managing conflict Flashcards
what is a conflict?
a natural disagreement resulting from individuals or groups that differ in attitudes, beliefs, values or needs
what can healthy conflict lead to?
-growth and innovation
-new ways of thinking
-additional management options
what are the ingredients of conflict?
-needs - conflicts arise when we ignore others needs
-perceptions
-power - how people define and use power
-values- not clear beliefs and principles
-feelings/emotions -many people let feelings and emotions influence how they deal with conflict
what is intrapersonal conflict?
conflict that occurs within the person, involves an internal struggle to clarify contradictory values or wants
what is interpersonal conflict?
-occurs between 2 or more people with different values, goals and beliefs
what is intergroup conflict?
-happens between groups of people, departments and organisations
how do you deal with conflict?
- if the conflict is understood, it can be effectively managed by reaching a consensus that meets everyones needs
what is a dual concern theory?
Dual Concern Theory explains how people handle conflict based on two main factors:
Concern for Self: How much someone wants to achieve their own goals.
Concern for Others: How much they care about the other person’s goals and the relationship.
what are examples of conflict management strategies?
-competing
-accommodating
-withdrawing
-compromising
-collaborating
what is avoiding conflict?
when the parties involved chose to ignore situation and do not attempt to resolve it
what are examples of reasons to avoid conflict?
-to let people cool down and regain perspective
-may be unable to handle the conflict
-fair resolution may not be possible
what is obliging / accommodation?
giving way- 1 party sacrifices beliefs and needs to allow the other side to win
-win loose scenario
why would obliging / accommodation happen?
-the other party has more at stake in the situation than you do
-you feel that continuing to press an issue would do more harm than good
-you know you are in the wrong
what are pros and cons of accommodation?
pros:
-can help protect your interest in another area
cons:
-people may take advantage of you if you are seen to be accommodating
describe integration / collaboration
-assertive and co-operative means of conflict resolution
-the interests of all stakeholders carry equal value