intimacy n sexuality Flashcards
Intimate relationships are important throughout the life span, but they are of particular importance in adolescence. why?
- The first truly intimate relationships emerge, characterized by openness, honesty, self-disclosure, and trust.
- The increasing importance of peers, particularly other-sex peers.
- The fundamental biological, cognitive, and social changes of adolescence.
how does puberty lead to increased intimacy?
Changes in sexual impulses provoke interest in sex, which leads to development of romantic relationships.
Some adolescents are hesitant to discuss sex and dating with parents and turn to relationships outside the family.
how is cognitive change related to intimacy in adolescence?
1) advances in thinking permits r/s with greater:
empathy
self-disclosure
sensitivity
2) advances in thinking contributes to loneliness if they perceive themselves as socially isolated
3) maturation of connections among brain regions involved in decision-making, emotional experience and processing social info leads to improvements in interpersonal competence
how is the change in social roles related to intimacy in adolescence?
1) behavioural independence allows for more opportunities for adolescents to be with friends and engage in intimate discussion
2) recognition of adolescents as “near adults” may prompt parents and other adults to confide in and turn to them for support
3) younger teenagers interact with older ones, leading to new types of peer r/s
maturation of _______ among brain regions involved in decision-making, emotional experience and processing social info leads to improvements in __________-
connections; interpersonal competence
what does Sullivan’s Theory of Interpersonal Development emphasize?
social aspects of development (less biological)
focuses on transformations in the adolescent’s r/s with others
what are the 2 theories of intimacy and sexuality development in adoslecents?
- Sullivan’s Theory of Interpersonal Development
- attachment theory
under Sullivan’s Theory of Interpersonal Development, what are the stages of interpersonal needs?
Infancy (0–1 year)
Need: Tenderness from caregiver
Focus on physical contact, security, and relief from anxiety.
Childhood (1–5 years)
Need: Adult participation
Importance of play and communication. Relationships with adults shape self-system.
Juvenile (6–8 years)
Need: Peer interaction
Learning social rules, cooperation, and compromise.
Preadolescence (9–12 years)
Need: Close same-gender friendships
Emotional intimacy, trust, and loyalty begin to develop.
Early Adolescence (13–17 years)
Need: Acceptance and intimacy with opposite gender
Puberty leads to new interpersonal needs (e.g., romantic interest).
Late Adolescence (18–early 20s)
Need: Long-term love and partnership
Deeper, more stable relationships; self-identity solidifies.
under Sullivan’s Theory of Interpersonal Development, describe stage 5.
stage name
age
need
Early Adolescence (13–17 years)
Need: Acceptance and intimacy with opposite gender
Puberty leads to new interpersonal needs (e.g., romantic interest).
under Sullivan’s Theory of Interpersonal Development, describe stage 6.
stage name
age
need
Late Adolescence (18–early 20s)
Need: Long-term love and partnership
Deeper, more stable relationships; self-identity solidifies.
under Sullivan’s Theory of Interpersonal Development, describe stage 4.
stage name
age
need
Preadolescence (9–12 years)
Need: Close same-gender friendships
Emotional intimacy, trust, and loyalty begin to develop.
when interpersonal needs are satisfied there will be feelings of _____. if not, there will be __________.
security; anxiety
sullivan viewed psychosocial development as __________. Frustrations and satisfactions during ____ periods affect _____ r/s and identity development.
cumulative; earlier; later
according to sullivan, a solid foundation of security in past r/s aids in what?
successful interpersonal transitions
describe interpersonal development during adolescence
- need for intimacy > romantic/sexual r/s
- Capacity for intimacy first develops in same-sex relationships (e.g., age 11).
- Quality of same-sex friendships predictive of quality of later romantic relationships (reverse not true).
- The challenge is to transition between nonsexual, intimate same-sex friendships to sexual, intimate other-sex friendships of late adolescence in a way that does not lead to excessive anxiety.
In adolescents, quality of same-sex friendships is predictive of quality of later romantic relationships. is the reverse true?
no, romantic r/s don’t predict same-sex friendships
what is the main challenge in interpersonal development during adolescence?
transition from nonsexual, intimate same-sex friendships
to sexual, intimate other-sex friendships of late adolescence
in a way that does not lead to excessive anxiety
define attachment in infancy
strong affectional bond btwn infant and caregiver
what are the 4 attachment styles in infancy? what are they characterised by?
secure
- trust
- healthy
anxious-avoidant
- indifference on part of infant toward caregiver
anxious-resistant
- distress at separation, anger at reunion (ambivalence)
disorganised
- Absence of normal attachment behavior
- most at risk for psychological problems
Does Infant Attachment Predict Adolescent Intimacy? how so?
yes.
- Internal working model: interpersonal r/s that we employ throughout life are shaped by early attachment experiences
- interpersonal development is cumulative: Infancy affects early childhood, which affects middle childhood and so on.
what is this model called? interpersonal r/s that we employ throughout life are shaped by early attachment experiences
Internal working model
name the internal working model and consequences for each attachment style.
1) secure
2) insecure (the other 3)
1)
Internal working model: positive n healthy
consequences: more satisfying intimate r/s in adolescence and adulthood
2)
internal working model: less positive
consequences:
- rejection sensitivity: heightened vulnerability to being rejected by others
- Linked to depression and anxiety, which further increases rejection sensitivity
what is rejection sensitivity?
Heightened vulnerability to being rejected by others
a consequence of insecure attachment style in infancy
linked to depression and anxiety, which further increases rejection sensitivity
what is adult attachment interview
A structured interview used to assess an individual’s past attachment history and “internal working model” of relationships.