intimacy Flashcards
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area of particular importance
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- intimate relationships = open, honest, self disclosure, trust
- development = normative bio, cog, and social changes
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puberty and development of intimacy
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- changes in sexual impulses provoke interest in sex, leading to development of romantic relationships
- some are hesitant to discuss sex or dating with parents
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cog changes and development of intimacy
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- advances in thinking permit relationships with greater empathy, self disclosure, and sensitivity
- maturation of connections among brain regions foes hard in hand with improvements in interpersonal competence
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changes in social rols and development of intimacy
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- behavioural independence provides more opportunity for intimate discussion
- “near adults”, ados become confidants, source of support for parents and other adults
- relationships gradually transform from the friendly but active-ortiented friendships of childhood to the more self-conscious, analytical, and intimate relationships of adulthood
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sullvan’s theory
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- less bio than other theoriest
- empasis on social aspects of growth
- charted stages of interpersonal needs
- security derived from having satisfying relationships is the glue that hold one’s sense of self together
- psychosocial development is cumulative
- a solid foundation of security in past relationships aids in successful interpersonal transitions
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interpersonal development during ado
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- need for intimacy precedes development of romantic or sexual relationships
- capacity for intimacy first develops in same sex relationships
- quality of same sex friendships predictive of quality of later romantic relationships
- the challenge is to transition between nonsexual intimate, relationships to sexual relationships of late ado
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erikson v. sullivan
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- erikson: intimacy v. isolation (identity first, then intimacy)
- sullivan: need to have intimacy to develop an identity
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attachment (is, secure, anxious-avoidant, anxious-resistant, disorganized)
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- is: the strong affectional bond that develops between an infant and a caregiver
- secure: a healthy attachment between infant and caregiver, char by trust
- a-a: an insecure attachment between infant and caregiver, char by indifference on the part of the infant towards the caregiver
- a-r: an insecure attachment between infant and caregiver, char by distress at separation and anger at reunion
- dis: a relationship between infant and caregiver char by the absense of normal attachment behaviour
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attachment theory: 2 main questions
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- is there a link between the quality of attachment formed in infancy and mental health or behaviour in ado
- can the same framework used to char relationships in infancy be used to char interpersonal relationships in ado
10
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does infant attachment predict ado intimacy?
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- some argue that the attachment relationship forms the basis for the model of interpersonal relationships employed throughout life
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internal working model, rejection sensitivity
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- iwm: the implicit expectations of interpersonal relationships that an individual empliys throughout life, believed to be shaped by early attachment experiences
- rs: heightened vulnerability to being rejected by others
- high rejection sensititvy and emotional insecurity are linked to depression and anxiety, which lead to futher increases in rejection sensitivity
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interpersonal development is cumulative
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- infancy affects early childhood, which affects middle childhood, ect
- people who had secure infancy may be on a different interpersonal trajectory than those who did not
- is is possible for interpersonal development to be cimulative without the root cause being the individual’s internal working model
- there are mixed study results concerning a direct link between infant attachment and the quality of interpersonal relationships
13
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jealousy
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- a pattern of change takes place during middle ado
- concerns about loyalty and anxieties over rejection become more pronounced and may temp overshadow concerns about intimate self-disclosure
- older ado typically have conflicts over public disrespect
- girls in particular show a pronounced increase in jealousy over their freinds’ friends during early ado
- this pattern of change may be related to the transition into other sex relationships
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conflict
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- ados close friendships also are distinguished from their casual friendships in the types of conflicts they have and the ways in which disagreements are resolved
- more emotional with lots of anger and hurt feelings
- more likely to provoke efforts to restore the relationship than is conflict between casual friends
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knowing who their friends are
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- ados gain knowledge about more intimate aspects of their friends’ lives
- reports of friendship quality increase steadily
- high levels of online social networking are linked to less social isolation
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ado have _ comapred to kids
(4)
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- helpful and generous
- responsive to close friends
- empathic and socially understanding
- focused on providing support