not necessarily bad
T or F: equality of solution is not the most constructive ( ex: taking turns showering everyday if both start work at 8:00am)
T
_____ report 2.3 conflicts per week and ____ experience 1-2 unpleasant disagreements each month.
dating couples, spouses
The amount of conflict people encounter is linked to
a. similarity
b. alcohol
c. stage of life
d.personality
e. response to negative comments
f. attachment style
a, b, c, d, f
___ over ___ attachment style makes conflict more threatening and more frequent
anxiety, abandonment
Who faces more conflict, old or younger couples?
younger bc still developing
The most common conflicts individuals have in a relationship are:
a. intimacy
b. children
c. money
d. chores
e. friends
f. communication
b,d,f
For lesbians, having children tend to ___ the risk of divorce for gay male couples sometimes there is ____ or ___ in the risk of dissolution
reduce, no effect, increase
In which country, do parents want to have a gender balance household, only want two children male and female?
a. India
b.U.S
c. Taiwan
d. China
c
There are two types of relationship beliefs, one of them being _____ beliefs: assume that two people are either well-suited for each other and destined to live happily ever after or they are not
destiny
There are two types of relationship beliefs, one of them being _____ beliefs: assume that good relationship are a result of hard work
growth
functional bonds have more ___ beliefs than ___ beliefs
growth, destiny
When a conflict occurs people who hold ___ beliefs respond more constructively, remaining more optimistic about the future and more committed to the relationship
growth
T or F: Based on Gottman love lab, when couples get into arguments they might need a 20-minute time out to calm down
T
Unhappy couples are more likely to engage in negative reciprocity which is when each individual feels a sense of ____ by engaging with their partner in a ____
reinforcement, a less constructive way
Happy couples follow partners negatives with ___ behaviors
neutral
If we take a look at the degree to which the wife is compliant over three years of marriage, there is a significant ____ in the wife’s satisfaction in marriage
decrease
If its the case that over the course of the three years, the husband was more compliant than the wife, then that predicts ____ in her overall satisfaction and ___ in his satisfaction as well
no change, no change
Found that over time (3 years since being newlyweds), when the ____ expressed more anger in year 1, & the ___ was compliant with the ___, they had a happier life by year 3.
wife, husband, wife
Those that show more ____, ____ for their partner tend to show ____ of a reduction in satisfaction over the course of the marriage
humor and care, less
Why are there no negative numbers in the graph that shows positive emotion?
bc there is no increase in satisfaction, only decreases over time.
Couples that argue often but they lack in ______ have the worst outcomes over four years
high positive emotion
____ couples tend to engage in more constructive conflict interaction relative to a ____couples
same-sex, heterosexual