managing conflict Flashcards
what is a conflict?
a natural disagreement resulting from individuals or groups that differ in attitudes, beliefs, values or needs
what can healthy conflict lead to?
-growth and innovation
-new ways of thinking
-additional management options
what are the ingredients of conflict?
-needs - conflicts arise when we ignore others needs
-perceptions
-power - how people define and use power
-values- not clear beliefs and principles
-feelings/emotions -many people let feelings and emotions influence how they deal with conflict
describe the conflict process
-has different phases
-latent phase- there is conflict, but it hasn’t surfaced yet
-perceived - one or more party is aware of conflict
-felt - feelings come into play eg anger, frustration, stress
-manifest- action is undertaken eg formal complaint, or discussion or disagreement
- aftermath - the outcome of conflict - positive or negative
what is intrapersonal conflict?
conflict that occurs within the person, involves an internal struggle to clarify contradictory values or wants
what is interpersonal conflict?
-occurs between 2 or more people with different values, goals and beliefs
what is intergroup conflict?
-happens between groups of people, departments and organisations
how do you deal with conflict?
- if the conflict is understood, it can be effectively managed by reaching a consensus that meets everyones needs
what is a dual concern theory?
Dual Concern Theory explains how people handle conflict based on two main factors:
Concern for Self: How much someone wants to achieve their own goals.
Concern for Others: How much they care about the other person’s goals and the relationship.
what are examples of conflict management strategies?
-competing
-accommodating
-withdrawing
-compromising
-collaborating
what is avoiding conflict?
when the parties involved chose to ignore situation and do not attempt to resolve it
what are examples of reasons to avoid conflict?
-to let people cool down and regain perspective
-may be unable to handle the conflict
-fair resolution may not be possible
what is obliging / accommodation?
giving way- 1 party sacrifices beliefs and needs to allow the other side to win
-win loose scenario
why would obliging / accommodation happen?
-the other party has more at stake in the situation than you do
-you feel that continuing to press an issue would do more harm than good
-you know you are in the wrong
what are pros and cons of accommodation?
pros:
-can help protect your interest in another area
cons:
-people may take advantage of you if you are seen to be accommodating