Module 5: Love and Sexuality Flashcards
1
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what are the 3 elements of Robert Sternberg’s triangle of love
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- intimacy
- passion
- commitment
2
Q
define intimacy
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- emotional connectedness
- not sex
3
Q
define passion
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romantic feelings and physical sexual desire
4
Q
define commitmentt
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desire to maintain the relationship
5
Q
how many types of love are in Sternberg’s triangle of love
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8
6
Q
describe infatuation love
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- passion only
- lust
- heart rules head
- can become obsessed with “loved” one
- rejects advice from friends and family
7
Q
describe liking love
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- intimacy only
- desire to be connected to another person but not long term
- sex would ruin the friendship
- can grow to full love relationship (consummate love) and often is the start of strong marriage
8
Q
describe empty love
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- commitment only
- fallen out of love but stay together for children, finances, habit, etc.
- often one or both have affairs (physical or emotional)
9
Q
describe romantic love
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- passion and intimacy
- they are the one for you, for now
- often different lifetime plans/goals and/or different values
- personalities are often too much alike
- high school or college relationships
10
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describe companionate love
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- intimacy and commitment
- live together but no sex
- best friends
- may be result of dysfunction (emotional or physical) or perceived dysfunction
- sometimes not a mutual decision
- may start as consummate love but lose passion
11
Q
describe fatuous love
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- passion and commitment
- lose ability to communicate emotions
- big life changes can cause consummate love to become fatuous (kids, etc.)
12
Q
describe non-love
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no passion, intimacy, or commitment
13
Q
describe consummate love
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intimacy, passion, and commitment
14
Q
list expressions of intimacy
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- communicating feelings through deep conversations and being vulnerable
- sharing one’s possessions
- sharing oneself
- sharing one’s time
- offering emotional support
15
Q
list expressions of passion
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- kissing
- hugging
- touching
- having sex