Module 7: Lifespan View of Sexuality Flashcards
is sexuality the same throughout life
no
when is infancy
first year of life
when does the sexual response system begin to function
before birth
when do babies begin to have erections (male: penile, female: clitoral)
- in utero or infancy
- may be born with them or have them during the first few weeks
why do babies get erections
- response to stimulation
- NOT because of sexual arousal
why is it important for parents and caretakers to show physical affections and emotional support to infants
to create a basis for security and trust necessary for future intimate relationships
describe pelvic thrusting in infancy
- infants will thrust their pelvis forward as an expression of affection and/or excitement
- observed in infants at 8-10 months
when does touching and genital play begin
6-8 months
why do infants touch there genitals
- exploration of body through touch
- discovering stimulation causes pleasurable feelings
- NOT for sexual arousal
why is it important for parents to not overreact to infants touching their genitals
teaches shame and anxiety about that aspect of their body
what should parents do if they observe their child touching their genitals in public
- ignore it
- gently redirect them to something else
when is childhood
ages 2-12 years (ends at start of puberty)
is it normal for children to touch themselves and visually examine their own and other’s bodies
yes
why do children touch themselves and visually examine their own and other’s bodies
- exploring their body
- trying to understand why their body may look different to others
- NOT for sexual reasons
what percent of children aged 2-5 touch their sex parts in public
30%
describe the trend of children touching their sex parts in public as they age
decreases with age
what percent of children aged 2-5 touch their sex parts at home
78%
describe the trend of children touching their sex parts at home as they age
decreases with age
what percent of children aged 10-12 use words that describe sex acts
28%
describe the trend of children using words that describe sex acts as they age
increases with age
what percent of children aged 2-5 kiss other children not in the family
63%
describe the trend of children kissing other children not in the family as they age
decreases with age
what percent of children aged 10-12 are shy about undressing
32%
describe the trend of children being shy about undressing as they age
increases with age
what percent of children aged 2-5 “play doctor” with other children
53%
describe the trend of children “playing doctor” with other children as they age
decreases with age
list tips for parents regarding their child’s sexual behavior
- never respond negatively to typical infant and childhood behavior
- respond to a child’s question directly and honestly, and give only information requested
- respect their privacy
- help them understand that such sexual behaviors are private and not done publicly
how can you tell the difference between normal childhood sex play and abuse
- it is not always easy
- look at multiple signs (physical, behavioral, emotional)
list emotions that may become prevalent if a child is being sexually abused
- depression
- listlessness (no energy or excitement)
- withdrawing
- aggression
why do many children exhibit aggression if they are being abused
expression of feeling out of control
what are some signs that MAY point towards a child being abused
- forcing sex play with another child with a greater than 3-year age difference
- constant touching of adult’s genitals
- regressive behaviors: less independence, bed wetting
- physical signs: bruising, bleeding (especially in sexual organ areas)
how would you teach a child about the difference between “good touching” and “bad touching”
- teach consent
- should never be touched in a way that makes you feel bad
- swimsuit rule: people shouldn’t touch you in places that are covered by a swimsuit
when is adolescence
- between puberty and adulthood
- 12 to 22
when is preadolescence
9 to 13