microskills Flashcards

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microskills pyramid levels (bottom to top)

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  1. values (professional and personal)
  2. epistemology
  3. approach/theory
  4. skills
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what is the role of skills

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help the client to tell their story
develop the relationship
enable reflection and choice
create a new experience

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2 main types of microskills

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verbal and non-verbal

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essential non-verbal microskills

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attending

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essential verbal microskills

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minimal responses (verbal and non)
paraphrasing
questions
summarising
clarifying

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types of essential paraphrasing

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reflecting content
reflecting feelings

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types of questions

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transitional
probing
scaling
leading
circular

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what is attending

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physcially attending (SOLER)
expressiveness
mirroring posture

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what is the value of attending

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conveying availability and presence
supports sense of safety and comfort
encourages client to keep talking
helps us to be genuine
demonstrates empathy and compassion

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what do you need to be mindful of when attending

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agreeing
endorsing
stereotypical counsellor mannerism
not responsive to the client
fakeness

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types of listening blocks

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mind reading
rehearsing
filtering
judging
daydreaming
advising
sparring
being right
derailing
placating

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what is mind reading

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assuming you know what the other person feels and thinks without asking

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what is rehearsing

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planning what you want to say next and missing whats being said now

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what is filtering

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listening only to things that are important or relevant to you and ignoring the rest, even if its important to the other person

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what is judging

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evaluating the other person and what they said rather than really trying to understand how they see the world

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what is daydreaming

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getting caught in memories or fantasies while someone is talking to you

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what is advising

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looking for suggestions and solutions instead of listening and understanding

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what is sparring

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invalidating the other person by arguing and debating

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what is being right

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resisting and ignoring any communication that suggests you are wrong or should change

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what is derailing

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flat out changing the subjects as soons as you hear anything that bothers or threatens you

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what is placating

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agreeing too quickly without listening to the other persons feelings or concerns

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what are verbal minimal encourages

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one or 2 words, a phrase, an utterance
eg. yes, ok, mmhm

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what are nonverbal minimal encourgaes

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a movement
eg. a nod

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why do we use minimal encourages

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confirms that we are listening
encourages client to keep talking
emphasizes significance
establishes clarity

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what do we need to be mindful of when using minimal encourages

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agreeing
sympathising
consoling
patting on the back
endorsing
unconscious use of words

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what is reflection of content paraphrasing

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reflecting content is listening accurately to another person and reflecting the essence of the content of the communication to the other in your own words

27
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what does a good paraphrase do

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adds nothing, omits nothing, distorts nothing

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why do we use paraphrasing for reflection of content

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it lets the speaker know they have been heard, understood, cared for, and supported
provides feedback, promotes insight
clarify understanding
reduces repetition

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what do you need to be mindful of when paraphrasing for reflection of content

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parroting
interpreting
labeling
puting new ideas/thoughts into the clients head
taking the clients side

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what is reflection of feeling

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identifying the feelings and emotions in a persons verbal and body language and stating those feelings back to the client

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what is the counsellor doing in reflection of feeling

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acting as a mirror to the clients emotional state

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why do we use reflection of content

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bring vaguely expressed feelings into clearer awareness
validates feelings
helps people experience rather than avoid emotions
releases emotional pressure
facilitates the clients movement toward greater self-awareness and self-understanding
allows the other to move to deeper levels of expression at their own pace
deepens therapeutic relationship

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what do you need to be mindful of when reflection of feeling

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family and cultural backgrounds means feelings are expressed differently
our own experiences of emotions
timing
how we offer

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what is summarising

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ties together several ideas and descriptions of feelings into one statement

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how does summarising compare to paraphrasing

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broader and encompasses a longer period of conversation, than paraphrasing

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why do we summarise

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Sorts out disconnected material into more manageable units
Could indicate a turning point, a moment of self evaluation, identification of a goal, a strategic pause.

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Things to be mindful of when summarising

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Not always essential.
A re-run of what has been covered.
A tabulation of every issue that has been raised

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what is Clarifying

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Checking with the speaker that what is being heard and understood is accurate

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why do we clarify

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Helps develop shared understanding
Supports clients to identify values, beliefs, intentions, decisions

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Things to be mindful of when clarifying

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Narrowing the clarification
Clarifying too early

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what do open ended questions encourage people to do

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talk, provide you with maximum information and let the client head in the direction they want or need to take

42
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what do open ended questions relate to

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Often relate to feelings, thoughts and understandings tend to open the conversation up.

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what are closed questions

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Closed questions are questions that can be answered with a minimal response (often as little as “yes” or “no”).

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why are closed questions helpful

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They can help the counsellor to focus the client or gain very specific information

45
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what are transitional questions

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establishing connections, links; often to an earlier part of the discussion

46
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transitional question example

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For example, earlier you mentioned ***, I’m wondering how you are feeling about that now?

47
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what are probing questions

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meant to encourage clients to enlarge or expand on their initial response.

48
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example of probing questions

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Can you say more about that? / And what happened then? Could you describe that?

49
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what are circular questions

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perspective of the other

50
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example of circular questions

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For example, how do you imagine your brother would feel about ***?

51
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what are leading questions

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usually subtly, points the respondent’s answer in a certain direction.

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what are scaling questions

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Scaling questions help direct the session/conversation toward what clients want and what is most important to them.

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types of scaling questions

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introduction
current position
platform
earlier success
visualise
step forward

54
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what to be mindful of when scaling

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Bombardment/grilling
Multiple questions
Closing Down Questions
Questions as statements
Why questions

55
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important characteristics of feedback

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is invited rather than imposed
is specific
identifies the impact/effects
invites a joining/collaboration

56
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things to avoid when offering feedback

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absolute statements that position the feedback giver as the expert
blame and judgement
evaluation